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Only the relative terrible, there is no absolute terrible, and the post-70s and post-80s began to regret that there is no most terrible, only more terrible.
1. I am very tired, and it will not be easy for my children to grow up.
The post-70s and post-80s generations gradually recognized that not marrying and having children was a helpless choice, and if they were so tired that they had no place to be ashamed, even if they gave birth to the next generation, they would watch the next generation suffer. Having one more child will cost countless more, and the cost of childbirth and parenting is immeasurable.
Netizen message: I am a post-70s generation who grew up with my children, but I regret it. Although the times are advancing, I still feel as tired as ever, my children have gone through school, and when they reach the age of talking about marriage, although they have paid a lot before, they are small compared to the follow-up efforts. Both I and my children have a scripture that is difficult to read.
Comments: Parents of the post-70s and post-80s generations do not hit the south wall and do not look back, if they cannot provide their children with more resources that keep pace with the times, they will regret wanting to have children in the first place.
2. I have done everything for my children, but my children do not know how to be grateful.
Parents of the post-70s and post-80s generations will never keep their contributions to their children, even if they do everything they have, and even overdraft their future human, material and financial resources. When I reached middle age, I heard and witnessed that most of the children were ungrateful, but there were not a few children who intensified their efforts to gnaw at the elderly, so I didn't dare to imagine the situation of being helpless in old age.
Netizen message: If my wife and I had not had children at the beginning, the money saved would at least allow my wife and me to have no worries about food and clothing in old age. But since my wife and I had children, we have continued to contribute money and efforts for our children, and when we need them to reciprocate, my children have ignored me and my wife.
Comments: Some people say that the post-70s and post-80s generations are the last generation of filial piety to their parents, and they are still the first generation abandoned by their children.
Third, the future is uncertain, and it is possible to follow the ups and downs anytime and anywhere.
If the economic foundation is lacking, if you can afford to give birth, you may not be able to afford to raise it, you may not be able to afford to raise it, you may not be able to afford to teach, you may not be able to afford to talk about marriage, you may be able to afford to get married. Since the economic base determines the superstructure, the weaker the economic base and the higher the superstructure, the more crumbling it will be.
Netizen Message: I now have a mortgage and a car loan, and having children is an increasing pressure for me. If I had to find a new choice, with my current economic situation, I would have fewer children if I could, and no children if I could, but there were no ifs, only results and consequences, and now I have to catch ducks on the shelves.
Comments: There are not a few people who are confused after the 70s and 80s, who once thought that they were the right choice, questioned the wrong decisions of others, and waited until the crossroads of life, and when they reached the climbing section, they would hesitate, even if they knew that they could not regret it, they would regret not being at the beginning.
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