Li Fang sat in a rocking chair on the balcony, holding an old book in her hand, but her mind was not at all on the words. After retirement, the days were as calm as water, and she and Zhang Qiang relied on a monthly retirement salary of 6,000 yuan to live a simple and orderly life. The flowers in the yard bloomed and thanked, thanked and bloomed, as if witnessing every detail of their peaceful life.
"Wife, what are you going to eat at noon today?" Zhang Qiang's voice came from the kitchen, interrupting Li Fang's thoughts.
"Just eat the fish you bought yesterday and stir-fry some greens. Li Fang replied, her eyes still looking at the flowers and plants in the yard.
Zhang Qiang is an honest and responsible person, and his life after retirement did not make him feel uncomfortable, but enjoyed the tranquility even more. He loves to cook and loves to watch Li Fang eat the food he cooks, which makes him feel satisfied.
"Mom, I'm back!" Zhang Li's voice broke the silence of this small home. She had just returned from the company with a hint of exhaustion on her face.
"Lily, how is the work, is it still going well?" Li Fang asked with concern.
"That's it, Mom, the pay is not high, but you can learn. Zhang Li said, put the bag on the sofa, and walked into the kitchen.
Zhang Li's job is not ideal, and her monthly salary is not much left except for rent and daily expenses. As a result, she had to rely on her parents' pension to support herself.
"Dad, what did you cook delicious today?" Zhang Li asked with a smile, looking at the busy Zhang Qiang.
"Your favorite braised fish, as well as greens. Zhang Qiang replied with a smile, and the shovel in his hand kept stirring.
At the dinner table, the three of them sat around and enjoyed this simple and warm dinner. Li Fang looked at her daughter and was a little worried. She knew that going on like this for a long time would not be a good thing for Zhang Li. She wanted to discuss with Zhang Qiang, but she was worried that he would not agree.
"Hadron, I have an idea. When Li Fang cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks after dinner, she whispered to Zhang Qiang.
"What do you think?" asked Zhang Qiang as he wiped the table.
"I don't think we can keep giving money to Lily like this, she needs to learn to be independent. Li Fang said what she thought.
Zhang Qiang stopped what he was doing, glanced at Li Fang, was silent for a moment, and said, "Let's take a look again, she is still young and needs our help." ”
Li Fang didn't say anything more, but she had already made a decision in her heart. She decided to find a suitable time to have a good talk with Zhang Li.
At night, Li Fang lay on the bed, looking at the ceiling, full of thoughts. She knew that the decision would not be easy, but she believed that it was the best choice for her daughter.
Li Fang was lying on the bed, tossing and turning, she knew that she and Zhang Qiang needed to have a good talk with their daughter. Early the next morning, Li Fang said to Zhang Qiang: "Husband, I think we should talk to Lily, it's not a way to go on like this." ”
Zhang Qiang frowned, he knew that what Li Fang said was right, but he still couldn't bear to see his daughter suffer: "Wife, Lily is still young, let's help her again." ”
"But we can't help her for the rest of our lives. Li Fang insisted.
Zhang Qiang sighed, he knew that Li Fang was telling the truth, but he still couldn't bear it: "Okay, then let's find a time to talk to Lily." ”
A few days later, Zhang Li returned home and found that her parents' expressions were a little serious. She asked a little apprehensively, "Dad, Mom, what's wrong?"
Li Fang took a deep breath and said, "Lily, we want to talk to you about your financial situation. ”
Zhang Li was stunned, she didn't expect her parents to suddenly ask this question. She was a little embarrassed and said, "Mom, I know I've been using your money, but I'll pay you back as soon as possible." ”
"Not that question, Lily. Li Fang said, "We hope you can learn to be independent and not rely on us all the time." ”
Zhang Li lowered her head, she knew that what her parents said was right, but she was still a little scared: "Mom, I know, but I ......"
"Lily, we're not trying to drive you away. Zhang Qiang interrupted her, "We just hope that you can have your own plans and don't always rely on us." ”
Zhang Li was silent, she knew that her parents were for her good, but she was still a little confused. She didn't know what to say, so she nodded silently.
At night, Zhang Li lay in bed, tossing and turning and couldn't sleep. She knew her parents were right, but she was still a little scared. She didn't want to disappoint her parents, but she didn't know what to do about it.
The next day, Zhang Li woke up early, and she decided to talk to her parents. She walked to her parents' room and knocked on the door, "Dad, Mom, can I come in?"
"Come in. Li Fang's voice came from the room.
Zhang Li walked into the room, she looked at her parents, took a deep breath, and said, "Dad, Mom, I want to talk to you." ”
Li Fang and Zhang Qiang glanced at each other, they knew that this was an important moment for their daughter's growth.
Zhang Li's setbacks in the workplace weighed on her like a heavy stone. She worked hard every day, but she was never recognized, which made her feel more lost and powerless than ever. Whenever this happens, she always unconsciously thinks of the warm embrace and unconditional support of her parents.
"Daughter, are you back?" Li Fang heard the door knock, poked her head out of the kitchen, and saw Zhang Li walking in listlessly.
"Yes, Mom. Zhang Li barely squeezed out a smile and threw her handbag on the sofa casually.
Li Fang noticed her daughter's strange appearance, she put down the kitchen knife in her hand, walked to Zhang Li's side, and asked softly, "What's wrong, Lili?
Zhang Li shook her head, not wanting her mother to worry, but the confusion in her eyes couldn't escape Li Fang's eyes. Li Fang sighed, she knew that her daughter needed more than comfort.
At the same time, when Li Fang was sorting out her housework, she stumbled upon some of Zhang Li's consumption bills, which were so large that she couldn't help frowning. She began to question whether the money she gave her daughter each month was really being used for what it was.
In the evening, when Zhang Qiang returned home, Li Fang told him about it. After hearing this, Zhang Qiang was silent for a while and said, "Wife, I think we may need to reconsider the way we support Lily. ”
"I think so too," Li Fang nodded, "but how are we going to talk to her?"
The discussion between the two was overheard by Zhang Li, and she felt both surprised and guilty. She realized that she might be too dependent on her parents. That night, Zhang Li lay in bed tossing and turning, thinking about her future.
The next day, Li Fang and Zhang Qiang decided to hold a family meeting. They wanted to sit down with Zhang Li and talk about her future and how her family could support her.
"Lily, we want to talk to you today about your future. Zhang Qiang spoke first, and his tone was as gentle as possible.
"Dad, Mom, I'm ......" Zhang Li stopped talking, she knew she had to face this problem.
"We're not trying to reproach you, daughter. Li Fang held Zhang Li's hand, "We just want to know what you think and see how we can help you." ”
Zhang Li took a deep breath, she knew that this was an important moment. She began to slowly talk about her confusion and worries about the future, while also expressing her desire to be more independent.
This family meeting lasted a long time, and the conversation between the three was full of emotion and understanding. While there is no final answer yet, at least, they have already started this important conversation.
After that in-depth family meeting, Zhang Li began to think seriously about her future. She realizes that her parents' concerns are out of love for her, and that she needs to start learning to be independent. Zhang Li decided to gradually reduce her dependence on her parents through her own efforts.
"Mom, I want to find a part-time job to increase my income. Zhang Li said to Li Fang and Zhang Qiang at a dinner.
Li Fang and Zhang Qiang looked at each other and smiled, they were pleased with their daughter's change. "Lily, we support you, but also pay attention to the body. Li Fang said softly.
Zhang Qiang also nodded in agreement: "Yes, daughter, we don't want you to work too hard." ”
Zhang Li responded with a smile: "I know, Dad." But I want to try, I want to prove that I can. ”
In the days that followed, Zhang Li became busier, but her eyes shone with determination. She found a part-time job outside of work, which was hard but also made her feel more fulfilled and proud than ever.
Li Fang and Zhang Qiang saw it in their eyes, and they felt both comforted and a little heartache in their hearts. They know that their daughter is going through growing pains, but this is also a process she has to go through.
A few months later, Zhang Li took her first salary and ran home excitedly. "Mom and Dad, look! this is my own money!" she said excitedly.
Li Fang and Zhang Qiang looked at the salary in their daughter's hands, and their hearts were mixed. They are proud of their daughter's accomplishments, but they also realize that her daughter has really grown up.
"Lily, we're so proud of you. Li Fang's eyes were slightly red, and she hugged her daughter tightly.
Zhang Qiang also said with emotion: "Yes, daughter, you have really grown up." We will continue to support you, but the road ahead, you have to go on your own. ”
Zhang Li nodded seriously, she knew that this was a new starting point in her life.
At the end of the story, Li Fang looked at the birds flying in the sky during a walk, and had many insights in her heart. She realised that as parents, they should not only give their children love and support, but also let go at the right time so that their children can learn to face life independently. This is the responsibility of parents and the deepest love for their children.