The sunlight shone on Li Ting's face through the gap in the curtains, and she opened her eyes and looked at the bright spring light outside the window, her heart was full of longing for the future. Today is the first official visit to Zhang Qiang's home after she and Zhang Qiang got engaged, and she will discuss the details of the marriage with her future husband.
"Tingting, are you awake? Hurry up, we have to go to Zhang Qiang's house early. Mother's voice came from outside the door, with a subtle hint of nervousness.
Li Ting quickly got dressed and walked out of the room. At the dinner table, the parents had already prepared breakfast, but apparently, everyone had little appetite. The father patted her hand lightly and said earnestly: "Tingting, when you come to the Zhang family, you must respect their customs, and remember that no matter what happens, we are your strongest backing." ”
Li Ting nodded, and a warm current surged in her heart. She knows that no matter how bumpy the road ahead is, the love of her family will always be her most solid support.
Soon, Zhang Qiang's car stopped downstairs at Li Ting's house. He was wearing a crisp suit and looked particularly energetic. Seeing Li Ting, he walked forward quickly and said gently: "Tingting, you are so beautiful today." ”
The two drove to Zhang Qiang's house. Along the way, Li Ting's mood was both nervous and excited, and she constantly imagined every person and scene in Zhang Qiang's family. She knew it was not just a simple visit, but the beginning of a new chapter in her life.
Zhang Qiang's home is located on the other side of the city, a quaint courtyard house, which is planted with all kinds of flowers and plants, which is particularly elegant. As soon as Li Ting got out of the car, Zhang's mother greeted her, wearing a delicate cheongsam and a kind smile on her face.
"Tingting, welcome to our home. Mother Zhang took Li Ting's hand and said kindly.
Li Ting felt a burst of warmth, and she responded with a smile: "Thank you, future mother-in-law, it's so beautiful here." ”
Zhang's mother took Li Ting to visit the entire courtyard, and every place revealed the family's cultural heritage and life taste. Li Ting noticed that every member of the Zhang family gave her a friendly look, which made her feel very relieved.
At lunchtime, the Zhang family's dining table was full of sumptuous dishes, and everyone sat around in a very harmonious atmosphere. Zhang Qiang served Li Ting vegetables from time to time, and asked her about her taste with concern, and Li Ting felt very happy.
However, in these warm interactions, Li Ting is still keenly aware of some subtle cultural differences. The Zhang family's eating habits, lifestyle, and even some subtle words and deeds are different from her own family. She began to realize that integrating into a new family was not an easy task.
Although she was a little uneasy in her heart, Li Ting still tried her best to adjust her mentality, she knew that as long as the two loved each other, any difficulties could be overcome. She is determined to become a qualified daughter-in-law of the Zhang family, and together with Zhang Qiang, she will create a happy future together.
Li Ting was determined to become a qualified daughter-in-law of the Zhang family, but she soon discovered that it was not easy to integrate into the Zhang family. In the small things of daily life, she began to feel the difference in values and living habits with Zhang Qiang's family. For example, the Zhang family's eating habits are more flavorful, while Li Ting prefers light, and the Zhang family likes weekend parties, while Li Ting is used to quiet family time.
One night, Zhang's mother took Li Ting's hand and said earnestly: "Tingting, I know that you young people have your own ideas, but there has always been a tradition in our family, that is, the daughter-in-law is responsible for the big and small things in the family. When Li Ting heard this, she couldn't help but feel pressure and constraints in her heart, and she began to worry about whether she could be qualified for this role.
As time passed, Li Ting and Zhang Qiang began to discuss the living arrangements after marriage. On a number of key issues, the two men disagreed. Zhang Qiang hopes that Li Ting will be more involved in the management of the family business, while Li Ting hopes to continue her work and maintain a certain degree of independence. The discussion between the two did not reach a consensus in the end, which made Li Ting feel a little lost.
At a family gathering, Li Ting overheard some unknown secrets of the Zhang family. It turns out that behind the glamorous appearance of the Zhang family to outsiders, there are many unknown bitterness and challenges. Li Ting was shocked and disappointed, she began to question her and Zhang Qiang's future, and felt confused about her future married life.
After some inner struggle, Li Ting decided to have a frank conversation with Zhang Qiang. She expressed her concerns and feelings in the hope of finding a mutually acceptable solution. However, Zhang Qiang's reaction made Li Ting more determined to withdraw from the marriage. Zhang Qiang could not understand Li Ting's concerns, and he believed that Li Ting should adapt more to the Zhang family's lifestyle than try to change it.
After this conversation, Li Ting's mood became very heavy. She began to realize that the difference between herself and Zhang Qiang was not only the difference in living habits, but also the difference in values and life goals. She doesn't want to give up her ideals and pursuits, and she doesn't want to be a wife who will only be submissive. After careful consideration, Li Ting made a difficult decision - to withdraw from the marriage.
Li Ting's days at Zhang's house passed day by day, and she struggled to adapt to this new environment, but some subtle differences in living habits began to appear. The Zhang family's breakfast was always greasy, and she was used to congee, and the Zhang family liked to get together to play cards in the evenings, while she preferred to read or rest early. Although these small differences do not cause big friction, they make Li Ting feel uncomfortable.
Zhang's mother's expectations for Li Ting are also gradually revealed. Once, Zhang's mother took Li Ting's hand and said: "Tingting, after you get married, our family's account book will be handed over to you, and the woman will take care of the accounts, so that the family can prosper." When Li Ting heard this, she couldn't help but feel pressure in her heart, she had her own career and didn't want to live the life of a full-time housewife.
Li Ting and Zhang Qiang began to discuss the living arrangements after marriage. Zhang Qiang hopes that Li Ting will devote more herself to the family business, while Li Ting hopes to continue her work at the publishing house. The disagreement between the two on this issue made Li Ting feel a little uneasy.
At a family gathering of the Zhang family, Li Ting overheard some conversations, which gave her a new understanding of the Zhang family. It turns out that behind the scenery of the Zhang family in the eyes of outsiders, there are unknown difficulties and challenges. Li Ting was shocked and a little disappointed, and she began to question whether she was really fit to be part of the family.
Li Ting's heart began to struggle, and she felt confused about her future married life. She didn't want to give up her career dreams and she didn't want to be a wife who was just submissive. After much deliberation, Li Ting decided to have a frank conversation with Zhang Qiang.
On a quiet evening, Li Ting said to Zhang Qiang: "Qiang, we really need to have a good talk. I feel lost, I don't know if I'll be able to adapt to your family's lifestyle. Zhang Qiang was a little surprised when he heard this, he didn't expect Li Ting to feel like this.
Li Ting continued: "I have my own career dreams and I don't want to fully devote myself to the family business. I hope we can find a balance. Zhang Qiang was silent for a while, and then said, "Tingting, I understand your thoughts, but I think you should think more about family." ”
After this conversation, Li Ting felt deeply disappointed. Zhang Qiang's reaction made her realize that the difference in values between the two may be even greater than she imagined. She began to seriously consider whether she should continue the relationship or not.
Li Ting returned to her home with a heavy heart, her face full of exhaustion and loss. When the parents saw this, they knew that things were not going well. In the cozy living room, Li Ting confided in her parents everything she had experienced at Zhang Qiang's house, including those unknown secrets and Zhang Qiang's expectations for married life.
Li Ting's father, a gentle middle-aged man, was silent for a moment after hearing this, and then said slowly: "Tingting, we respect your decision, and your happiness is what we care about the most. Li Ting's mother also held her daughter's hand, her eyes full of love and support: "No matter what you choose, we will be by your side." ”
Li Ting felt a warm current in her heart, and the support of her family made her feel great comfort. She began to reflect on her needs and expectations, and gained a deeper understanding of family and marriage. She recognizes that personal happiness is just as important as self-fulfillment, and she doesn't want to sacrifice her dreams to cater to the expectations of others.
At the same time, Zhang Qiang also began to reflect deeply after experiencing a dialogue with Li Ting. He realizes his family's problems and that his expectations of Li Ting may be too selfish. Zhang Qiang decided to start working on change, hoping to win back Li Ting's heart, and he began to learn how to better understand and respect Li Ting's feelings and needs.
A few days later, Zhang Qiang came to Li Ting's house, hoping to talk to her again. With sincerity and determination, he expressed his reflection and change to Li Ting. However, Li Ting has already made a decision, and she is grateful to Zhang Qiang for his understanding and efforts, but she knows that some cracks cannot be repaired.
At the end of the story, Li Ting starts a new life with hope for the future and self-awareness. Although love failed to work out, she gained support from her family and personal growth. She believes that one day, she will meet the partner with whom she can grow and respect each other.