The best people for you are the ones who see through you and are still willing to stay
Introduction: Haruki Murakami's wisdom in life
In Haruki Murakami's writings, we can often find the wisdom and emotional resonance of life. One of his famous sayings: "In fact, the most suitable person for you is never the person who can't be loved, but the person who sees through your temper, understands your shortcomings, and is still willing to stay with you." "It speaks to the true meaning of human relationships. This article will focus on this perspective, exploring what is the most suitable person and why people who see through and accept our shortcomings are the most precious beings in our lives.
1. Love but can't: emotional confusion and persistence
In our lives, there are always some people who make us feel good and make us give everything for it, but in the end we fail to get their love. This feeling of not being able to love often makes us fall into deep confusion and attachment. In order to pursue this love, we do not hesitate to change ourselves, even sacrificing our dignity and principles. However, when we really get this love, we find that it is not as beautiful as we imagined.
This is because, in the pursuit of love, we often ignore our true selves. In order to cater to each other, we keep changing ourselves, so much so that in the end we don't even know ourselves. This kind of love, which is based on sacrifice and pandering, is destined to be short-lived and unreal. When we finally lose this love, we will feel extremely lost and empty.
2. See through your temper: the beginning of understanding and acceptance
Those who see through our temper are more precious than those who make us love but cannot be loved. Not only do they understand our strengths and strengths, but they are also able to understand and accept our weaknesses and shortcomings. They don't get angry with us because of our petty tempers, and they don't leave us because of our shortcomings. Instead, they will accompany us with their tolerance and understanding and help us become better versions of ourselves.
This kind of person who sees through and accepts us is the most precious treasure in our lives. They make us feel safe and comfortable, so we can let go of our guards and pretenses and be authentic. In front of them, we can express our thoughts and feelings without reservation without fear of being misunderstood or ridiculed. This relationship of sincerity and trust makes us feel extremely happy and satisfied.
3. Understand your shortcomings: the embodiment of mature love
A person who is truly suitable for you will not only see through your temper, but also understand your shortcomings. They know your shortcomings, but they don't dislike you or leave you because of it. Instead, they will use their love and patience to help you correct these shortcomings and make you more perfect.
This kind of person who understands and accepts our shortcomings is the embodiment of mature love. They know that everyone has their own shortcomings and shortcomings, and love is not about finding a perfect person, but about finding someone who is willing to grow up with you and face difficulties together. They are willing to accompany you through the ups and downs of life, and experience the ups and downs of life together. This kind of companionship and support cannot be replaced by any material wealth.
4. Willing to stay with you: the power of commitment and perseverance
When we meet people who see through our tempers and understand our shortcomings, we often feel extremely lucky and grateful. Because they not only understand us and accept us, but they are also willing to stay with us. This companionship is not short-lived and superficial, but long-term and deep. They are willing to share the joys and sorrows of life with us and go through every stage of life together.
This kind of person who is willing to stay with us is the strength of commitment and perseverance. They tell us with their actions that no matter what difficulties and challenges they encounter in the future, they will be by our side and face them with us. This commitment and perseverance make us feel extremely relieved and determined. We know that we have a harbor to rely on, no matter when and where we are.
5. Conclusion: Cherish the people in front of you
In the journey of life, we will meet many people. There are those who make us feel warm and cozy but end up being passers-by, and there are those who make us feel warm and comfortable but don't stay with us for long. And those who see through our temper, understand our shortcomings, and are willing to stay with us are the most precious beings in our lives.
Therefore, we should cherish the people in front of us and be grateful to those who are willing to spend their lives with us. Let's treat them with sincerity and inclusiveness, and walk with them through every stage of life. In this way, we can find true happiness and fulfillment in the journey of life.