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In 2016, in a hospital in Chongqing, a husband and wife had a conflict because of a family dispute, and the husband Chen chopped off his wife's right hand in the process of arguing with his wife.
After the incident, Chen told his sad story to the police, it turned out that in 2012, Chen was paralyzed and unable to move because of myelitis, but Chen's wife was unwilling to share a bed with him anymore, so Chen beat his wife in 2016.
In this case, although Chen's behavior was wrong, even if it is a normal couple, when the husband is paralyzed and unable to meet his physical needs, the wife is unwilling to share a bed with him.
In real life, in the relationship between husband and wife, how should both parties deal with physical obstacles?
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1. Communication is crucial
In a couple's relationship, when the husband is unable to meet his physical needs due to illness or disability, the wife is reluctant to share a bed with the husband, which can lead to complex challenges, but what the couple needs to do is to communicate and help the couple better deal with the challenges of the illness or disability with the help of psychological counseling and emotional support.
In the relationship between husband and wife, both husband and wife need more understanding, patience and support when facing physical obstacles, but if they are husbands, they may face physical diseases, such as cerebral thrombosis, myelitis, etc., resulting in paralysis and inability to move, but the wife may be worried about her husband's physical condition and therefore unwilling to share a bed with her husband.
In some cases, the wife may be reluctant to share a bed with her husband because she is worried that the relationship will be affected, which may lead to emotional distress and even shame.
But both spouses face this problem, they need to overcome shame, express their feelings honestly, find solutions, and meet each other's needs, so communication is very important.
When the husband is unable to move, and the wife is reluctant to share a bed with the husband, but is worried about the intimacy of the relationship, then the husband and wife can find solutions to meet the needs of both parties through active communication.
The wife can discuss with her husband that she is not used to sharing a bed with her husband, but she can meet her husband's sexual needs in other ways, such as watching porn with her husband and then masturbating to satisfy her husband's sexual needs.
However, in this process, the wife still needs to reach agreement with her husband, and cannot engage in such behavior without the husband's knowledge, otherwise it may lead to family conflicts.
2. Intimacy in a conjugal relationship is not just based on sex
In the relationship between husband and wife, because the husband cannot meet the sexual needs of his wife, but the intimacy between husband and wife is not only based on sex, but also through other forms of intimacy, such as husband and wife can have common interests and hobbies to go hiking, running, playing badminton, etc., in this way can enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
In addition to this, couples can also support and understand each other in work and life, and can enhance the relationship between couples by cooking and chatting together.
When the husband is unable to meet his wife's sexual needs, the wife can learn sexual knowledge with her husband, and at the same time, she can also add fun to the life of the husband and wife, and she can also know how to solve the problem when the husband is unable to meet his sexual needs.
The sexual needs of people with disabilities have been neglected in society, so there is a need for more education and support, as well as more professional sex therapists to help couples cope with these challenges.
In real life, wives can seek professional help, such as finding a sex therapist to treat their husbands sexually and solve their sexual needs, and at the same time, they can also solve their psychological distress for their wives and help them find corresponding solutions.
epilogue
In a couple's relationship, when the husband is unable to meet his sexual needs due to a disability, the wife is reluctant to share a bed with the husband, but is worried about the intimacy of the relationship, so the husband and wife need more understanding, patience and support.
But in this process, communication is very important, and both parties need to be honest about their feelings and find solutions to meet each other's needs.
At the same time, intimacy between husband and wife is not only based on sex, but also through other forms of bonding, such as sharing common interests and hobbies, mutual support and understanding in work and life.