The first word that many children say is "mother", although they are first-time mothers, and taking care of children is not so easy.
However, the moment the child calls out "Mommy", it feels like it's all worth it!
So, what subtle changes will the child's title from "mother" to "mother" and then to "mother"?
In fact, seemingly simple changes contain subtle clues to the child's rich emotional world and psychological development.
As parents, how we interpret these changes and adjust our education methods and parent-child interactions accordingly is a subject worthy of in-depth discussion.
Physiological characteristics and personality development as a result
The child's address from "Mom" to "Mom" to "Mom" to "Mom", although there is only a one-word difference, it seems to be a symphony of love and dependence, which is played gently in every corner of the family.
It is a natural expression of a child's physiology and a unique imprint of their personality development.
When a child immaturely calls out "Mommy", it is the initial call to the most important person in life, full of longing for warmth and security.
As time passed, the children's voices gradually became firm and powerful, and they began to call us by the word "Mom", which was not only a leap in their language skills, but also a sign that their independence was beginning to sprout.
And when the word "mother" pops out of a child's mouth, it is a declaration that they have entered a new stage of life.
They began to use the word to express their respect and gratitude to us, and they also began to use it to seek support and guidance on their path of growth.
This is an important sign that the child is moving from dependence to independence and from ignorance to maturity.
The change of the child's salutation represents a different mental journey
"Mom" – initial dependence and intimacy
When the child first speaks and shouts "Mommy" in a childish voice, it is as if the whole world lights up.
At this stage, the child's attachment to the mother is so strong that they can hardly imagine what the world would be like without their mother.
"Mom" – Gradual independence and exploration
As time goes on, children begin to learn to walk, talk, and their world gets bigger and bigger.
At this time, their address to their mother also quietly changed, from "mother" to "mother".
This simple change actually reflects a big step in the child's psyche. They begin to realize that there are other people and things besides their mother that deserve their attention and exploration.
"Mom" - deep gratitude and respect for mother's love
When children reach a certain stage of growth, they will refer to their mother as "mother".
This title implies deep gratitude and respect for the mother.
They begin to understand that their mothers have put in countless efforts and sacrifices for their upbringing, and that this love and care is selfless and unrequited.
What should we do towards changing children's names?
The change in the child's address to his mother seems to be a natural thing, but it is actually a witness to the child's growth, representing his transition from full dependence to gradual separation from his mother. So as parents, what kind of attitude should we have towards this?
Accepting the change of salutation is the first step to understanding your child's growth
Children have different emotional sustenance and psychological needs for the word "mother" at different ages.
From initial dependence and intimacy, to later independence and exploration, their change of name is the epitome of this process.
Therefore, we should not be surprised or disappointed when a child suddenly changes his words, but rather see it as part of their natural development.
Respecting a child's choice is the key to maintaining the parent-child relationship
Every child is an individual, and they have the right to choose how they are called in a way that is comfortable for them.
Instead of forcing children to change their habits, we should respect their choices and let them grow up in a free environment.
Responding in an appropriate way is a bridge to promote parent-child communication
For the title of "mother", we can respond with a gentle and affectionate voice, emphasizing the intimate relationship between mother and baby; for the title of "mom", we can respond in a more relaxed and friendly way, reflecting our recognition and support for the child's independence, and for the title of "mom", we can respond with humor and ridicule to create a relaxed and happy family atmosphere.
A child's change of title is a natural phenomenon in their growth, and it reflects the child's physiological characteristics and personality development.
As parents, we should understand and accept this change with an open mind, a respectful attitude, and an appropriate manner.
We must feel the growth of children with our hearts, and accompany them with love for every attempt and breakthrough.
Because, in this loving journey, we are not only the guides of children, but also their dearest partners.