When people reach old age, it is not recommended to rely on these three people to provide for the elderly, and to know and prepare early.
In life, you have to go through birth, old age, sickness and death, just like the sun is going down sooner or later.
From children to adults, to old men and old ladies, it's all the same.
When you are old, you are accompanied by your wife, and it is beautiful!
My wife, it's the people you have been through the ups and downs together for decades.
Whether you are happy or not, he sees it in his eyes, and may understand you better than your children.
Therefore, he knows what you like to eat and wear, and will take you to see the scenery and see the beautiful world, which is the happiest!
A person's life is not easy, especially in old age.
In old age, it is not recommended to rely on these three people to provide for the elderly, and to know and prepare early, especially the last one.
So who are those three people? Let's take a look.
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The first one is that you can't rely on your wife.
Aren't you surprised when you hear it? Your wife is the closest person to you, and who else can you count on if you can't even count on your wife?
Actually, your wife may not be the most reliable person.
Because people's bodies will grow old, and when you are old, your wife will also be old.
When the time comes, you both take care of each other, and no one wants to be easy, just like two children, one falls, and the other is distressed, but he may not have the strength to help him.
So don't always think about relying on your wife to support your old age, maybe your old wife is still ahead of you.
People live on their own all their lives, and their wife is a companion and a friend, but don't use him as a life-saving straw.
You have to have a plan and a preparation, so that you can live with peace of mind and comfort when you are old.
Therefore, don't rely on your wife and children for the elderly, you must have plans and preparations.
The second is his own children.
We have to understand that when children grow up, they have their own lives and stresses.
It is really not easy for them to work, to support their families, to educate the next generation.
We can't expect them to revolve around us every day, they're all too busy with their own business to be on call.
Children also have their own families and concepts, and some children may feel that it is already very filial to give their parents some money or go home occasionally to see.
But what the elderly want is companionship and care. This kind of gap will make the old man feel very disappointed.
So, don't expect too much from your children, after all, they have their own lives.
We have an old lady downstairs with three sons. The three sons studied very well when they were in school, and they were all admitted to the ideal university.
Now they are all very promising, and they are all in first-tier cities. The three sons are usually very busy with work.
I can come back at most once a year, sometimes once every two or three years.
But I would often send money to the old lady, and the old lady said that it didn't cost much to be alone at home, and I really hope they can come back often.
The old lady is not used to life in the big city either. So he would rather stay at home by himself than go to his son's house.
How can such children be expected to support their old age?
This third type is that you can't rely on your wife.
This step-wife sounds quite dear. But if you are close to your family, you really can't count on him when it comes to providing for the elderly.
Why do you say that? Because my wife has nothing to do with you.
He has his own family and children, and some of them have a wife who lives together, and the two of them don't have a marriage certificate at all.
From this point of view, I didn't really have a relationship with you at all, I just took what I needed.
Isn't there such a saying? When disaster comes, they fly separately. Speaking of which, is someone going to spray me?
I will definitely say that there are good old couples. But not everyone is so lucky to be able to find a post-wife to rely on.
So when it comes to providing for the elderly, don't expect your wife, you have to rely on yourself, so that you can live a stable and happy life when you are old.
There is an old saying in the old man, that is, "relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on everyone to run, only relying on yourself is the most reliable", and it is better to rely on no one than on yourself.
Therefore, you have to rely on yourself to support the elderly, but you need to plan your life well in advance.