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From the moment they met at the Drama Academy, Yu Jianwei and Xu Di did not foresee that they would become good couples in the family in the future. At first, their first impression of each other was not very good, and it could even be said that they were full of mutual criticism. Xu Di's self-respecting and stubborn personality made Yu Jianwei slightly dissatisfied, and he once unabashedly told his friends, "I will never choose a woman like her as a wife."
And Yu Jianwei's outspoken behavior also disgusted Xu Di, who thinks highly of herself, and they have repeatedly caused fierce quarrels over Yu Jianwei's rude words, and even almost turned into physical conflicts.
However, fate is always so tricky, these two "enemies" who were originally like enemies are gradually attracted to certain qualities of each other in their daily interactions. Yu Jianwei deeply admired Xu Di's steadfast pursuit of her career, and Xu Di was moved by Yu Jianwei's sincere and frank personality.
In this way, unconsciously, there is an emotional entanglement between them that cannot be described in words.
As time passed, this emotion grew deeper. In the end, under the ingenious arrangement of his colleagues, Yu Jianwei finally mustered up the courage to express his deep affection to Xu Di.
After learning of Yu Jianwei's sincere feelings, after some inner struggle, Xu Di finally let go of the worries in her heart and gladly accepted this beautiful marriage. In 1981, they officially entered the palace of marriage and took each other to visit their respective families and friends, and announced the joyful news together.
From the initial mutual incomprehension to the later mutual affection, the emotional experience of Yu Jianwei and Xu Di, the "enemies", can be described as magnificent and full of twists and turns.
Their love story is as romantic and touching as a legendary epic, and everyone around them is moved. And the starting point of all this originated from a wonderful encounter in that drama school.
In the early days of marriage, Yu Jianwei and Xu Di lived a simple and real life. They live in a small suite allocated by the unit, and although the space is limited, it is still filled with the warmth of home under Xu Di's careful decoration.
However, the real challenges of life have only just begun. The following year, Xu Di was pregnant and had to leave the workplace for a while. The family only relies on Yu Jianwei's hard work to support the living expenses of the whole family, and the standard of living is naturally stretched.
The daily expenses faced by the family of three and the many educational expenses of the children undoubtedly brought them great pressure and difficulties. However, after seeing this situation, the neighbors have made various discussions and evaluations about the situation of the young couple, but Yu Jianwei and Xu Di did not pay too much attention to it, but chose to prove their true love and commitment with practical actions.
Just when the whole family was in a difficult situation, a sudden turning point quietly came. One day, Xu Di learned of a career opportunity to perform outside, and the salary of that job far exceeded her previous income level.
Faced with this weekend's choice, Xu Di fell into deep confusion and contradictions. As a new mother, she naturally longed to stay at home and take care of her children, but the family's financial situation forced her to leave home and look for work to make ends meet.
Just when Xu Di was in a dilemma, Yu Jianwei made a touching decision: he took the initiative to resign and take on the burden of the family wholeheartedly, just so that his wife could go out to film without any worries to make money to support the family.
Although Yu Jianwei's actions were regarded as "deviant" and "bizarre moves" in the social concept of the time, the young couple no longer cared about the outside world's opinion, they just wanted to run their lives in their own way.
With the full support of her husband Yu Jianwei, Xu Di once again embarked on the acting path she had longed for. Although she was only able to play a few insignificant small roles and tricks at first, the salary for these roles alone has far exceeded her total income in the past month.
The couple, who once lived in embarrassment, successfully survived the most difficult years with their beautiful expectations for the future and unwavering perseverance.
Xu Di handed over every penny she earned outside to her husband Yu Jianwei for management without reservation, and never embezzled it without permission.
Because of this, even in the most difficult period of life, the relationship between the young couple never showed the slightest crack, but was as loving as when they first met.
Whenever they recall the bitter journey of those years, Yu Jianwei and Xu Di always show happy smiles. They know that all the hard work they put in is worth it because they have each other's company and encouragement.
The audience witnessed Xu Di's bright light on the screen, but they didn't know the endless bitterness and sweat hidden behind it. And she was able to obtain today's honorary status because of Yu Jianwei's constant companionship and strong support. If it weren't for his firm protection, how could Xu Di devote herself to her beloved artistic career? It is precisely because of Yu Jianwei's selfless dedication that Xu Di can devote herself to her acting career without any worries and give full play to her talent and wisdom.
Just as Xu Di's career was booming, a sudden disaster pulled the loving couple from the peak of happiness into the abyss in an instant.
In 2008, when Xu Di was busy in other places, she suddenly received an urgent call from her son and learned that Yu Jianwei was unfortunately suffering from cancer. She did not hesitate to interrupt the work at hand and rushed back to the warmth of her home as quickly as possible.
Along the way, countless worries haunted her, and she knew that she might not be able to withstand such a heavy blow due to the severity of her husband's illness and the huge financial pressure she was about to face.
When she rushed to the hospital, doctors told her that Yu Jianwei's cancer had advanced to the intermediate stage and that he had to be hospitalized immediately for treatment. In the face of high medical expenses, Xu Di resolutely took out all the savings she had accumulated over the years, and resolutely did not want to ask others for help and borrow, let alone add a burden to her children.
In order to better take care of her husband's physical condition, she even applied for a long vacation from the crew.
During her husband's hospitalization, Xu Di was always by her side, only going out to buy ingredients during meal time, and then cooking delicious dishes for her husband to enjoy. Seeing her once strong and powerful husband now emaciated and weak, she was filled with mixed emotions and deeply blamed herself for not being able to detect the disease early.
However, she never showed the slightest pain by her husband's side, but only persevered quietly with her unique optimism and tenacity.
After a period of careful care, Yu Jianwei's condition was gradually alleviated, and he finally successfully embarked on the road to recovery. However, Xu Di is still worried about her husband living alone at home, so every time she goes out to work, she always takes her husband with her and guards the family in her own way.
In this journey of mutual care and support, the loving couple successfully crossed the most difficult journey in their lives, and at the same time, they further realized the incomparable preciousness of each other.
The years have passed, and now Ms. Xu Di, who has entered her prime, is still working tirelessly in her acting career, which she is passionate about. Unlike many colleagues in the entertainment industry, she does not regard fame and fortune as the only goal she pursues, but devotes herself to the profession she loves.
It is precisely because of this dedication that every time the audience witnesses her style on the screen, they can deeply feel the persistent pursuit and firm belief in art from her deep gaze and calm expression.
However, despite her career success, the happiness of her family is also a precious asset that Xu Di has always cherished and regarded as her first priority in life. Over the years, she has always tried to find a balance between career and family, and has never been biased.
As her son gradually grew into an adult, she devoted most of her time and energy to her husband.
Whenever he needs to go out to work, Xu Di will always move forward with Yu Jianwei, lest he may encounter any accidents if he is left alone at home. Sometimes, the couple would choose to settle down temporarily in a small hotel near the crew and enjoy the short and warm world of the two.
Occasionally, Yu Jianwei will also take the initiative to accompany him, because in his heart, spending time with his wife is the most beautiful thing in the world.
Now, they have entered the sunset stage of their lives, but they are still dependent on each other and grow old together. Looking back on the past, Yu Jianwei is often full of emotion, it was the deep affection of his wife that made him have the courage to leave his original job and become a full-time househusband;
It is also his wife's magnanimity and deep understanding that allows him to explore his own path in life without any scruples.
Xu Di said that it is precisely because of her husband's full support and endless tolerance that she can devote herself to her career with peace of mind and give full play to her potential.
In this way, the two old people gave and achieved each other, and walked hand in hand through a life journey that lasted for more than half a century. Now in their later years, looking back on the ups and downs and glory of the past, their love story has long been sung, like an eternal story, with a long afterglow and a lasting time.