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Actor Xu Di is a national first-class actor and the first winner of the "Plum Blossom Award" in Beijing opera.
With many screen works, she is known as a "professional mother" and "national mother-in-law".
But the marriage of this actor, who is extremely familiar to the audience, has always been a mystery.
Regarding Xu Di's husband, some people say it is Yang Lixin, some people say it is Han Tongsheng, and some people say it is Li Youlin.
It wasn't until Xu Di appeared on the show that she said very firmly:
"My husband has always had only one person, and that is Yu Jianwei. ”
After understanding, I found out that this Yu Jianwei is not only an outsider, but also has been holding Xu Di's income.
As a national first-class actor, why does Xu Di give all her filming income to her husband?
What is the story of this couple who have been silently in love for 41 years?
It is a husband and wife and a first love
Xu Di and her husband Yu Jianwei are each other's first love.
But their first encounter was not so beautiful, but there was some-for-tat.
Today's Xu Di is known as a "mother professional" and has played many mother roles.
What many people don't know is that Xu Di was a slim little beauty when she was a teenager.
With big eyes and charming dimples, she belongs to an outstanding girl who can be seen at a glance in the crowd.
When Xu Di was 16 years old, the opera class of the Beijing Opera School was recruiting students at the school.
After being successfully admitted, she began a hard life Xi school.
As the Xi life passes day by day, Xu Di's grievances with someone are about to begin.
It was a class dinner, and the class leader Yu Jianwei was chatting with his classmates.
Maybe it was too lively, or maybe it was too excited, Yu Jianwei blurted out a dirty word as he spoke.
When Xu Di heard this, she changed color and stood up directly.
She felt very angry and confronted Yu Jianwei, obviously unhappy with his swearing.
Yu Jianwei was a little unimpressed, just a swear word, not too serious, let alone scolding.
But Xu Di couldn't tolerate it, seeing that the other party didn't care, she was even more angry.
Xu Di said a word, Yu Jianwei replied, and the two quarreled like this.
Seeing that the ordinary bickering was about to turn into a fierce quarrel, the classmates couldn't sit still.
Although the two were stopped by their classmates, Liang Zi was settled.
After Yu Jianwei returned home, the anger in his heart still couldn't be dispersed, and he poured bitter water on his family when he went home.
The younger brother said that he should not bring such a fierce sister-in-law home in the future, and Yu Jianwei also felt that someone like Xu Di could not marry.
But Yu Jianwei never expected that this so-called "can't get married" person would eventually marry him.
Since that conflict, Xu Di and Yu Jianwei seem to have become a pair of happy enemies, and they always have to pinch when they meet.
But as time passed, the anger that weighed on them gradually turned into other emotions.
It seems that they are still incompatible, but change has been quietly happening.
The contradiction between Xu Di and Yu Jianwei turned into feelings at some point.
On the surface, the two are still bitter rivals who "look at each other and hate each other", but behind the scenes, the two have already fallen in love.
After graduation, this "underground couple" also came to the fore.
After graduation, the two were assigned to the Beijing Opera Troupe.
While working in the opera troupe, the two also manage their relationship seriously.
After three years of work, they officially became husband and wife.
After getting married, Xu Di is about to usher in a new stage of her career, and the couple is about to enter a new state.
The female protagonist is outside the male protagonist
After Xu Di and Yu Jianwei got married, they seemed to have returned to the state they were in when they were on campus.
It's obviously a couple, but even when they go shopping, they pretend to be strangers and walk one after the other.
The two are still engaged in an "underground romance", and they don't dare to hold hands.
After going out, they sit separately almost everything, and it is difficult to tell that they are a couple.
After getting married, Xu Di's life has not changed significantly, but there have been great changes in her work.
She already likes opera, and after getting married, she trained harder to learn Xi.
This kind of diligence made the deputy head of the regiment, Wei Xikui, notice her.
Wei Xikui seemed to see himself when he was young, and suddenly fell in love with talent.
So she decided to take Xu Di as an apprentice and give her all kinds of real skills.
It is said that famous teachers produce high apprentices, and under the teaching of Wei Xikui, Xu Di has made significant progress.
's increasingly outstanding ability allowed her to star in operas such as "Dragon Whisker Valley" and "Yang Naiwu and Little Cabbage".
On the road of quyi, Xu Di obviously went very smoothly.
In 1997, she also won the "Plum Blossom Award" for "Cheng Niangzi" in the opera "Dragon Whisker Valley".
With the remarkable achievements of the quyi industry, Xu Di's screen career has also developed steadily.
She started filming TV series very early, and she made TV series as a necessity for life.
Although she has a high status in the opera troupe and is also a famous actor in the industry, it is difficult for her work to bring a good income.
With the arrival of the child, the financial pressure has also increased significantly.
So Xu Di considered improving the conditions of her family by filming TV series and getting remuneration income.
But when Xu Di really wants to step into the film and television industry, a problem lies in front of her.
If she goes to filming, who will take care of the children at home?
The husband also has his own career, and it is difficult to balance work and family.
Just when Xu Di felt very embarrassed, Yu Jianwei made a decision, he was at home with the children.
This decision would seem incomprehensible to ordinary people.
Because at that time, it was all male and female, and men would be discussed by others if they didn't work at home.
But no matter how much pressure there is, Yu Jianwei still feels that he should stand up.
He believes that his wife has the ability to make a career in the entertainment industry, so he chooses to support him without hesitation.
Perhaps it was this unreserved support that made Xu Di choose to hand over all the filming income to her husband.
When Xu Di embarked on the road of acting, her husband became her most solid backing.
And she did not live up to her husband's support and trust.
Even if she doesn't love the screen career very much, Xu Di can also perform excellent screen roles with her solid skills.
Many well-known directors also know her excellent ability, and often invite her to appear in TV series.
Therefore, after stepping into the showbiz, Xu Di's figure appeared in many well-known works.
"Romance of the Three Kingdoms", "Sister Idler", "Young Son of Heaven", "Family with Children", ......
As Xu Di's screen works become more and more, her fame in the entertainment industry is also increasing.
Her marriage to Yu Jianwei has also slowly gone through the 20th and 30th years.
In such a life of "female protagonist outside and male protagonist inside", Xu Di's career is becoming more and more prosperous.
To this day, Xu Di is still a family and a career.
Balancing family and career
Looking at Xu Di's acting career, she has been walking for more than 20 years.
Over the years, she has many works and many honors.
In 2018, she also won the "Magnolia Award" for Best Supporting Actress with "The First Half of My Life", with unlimited scenery.
As Xu Di's reputation rose again, more people paid attention.
Many people are curious about Xu Di's hard work in the entertainment industry for so many years, and she doesn't seem to have revealed much information about her husband.
For a while, people speculated about who Xu Di's husband was.
Yang Lixin, Han Tongsheng, Li Youlin...... Several actors who have been in the same frame as Xu Di have become the object of suspicion.
Until Xu Di appeared on the show and said her husband in person.
The audience also knew from this that she had a husband behind her who had silently supported her for 40 years.
Her husband's support allows Xu Di to work hard in the entertainment industry without distraction.
With such a caring husband, it is no wonder that Xu Di will hand over all the income from filming to him.
Today, Xu Di is still very affectionate with her husband and has gone through the 41st year hand in hand.
Her screen work is also increasing all the time, with new works every year.
In May this year, Xu Di's another TV series was completed, and a new drama will be broadcast in November.
is 65 years old, and she is still diligently walking on the road of acting.
At the same time, she has not forgotten the quyi she has always loved.
This year, she participated in the Spring Festival Opera Gala of China Central Radio and Television.
In January next year, Xu Di also has a opera "Nine Que", which will premiere at the Chinese Theater of Beijing Tianqiao Performing Arts Center.
epilogue
Today's Xu Di is still walking on the road steadily, working hard for her career, and at the same time not forgetting her family.
I hope that in the days to come, her career will continue to flourish, and at the same time, she will continue to live lovingly with her husband.
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