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Dear readers, on this sad topic, I would like to share with you some important things. When the elderly in our family unfortunately leave us, we should treat their departure with respect and love, rather than doing something that will ruin the fortune of the family. Let's take a look at what to avoid!
First of all, fellow relatives, please try to avoid changing the arrangement of your home after the elderly have left. Our home is a place where the elderly live, who have spent many years here, leaving deep memories and emotions. If we change the furnishings of the home or rearrange the room without consultation, it can disrupt the harmony of the family and bring harm to the soul of the elderly.
Second, try to avoid discussing topics about the distribution of inheritance. When the elderly in the family are gone, we should prioritize their spiritual world and memories over the distribution of material wealth. Starting to discuss and fight for inheritance too early can lead to conflicts and strife within the family and hurt the feelings of family members. We should pay more attention to the spiritual heritage of the elderly, passing on their values and family traditions.
Also, avoid cleaning up or disposing of the elderly's personal belongings immediately after their death. These objects may have special meanings and memories for the elderly, and we should treat them with respect and patience. If possible, delay sorting for a while to give yourself and your family plenty of time to ease their grief and make an informed decision.
Last but not least, don't forget to have a proper farewell ceremony for the elderly. This ritual can be simple and heartwarming, with the aim of expressing our gratitude and nostalgia to the elderly. A proper farewell ceremony can help us calm our grief and give families a common place to remember, mourn and support.
Before concluding, I would like to emphasize that we should make respect, love, and gratitude the guiding principles for the loss of the elderly. Maintaining family harmony and passing on the values and family traditions of the elderly makes us more united and strong.