Today, my dear, we're going to talk about how men behave when they don't like you that much, with a particular focus on one of the practices called "intermittent snubbing".
By the way, don't be unfamiliar or confused by this word in the first place.
In fact, "intermittent neglect" is a common occurrence in our emotional lives, but many times we turn a blind eye or selectively ignore it.
But today, let's take a look at why men do what they do and how it affects us girls.
We have to figure out what "intermittent snubs" mean?
To put it simply, at a certain stage, men are cold and indifferent to you, as if the relationship between you suddenly stops or even fails;
But after a while, he starts to pursue you passionately again, as if the previous estrangement had never happened.
This kind of "intermittent" behavior, which is sometimes cold and sometimes enthusiastic, often makes us girls feel very confused and sad.
Sisters, what do you think about this situation?
Many people may think that men are just bad-tempered, like the new and hate the old, and are often a little mentally divided.
But in reality, intermittent snubbing is often not due to a man's unintentional mistake, but to a conscious, purposeful behavioral choice.
You heard it right, this is a strategy and a means that men use to "test" us and "control" our feelings.
How do you do that?
Let me give you a slow analysis.
Many times, when a relationship enters a period of relative stability, men will feel that their love life is a bit boring, lacking challenges and freshness.
Then they will deliberately distance yourself from you for a while to see if you still have the patience and determination to save the relationship.
If you make a persistent effort to please him and win his favor during this time, then he will feel that you are genuine with him, and he will regain his enthusiasm and give you a glimmer of hope.
But just when you are happy, he may suddenly snub you, and so on and so forth.
You see, this kind of "intermittent snubbing" approach by men is nothing more than playing a game of control and being controlled.
They want to dominate the rhythm of the relationship between the two parties, want to take the initiative, and then occupy a relatively dominant position psychologically.
Once the relationship loses its challenges and twists and turns, men will lose interest, so they will use various strategies to "test" you to see if you are worthy of being cherished and loved.
Sisters, this behavior of men undoubtedly makes us girls feel very sad and aggrieved.
Obviously not doing anything wrong beforehand, but having to endure the unwarranted neglect and neglect of feelings, this kind of "intermittent" emotional experience is simply physically and mentally exhausting.
What can we do in the face of men's scheming?
Should you wait for him to regain your enthusiasm, or should you decisively let go and find a new love?
My suggestion is that instead of passively being at the mercy of the other party, we girls should also play a countermeasure of "intermittent distancing".
When a man starts to be a little cold to you, you also learn to be indifferent to him, turn a blind eye to him, and completely cut off any intimate interactions.
Let him also taste the taste of being left out and see if he still has the courage to regain your relationship.
Soon he will find out how heavy the price of losing you is, and may be the first to throw himself back into your arms.
And you can take a good look at whether the relationship is really worth continuing to manage.
We can also use "intermittent snubbing" as an opportunity to reflect on our place in the relationship.
If you don't get even the most basic respect and consideration, then why is there any need to continue to give your heart?
Maybe this is an opportunity for God to free us from the mire of painful feelings and live a new life.
Therefore, sisters, do not regard this "intermittent neglect" as a grievance, but as a new beginning and opportunity.
I would like to remind you that the cornerstone of any relationship should be based on mutual respect and understanding.
Blindly clinging to men and tolerating their willful behavior will only make us sink deeper and deeper into the abyss of feelings.
Therefore, no matter what kind of "intermittent snubbing" trick the other party uses, we must strengthen our backbone and learn to see the essence of things with reason.
If a person does not have even the most basic sincerity, then how can he be worthy of our compromise?
Sisters, life doesn't have so many thorns and bumps.
As long as we learn to fight back against men's "intermittent neglect" in our own way, and use our courage and wisdom to regain control of our lives, I am convinced that everyone will be able to find their own happiness and true love.