When the wedding bell is about to ring, it should be a moment of joy and blessing, but a wedding in Shangqiu, Henan Province has turned into a farce because of a girlfriend's "suggestion". This makes people question: can there really be a pure friendship between girlfriends, or is there an unknown selfishness hidden behind it?
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Recently, a wedding in Shangqiu, Henan Province has become the focus of heated discussions among netizens. It is reported that the bride suddenly changed her mind at the wedding scene and insisted that the man's family pay a "drop-off gift" of up to 28,800 yuan, otherwise she refused to get out of the car. This requirement instantly reduced the originally festive wedding atmosphere to a freezing point. And the initiator of all this is actually the bride's best friend.
According to the guests at the scene, the bride and her best friend sat in the wedding car for more than half an hour, during which the best friend kept muttering in the bride's ear. It turned out that the girlfriend thought that according to local customs, the groom's family should give the bride a "getting off ceremony", and this amount should not be less than 28,800 yuan. When the bride heard this, she believed it and insisted that the man's family pay the fee. Although the groom's family was not aware of this request in advance, they expressed their willingness to pay the fee for the sake of the overall situation, but hoped to make up for it after the wedding. However, the bride's best friend disagrees with this practice, believing that the "drop-off gift" should be paid on the spot, otherwise it will be unlucky.
Just when the two sides were at a stalemate, a relative in the groom's family finally couldn't help but step forward and reprimand his girlfriend. This time it was terrible, the girlfriend suddenly burst into tears, crying that she was for the good of the bride, but she was treated like this. Seeing this, the bride was so angry that she got out of the car and started to move her hand at the relative. As you can imagine, the two sides soon fell into a scuffle.
This farce eventually led to the bride's repentance. She pulled her best friend and left angrily, leaving the groom and many guests looking at each other. And the groom also said after the incident that he couldn't understand the behavior of the bride and his girlfriend at all, and felt that the wedding was full of calculations and intrigue from the beginning.
The incident garnered a lot of attention on social media.
Netizens' opinions
Some people think that girlfriends are bad, and some people say that girlfriends tell the bride's thoughts.
It is also said that he should thank his girlfriend for letting him see a person clearly.
Customs are a way of doing things that many people have followed for many years, and getting off the bus is a custom, which is really nonsense.
In this case, we can't help but think: how should the friendship between girlfriends get along? Should we be honest with each other and support each other, or should we keep a certain distance and avoid excessive interference in each other's lives? At the same time, we should also realize that marriage is a matter for two people, and both parties need to work together to manage and maintain it. Excessive interference or calculation by either party will only make the road to marriage more bumpy and difficult.
In interpersonal communication, we should maintain a rational and objective attitude, not be easily swayed by the remarks of others, and at the same time, we should also learn to cherish the people and things around us, and treat everyone with sincerity and kindness.
What do you think about this?