"I can't go to school anymore, I have to work with them, I'm so tired, they say I have to be at the top of my grade"
It's hard to imagine that these were the words of a 14-year-old girl as she stood on a balcony and was about to jump down.
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On May 1, in Zhengzhou, Henan Province, netizens and their families were about to go out to play, and just as they opened the door, they saw a teenage girl standing on the balcony ready to jump down, and the girl cried heartbreakingly.
Seeing this, netizens hurriedly stepped forward to dissuade them while arranging for their family members to call the police. Netizens discovered that this little girl was their neighbor. It's not very familiar, but it's often seen.
After understanding, netizens finally understood the reason why the girl wanted to jump off the building.
The 14-year-old girl, who attends a local high school, usually has very good academic performance, and her parents have very high expectations for her.
even said that "it is superfluous to raise you", and also said that if your grades are no longer good, you should stop studying and follow your parents to work.
The girl felt wronged, so she couldn't think about it, and was ready to jump off the stairs. Hence the above scene.
Fortunately, netizens found it in time, otherwise, this would be another human tragedy.
It is conceivable that a little girl at this age is extremely psychologically fragile.
Hearing the little girl's crying sentence by sentence, I believe that no one is not sad about it.
A person familiar with the matter also revealed that the girl's parents were very strict with her education and management, and their requirements were particularly high, and her parents pinned all their hopes on the little girl, who was under too much pressure.
After continuous persuasion by netizens at the scene, the girl was finally persuaded to get off the balcony, and then rescuers also arrived at the scene, and her parents were also criticized by the police on the spot.
In fact, it is understandable that parents want their children to become Jackie Chan, and it is understandable that their children are under pressure to study. None of them are wrong, but there is a problem with the way of communication, which may be the common situation of many parents and children.
Words from netizens
For this, many netizens also expressed their understanding, and at the same time, they also expressed some views and opinions.
Some netizens said, "He is just a scumbag of study, not a scumbag of character, he is just a nameless on the list, and he is not a road under his feet, I wish all children mental health and happiness and worry-free!", people's success is not only defined by good academic performance.
Physical health, mental health is even more important.
There are also teachers who said: "I am a teacher, I think learning about it, it really depends on the talent, the child who is too poor is not forced to him, to be honest, the genes given to him by his parents are not bad, it can't all depend on the child, but no matter whether the talent is good or bad, the basic education must be insisted on, too early into the society will learn badly, my requirement for students is, do your best, really not good at learning, but also have three views of good moral character"
It makes sense to follow the laws of nature, the so-called natural talent must be useful, and in the right position, it can play the greatest role.
Some netizens think.
- "Parents are not anxious about their children's bad grades, but they do not have the ability to support their children"
- "If you can't endure the hardships of study, you have to endure the hardships of life"
- "What kind of psychology is this, if you are tired of studying, you have to jump off the building, then go to work, how to do it when you are tired and angry"
- "Today's children don't have the ability to bear it at all, so I don't know if it's a problem with education."
- "Some parents are also true, their grades were not good at the beginning, and now they have to ask their children to see how much pressure the children have."