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Marrying into a wealthy family should be a happy thing, but Cao Qing, a CCTV beauty host, married a rich American husband, but she lived a worse life than the poor.
Guess what she went through? She was imprisoned at home by her husband, and could only eat leftovers, could only use one pack of sanitary napkins a year, and even more terrible, suffered from her husband's domestic violence and abuse!
Are you already so shocked that you can't stop talking, but this is just an appetizer, and you'll be completely dumbfounded when you see her god unfold!
Don't look at Cao Qing's charming eyes, in fact, her heart is more gentlemanly than a man. Since he was a child, he has been a monkey stick, and he is cute and cute on the stage, and he shows his teeth and claws when he gets off the stage. The family looked at her little sun-like energy, so they decided to train her to be a host and let her shine on the stage.
Sure enough, Cao Qing has been learning everything well since she was a child, especially English, and was favored by China Transmission University when she was in high school. When she arrived at the university, she was even more powerless, and when she presided over campus activities, she was personable and a typhoon, and won the love of countless brothers and sisters. When she was about to graduate, she was photographed by CCTV and has since become a rising star on the screen.
Who knew that the good times would not last long, and when her career was in full swing, Cao Qing was taken by an old American man. This old man's name is Tu Zhongheng, 20 years older than Cao Qing, but he chases her relentlessly, it can be said that an old cow eats tender grass!
At first, Cao Qing turned a blind eye, but the old man was so good at flirting with him, all kinds of luxury cars, mansions, watches and jewelry smashed over, and Cao Qing was finally moved.
She began to fantasize about marrying this old man, would she be able to live a carefree life as a rich wife? No longer have to work, and she can make a lot of money lying down? Thinking of this, Cao Qing's heart itched.
On the day of the wedding, Cao Qing was like a delicate woman walking out of an ancient painting, her face full of joy. Who would have thought that at this very moment, her nightmare also began.
When she arrived in the United States, Cao Qing knew that she had fallen for it. The old man turned out to be a miser, and he had full control over the family's money, and Cao Qing had to nod his head if he wanted to spend money.
What's even more ridiculous is that this old man actually restricted Cao Qing to only one pack of sanitary napkins a year! As a woman, what a humiliation this is! Cao Qing cried and begged him, but he was determined not to let go. In desperation, Cao Qing could only tighten her belt to get by.
Just when Cao Qing thought that life could not be worse, an even cruel scene happened. One day, the old man suddenly confessed that he was an infertile person! This was a bolt from the blue for Cao Qing, who was eager to have children!
She was very aggrieved and asked the old man why he lied to her? Unexpectedly, the old man turned his face and denied people, and began to punch and kick Cao Qing, domestic violence and abuse!
Since then, the relationship between the two has been like a burning powder keg, in danger of exploding at any moment. The quarrel became more and more intense, and the old man's violence became more and more unscrupulous. Poor Cao Qing, skinny, locked up in her room, without even the right to move freely. She lives like a prisoner, and her situation is shocking!
Do you think this is Cao Qing's worst time? Haha, then you are too naïve!
Despite being so devastated, Cao Qing refused to divorce, but had the illusion of reconciling. Some netizens persuaded her to get a divorce quickly, but she denied it, saying "I don't want to divorce, I just want him to be better". Hearing this, netizens were all disappointed, and they reprimanded her for not having fighting spirit and being tied to her hands and feet.
It is true that Cao Qing sometimes falls into despair, but she always has a glimmer of hope and fantasizes about rebuilding an old friendship with the old man. "He was so bad to me, but he loved me so much, maybe we could get back together. "Yes, who would have thought that this wife who was abused by domestic violence would be so infatuated with the abuser?
It wasn't until 2017 that Cao Qing finally came to her senses and decided to sue the old man for divorce. But in court, the old man actually bit back and accused Cao Qing of hurting him first! In this way, Cao Qing's appeal was rejected, and she still couldn't get rid of the old man's control and continued to live a heinous life.
This incident quickly aroused heated discussions among netizens on the Internet. Some netizens believe that Cao Qing was blinded and had too many unrealistic illusions about marriage to make such a stupid choice.
Some netizens also believe that the reason why Cao Qing is so desperate is because she has been severely traumatized by domestic violence, and has a distorted psychology that being abused is equal to being loved.
Some netizens believe that this incident has once again aroused attention to the issue of domestic violence, exposing that there are still great flaws and deficiencies in the laws, regulations and protection measures of our society in this regard.
In any case, Cao Qing's experience is indeed shocking. Marriage was supposed to be a sacred thing for two people to respect and support each other, but it was completely trampled on by Cao Qing's husband.
A once radiant CCTV beauty finally became a victim of domestic violence, which is a heavy blow to the whole society. It is necessary to further strengthen the construction of the law, improve the relevant systems, and provide a stronger protective umbrella for victims of domestic violence.
At the same time, we should also intensify efforts to disseminate the correct outlook on marriage and family to the whole society, so that every family can be full of sunshine and joy.
Through this incident, it is not difficult for us to see that marriage is not as good as imagined, it requires mutual respect, understanding and tolerance from both parties.
The reason why Cao Qing suffered this catastrophe is largely due to the fact that she has too many unrealistic illusions about marriage. She thought that if she married a rich man, she would be able to live a carefree life, but she didn't expect to fall into a nightmare instead.
At the same time, this incident has once again aroused our attention to the issue of domestic violence. Although there is some concern about this in society now, it is clear that it is not enough.
We need to further improve the relevant laws and regulations, increase penalties, and provide stronger protection for victims. More importantly, we need to solve this problem at the source, so that everyone can establish a correct view of marriage and family, and fill every family with love and understanding.
Finally, I would like to ask: How do you think a victim of domestic violence like Cao Qing should get out of the haze and regain the hope and courage of life?