1. Today, the expectations and reflections of the Dream Pigeon couple on the future
Time flies, in the blink of an eye, and now the dream pigeon has spent half a hundred years of life. As she approached her 56th birthday, a hint of silver had quietly appeared in her jet-black hair.
And her husband Li Shuangjiang has entered the old age, and the 83-year-old age has stained his temples with frost, marking that they have entered the twilight stage of life.
Although the two elders are getting old, their deepest expectation is still that their son Li Tianyi can break free as soon as possible, regain his freedom, and welcome the dawn of a new life.
Over the years, their son's crimes have left them with heavy psychological trauma and prompted them to deeply reflect on their past educational mistakes.
Under the wrong education method of over-spoiling children and obeying them in every way, Li Tianyi formed an arrogant and uninhibited character since he was a child, and finally went to the abyss of breaking the law and committing crimes.
Now in prison, parents hope that their son can completely repent and find his own path to rebirth.
Once their son is freed from the shackles and regained his life, both Mengge and Li Shuangjiang firmly decided to teach him in a strict and caring way to prevent him from going astray again.
At the same time, they should also be grateful for each other's company, care for and support each other, and cherish every moment of the rest of their lives.
More importantly, they should fulfill the filial piety of their children and take care of their elderly parents so that they can enjoy a carefree old age. Mengge deeply reflected that when he was young, he pursued his career too much and neglected the filial piety to his parents, and now he will make up for this regret in a way that is worthy of his heart.
With the advent of the bright spring season of another year, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang are looking forward to their son starting again in this beautiful season and opening a new chapter in his life.
Second, the golden age of educating children was missed
Looking back on the growth process of her son Li Tianyi, Mengge was full of emotion, she and Li Shuangjiang made serious mistakes on the road of educating children. They missed the best educational opportunity for their children to grow up, leading their sons to eventually embark on the road of no return to breaking the law and committing crimes.
From childhood to adulthood, Li Tianyi has been an arrogant and domineering little bully. At school, he often bullied his classmates and even once pushed a peer off the second floor. However, every time faced with this situation, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang never punished their son seriously, but always used money to calm the dispute and cover up the conflict.
As time passed, Li Tianyi gradually developed a wrong way of thinking, believing that no matter when and where, as long as his parents were around, he would have a solid backing to rely on, and there was no need to be in awe of anyone or anything.
In the eyes of Mengge and Li Shuangjiang, Li Tianyi is undoubtedly an outstanding young man with extraordinary talents. Even before he entered kindergarten, he had already won many honorary awards for his outstanding performance in many competitions at home and abroad, whether it was calligraphy, painting skills or musical talent, he was able to master it with ease.
Dream Pigeon often proudly declares in public that her son will be able to become an outstanding talent on a par with Nobel laureates in the future.
However, it is this blind confidence and excessive doting that makes them miss the golden age of educating their children. Under the meticulous care of his parents, Li Tianyi gradually lost the basic principles of life, and finally went to the abyss of breaking the law and committing crimes.
In 2013, at the age of 15, Li Tianyi was detained for a year for participating in a brawl. Less than half a year after he was released from prison, he once again crossed the legal red line, this time raping a woman, and was finally sentenced to 10 years in prison.
This news was like a thunderbolt from the sky, completely hitting the originally proud and complacent Dream Pigeon and Li Shuangjiang to the bottom, falling into endless self-blame and pain.
3. The arduous journey of the dream pigeon on the road to fame
Today's dream pigeon has become famous, but looking back on the past, she also gradually struggled from an unknown little girl. She was born into an ordinary family in Shashi, Hubei Province, where her mother, Yu Mingxiu, was an ordinary employee of a local vegetable company, and her father worked for a construction company.
Influenced by his mother Yu Mingxiu, Mengge has been full of love for singing since he was a child, and he has shown excellent musical talent during his school years. At the age of 13, she was fortunate to be selected and hired by the local art troupe, and since then she has embarked on a journey to pursue her music dream.
However, Mengge soon realizes that just being a member of the art troupe is not enough to satisfy her desires, and she needs a broader stage.
So at the age of 18, Mengge, who had a dream of music, resolutely left his hometown and came to the bustling metropolis of Beijing. However, life in Beipiao was far from what she expected, and she had to practice her voice hard day after day in a small rented room, and sing in a song hall at night to make ends meet.
Under a rare coincidence, a noble man suggested to Mengge, suggesting that she go to Shougang Art Troupe for further study in the art examination. Although the living conditions during that time were quite difficult, this decision laid the foundation for her future entry into music school, and finally to shine.
Under the patient teaching of the talented and well-known singer Li Shuangjiang, Mengge's attainments in the field of music and the experience of stage performance have been significantly improved. She has won many honors such as "The Most Outstanding Singer in the Professional Group of the Youth Song Competition", "The Highest Honor Award of the All-Army Art Show", "China Golden Record Award", and her personal reputation is also in full swing.
Fourth, after going through hardships, he finally got a beloved son
Since tying the knot with Li Shuangjiang, Mengge's biggest wish in his heart is to have a warm and happy family, with a lively and lovely child by his side.
However, it is not so easy for the couple to realize this dream.
Soon after the marriage, Mengge became pregnant, which made the couple full of anticipation. However, the good times are always short-lived, and Dream Pigeon's two successive pregnancies ended in miscarriage and fetal death, leaving them devastated.
Whenever he recalls the scene of the child's departure, Dream Pigeon always can't help but tears ripple.
When she became pregnant for the third time, Mengge was studying for a master's degree at the China Conservatory of Music, and she not only had to juggle her heavy studies to write her graduation thesis, but also carefully protect herself from losing this precious life again.
Mentor Zou Wenqin saw Mengge's plight and was deeply sympathetic and gave her a lot of love and care.
During this period, Li Shuangjiang took care of his wife as a treasure. Whenever Mengge is still writing at her desk in the dead of night, Li Shuangjiang will always carefully prepare a basin of hot water for her to soak her feet, or massage her head and shoulders, hoping to relieve her fatigue.
Sometimes, Li Shuangjiang's physical condition deteriorated after a long period of hard work, but for the sake of his wife and unborn children, he always gritted his teeth and persevered.
Thankfully, despite all the hardships and obstacles, Mengge finally ushered in the birth of a baby boy in April 1996 and named him Li Tianyi (nicknamed Little Stone). Due to his low birth weight, Li Tianyi had to temporarily live in an incubator for the first few days.
In those few days, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang were like ants on a hot pot, waiting next to the incubator at all times, for fear that the nurse would be a little negligent, causing problems with the insulation equipment and hurting the baby.
After three days of meticulous care, "Little Stone" was finally able to leave the incubator and snuggle up to his parents healthily and happily.
Fifth, the dream pigeon couple doted on their son and caused him to lose his life course
Since the birth of their precious son, Ms. Mengge and Mr. Li Shuangjiang have hopelessly embarked on the road of doting. Perhaps it was the ecstatic mood of old age that caused the great couple to pour endless expectations and fantasies into this only child.
In their world, Li Tianyi is undoubtedly a symbol of talent and talent. Since childhood, he has shown outstanding talents in calligraphy, painting, music and other fields, and has won many national competition awards.
Ms. Mengge often proudly proclaims in public that her son will become a prominent figure on a par with Nobel laureates in the future.
However, it was in this environment of endless doting and excessive expectations that Li Tianyi developed an arrogant and domineering personality from an early age. He often bullied his classmates at school, and even once pushed a peer off the second floor, causing him to be seriously injured.
Whenever such an incident occurred, Ms. Mengge and Mr. Li Shuangjiang never punished their son seriously, but always used money to solve the problem. Over time, Li Tianyi gradually formed a wrong concept, thinking that as long as his parents were around, no matter what kind of behavior he did, he would have someone to support him, and he didn't need to take any rules into account.
With the passage of time, Li Tianyi completely lost the moral bottom line that he should have as a person. Finally, at the age of 15, he was detained for a year for his involvement in a brawl. However, less than half a year after he was released from prison, he broke the law again, this time for raping a woman and was sentenced to 10 years in prison.
This was undoubtedly a heavy blow, which drove the originally proud and arrogant Ms. Mengge and Mr. Li Shuangjiang into the abyss and plunged into deep self-blame and pain. Their son's insane crime made them reflect deeply and realize the educational mistakes of the past years.