After the fat cat incident, Tan Zhu was abused by the whole network, and the famous emotional mentor Tu Lei was also scolded on the hot search. Public opinion continued to ferment, and Tu Lei finally responded after being abused by the Internet for more than half a month.
Tu Lei said that he had been abused by the Internet for so long, and he had withdrawn from his anger, and he was not so shameless that the more he was scolded, the more excited he became, and he wanted to catch this splashing wealth.
Tu Lei said that he saw some controversial words on the Internet, which made him fall into thought. "Tu Lei was cyberbullied, was he wronged or not"?
In Tu Lei's view, if the incident itself is concerned, he is wronged, because he has nothing to do with the parties. But if you look at it in the long run, he is not wronged.
Because as a public figure, since he has endured the love of so many fans, he has to bear the obligation to speak more completely and objectively.
In Tu Lei's view, fans misunderstood what he said and used it in the wrong place, which led to family disputes, if it has nothing to do with him, it is impossible.
Therefore, Tu Lei reflected and summarized. The first point is that nothing that is emotionally charged is absolutely correct and needs to be understood in the context of a story and a context.
Tu Lei said that the words he commented on the guests on the show were all interpreted in a story, and he had to understand his meaning in combination with the whole story.
The second point is that it is taken out of context, deliberately misled and disseminated. Tu Lei believes that anyone who quotes and interprets a certain passage is to understand it in their own favor. For example, someone will take out a certain sentence in the show and attack his lover alone.
This will not solve family problems, but also breed a lot of family conflicts, Tu Lei said that he can't stay out of the matter, after all, these words did come out of his mouth, if he said it more perfectly, maybe the impact would be smaller.
For example, home is a place of love, not of reason. Tu Lei said this sentence means that a person is angry, it is unreasonable, and he must first calm his emotions, and the way to calm his emotions is tolerance and love. But if it is taken out alone, it may become vexatious.
There is also the famous theory of spending money and lover, Tu Lei's words at the time were, "If a man spends money on you, he may not love you, but if a man is not willing to spend a penny on you, then he definitely doesn't love you."
It was this sentence that pushed Tu Lei to the forefront and caused huge controversy, and overwhelming abuse followed. After the "fat cat incident" was exposed, Tu Lei's words were dug up, and he was labeled as the "godfather of fishing girls".
Now, Tu Lei responded that these words should be understood in a specific context, and he means that if you have it, you will spend more, and if you don't have it, you will spend less, but you can't spend nothing.
Recalling the experience of being cyberbullied, Tu Lei lamented that it was indeed his own shortcomings, if he had spoken more completely and comprehensively at that time, maybe everyone would not misinterpret his meaning, and he did not let the girl just ask for it and not pay.
In addition, Tu Lei also refuted the rumors, he denied the three marriages spread on the Internet, claiming that he had only been married once, which is the current marriage, and I hope everyone will not spread rumors.
In the end, Tu Lei said that he did not deliberately cater to female fans, nor would he cut the leeks of female fans. If this is the case, then he will go to sell classes and bring goods to sell jewelry and cosmetics, but he doesn't, he brings goods and sells some just necessities, essential supplies for daily life.
Tu Lei admitted that he did have a problem, but he was not as heinous as the cyberbully said, and he said that if there would be, he would be encouraged if there was nothing to change, and he would reflect on it.
After Tu Lei responded, the comment area was polarized, and there were many voices for and against, some people felt that he was scolded very wronged, and some people felt that he was not wronged at all.
It can only be said that the wise see the wise, the benevolent see the benevolent, Tu Lei, as a public figure, is understandable for causing controversy, he needs to improve himself again and speak more comprehensively.