In our rural world, neighborhood relations are like the ancient proverb: "Distant relatives are better than close neighbors." "But sometimes, some neighbors are really difficult, not because they're bad, but because their lifestyle or habits make you feel more comfortable keeping the right distance. Today, let's talk about the "three non-neighbors" in the countryside, so that everyone understands that sometimes, choosing a good neighbor is more important than choosing a good house.
The first, the "Lone Ranger" type. This kind of neighbor is like a lone hero in a martial arts novel, they are alone, they don't like to socialize, and they carry everything at home. You may not be able to help, and you may not be afraid to disturb them. The ancients said: "Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black." "If there is a big or small problem in the family that needs help, but you can't find anyone, then the feeling in your heart is not good. Therefore, such neighbors, far away, everyone can live more easily.
The second type, the "broken mouth" type. This kind of neighbor, their mouth is like a never-ending gossip machine, and they can tell you all day about the trivial things in the village. The old people often say, "The ear is someone else's debt." "Being surrounded by these trivial things for a long time inevitably affects my mood. is still the same sentence, it is better to offend a gentleman than a villain, stay away from this kind of neighbor, and life can be pure.
The third type is the "love to take advantage of a small advantage" type. This kind of neighbor always wants to get some benefit from you, but he is never willing to pay. They may borrow something and not return it, or they may look for it at every turn
Take advantage of you. Confucius said, "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you." "This kind of person, let's stay away, so as not to take advantage of our own family.
Of course, the above statement does not mean that all neighbors are like this, but it is just a reminder to be careful when choosing a neighbor. After all, good neighbors can bring harmony to your neighbors, and bad neighbors can become small annoyances in your life. Therefore, finding a neighbor who knows the roots and gets along well is a valuable asset in rural life.
Finally, don't forget that no matter where we are, we should treat those around us with a tolerant heart, because "harmony makes money, and family and everything prospers". The neighborhood relationship in the countryside, although simple, is an indispensable part of our lives, let us maintain this simple neighborly feeling!
I hope you feel something after reading this article, if you agree, you may wish to forward it to those friends who are living in the countryside, or share your views in the comment area. After all, a good story can resonate with people and warm others.