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My name is Li Li, and I am an ordinary housewife, so ordinary that I couldn't be more ordinary. My husband is an ordinary worker, and we live a life of barely making ends meet. I grew up knowing that family is the most important thing. When I was a child, my family was a warm light, a happy smile, and a harbor of family affection. However, this family may not be so perfect for me.
I have two sons, the eldest son is called Zhang Qiang, and the younger son is called Zhang Feng. They are also my pride, but their personalities are very different. Zhang Qiang is a steady person, meticulous in his work, and his words and deeds are very decent. Zhang Feng, on the other hand, is a romantic and somewhat dissolute guy who always worries me about his future.
One day, Zhang Qiang announced a major news to me: "Mom, I'm getting married." He said it as a matter of course, as if marriage was just a hurdle in life, and there was no need to hesitate and think too much. I looked at him, and my heart was full of emotion, my eldest son had grown up and was about to start his own family.
"Marriage is a big deal, what kind of girl do you choose?" I asked, expecting to hear an answer that would satisfy me.
Zhang Qiang smiled, "Her name is Wang Ting, she is my college classmate, we have been together for a long time, and we have a good relationship." ”
I was relieved that my eldest son's choice did not disappoint me. "And what about her family?" I asked again.
"Her family conditions are good, her parents are in business, and she has no financial problems. Zhang Qiang replied.
When I heard this, I always felt a little uneasy. Good family conditions mean that their lifestyle and family concept may not be the same as ours. However, I can't express it directly, so I can only say vaguely: "That's good, you just have a good relationship." ”
However, just when I thought everything would go smoothly, Zhang Qiang's next sentence surprised me: "Mom, after their family proposes to marry me in, you can transfer our house to them." ”
I was suddenly stuck there, and an indescribable wave of anger and disappointment welled up in my heart. I couldn't help but widen my eyes and stare blankly at Zhang Qiang, as if he had just said the most ridiculous thing in the world.
"What do you say, transfer our house?!" I finally spoke, my voice filled with anger and disbelief.
Zhang Qiang looked at me and smiled bitterly, "Mom, this is their family's request, they think our family's conditions are relatively poor, and they are worried that I will suffer in the future." I also think that the transfer house is nothing, anyway, we are not very comfortable to live in, their conditions are good, and I can live better if I go. ”
Hearing Zhang Qiang say this, I felt as if I had been slapped in the face, and a strong dissatisfaction and anger surged in my heart. How can my husband and I easily sell the little possessions we have saved up after years of hard work?!
"No!" I snapped, "I'm never going to transfer our house to anyone else, whoever they are!
Zhang Qiang looked at me, a trace of helplessness and incomprehension flashed in his eyes, "Mom, why are you so stubborn? Their family's request is not too much, you look at the conditions of our family, it is indeed relatively poor, and there is nothing to be reluctant to pass over." ”
I didn't know how to explain it to Zhang Qiang, because I knew that this was not just a dispute about the house, but a battle about the bottom line and dignity of the family. I had to stick to my bottom line, even if it meant a conflict with my son.
"It's not a matter of money, it's a matter of principle!" I said firmly, "Although our family's conditions are not as good as theirs, we have our own dignity and bottom line, and I will never do anything that harms the interests of our family!"
Zhang Qiang looked at me, as if he wanted to say something, but finally lowered his head silently. I knew that this debate was far from over, and that I had to be prepared to fight their family even more fiercely for the sake of my bottom line.
In the days that followed, the atmosphere at home became a little tense. Zhang Qiang and I often quarreled, he thought I was too stubborn, but I stood my ground and never compromised. It also made me re-examine our relationship as a family.
Zhang Feng, my youngest son, seems to be in the position of a bystander in this family strife. He's always been close to me, but he seems to have chosen to remain silent on this issue. Whenever I tried to talk to him about it, he always coped with it perfunctorily and didn't want to take a stand.
"Son, what do you think about this?" I asked, hoping he would give me some support.
Zhang Feng smiled bitterly, "Mom, this matter is very difficult to say, and I can't interfere." ”
I was a little disappointed, but I understood his difficulties. Maybe he finds it difficult to choose a side between me and Zhang Qiang, or maybe he has his own ideas, but he doesn't want to show them.
At the same time, Wang Ting's family does not seem to intend to give up their demands so easily. From time to time, they would send people to my house to look for me, trying to convince me to agree to transfer the house. Every time they arrived, I felt a lot of pressure, but I stood my ground and flatly refused their request.
"Aunt Li, we really think that transferring the house is the best choice, so that Zhang Qiang and Wang Ting's life can be better, and you don't have to worry about their future. Wang Ting's mother repeatedly persuaded her.
I looked at her coldly, but my heart was full of fiery anger. How could their family covet our property so unscrupulously? I tried to restrain my emotions and calmly replied, "I am already clear about our family's decision, and I will not change my mind." ”
She looked at me, a trace of resentment and incomprehension flashed in her eyes, "Is it really right for you to do this?
I gritted my teeth and refused to say anything more to her. I know that no amount of justification can change their minds, and the only thing they can do is to stick to their bottom line and never compromise.
As the days passed, the relationship between me and Zhang Qiang became more and more strained. He began to become more and more distant and seemed to lose trust and respect for me. Every time he saw me, he had an impatient look on his face, as if I had become a burden in his life.
"Mom, can't you make some concessions for me?" Zhang Qiang said to me, "This is very important for me and Wang Ting's future." ”
I looked at him angrily, "I've done a lot for your future, but transferring the house is definitely my bottom line, and I can't compromise anymore." ”
He sighed and shook his head helplessly, "Mom, you're so stubborn, can't you think more about my happiness?"
Hearing him say this, I felt a sharp pain in my heart, as if I had been cut by a knife. I don't know what I've done wrong and why my persistence has become a barrier between them.
However, I also understood that I could never waver in my position, even if it meant losing my son's understanding and support. The bottom line and dignity of the family are more important than anything else.
In the midst of this family storm, I felt as if I was in a sea of darkness, surrounded by a blank area where to go. I used to think that the family was the strongest fortress, but now I find that it can also be the most vulnerable link. I began to doubt my choice and wonder if my persistence was worth it.
At the same time, my husband began to join the strife. His previous taciturn personality seemed to have been released at this time, and he began to firmly support me, stand on the same side as me, and stick to our bottom line.
"Husband, do you think I'm doing the right thing?" I asked, my heart full of doubts and uneasiness.
He held my hand and said with a firm look in his eyes: "Of course yes, we can't let others bully us, let alone let our son lose his dignity in this matter." ”
His words made me feel incredibly warm and comforted, and I knew that no matter what happened, he would always support me and face my family's challenges together.
At the same time, however, the atmosphere at home is becoming more and more tense. Zhang Qiang and Wang Ting's wedding date is getting closer and closer, and the conflict between me and Wang Ting's family is becoming more and more acute. They started putting pressure on me constantly, trying to force me to make concessions.
"Aunt Li, we really think you are too stubborn, and it will not benefit anyone if you continue like this. Wang Ting's father came to me again, his tone full of dissatisfaction and resentment.
I looked at him coldly and didn't speak. I know that no amount of argument is futile, and the only thing I can do is to stand my ground and not be threatened and intimidated by anyone.
"Aunt Li, you are not doing this for the good of your family, the conditions of your family are obviously worse than ours, why can't you think more about Zhang Qiang's happiness?" Wang Ting's mother also joined in.
I sneered, "You think our family's conditions are poor, so what? We have tried our best to accumulate this little possessions, how can we let it be easily handed over to others? No matter how good your family's conditions are, we can't measure everything by money." ”
They couldn't understand my thoughts and had to leave helplessly. I know that this fight is far from over, but I will stay the course and never give in.
At the same time, I began to re-examine my relationship with Zhang Qiang. Perhaps, I made some mistakes when he was growing up, or maybe I was too strict and stubborn, causing him to become more and more distant. I began to regret some of my decisions and began to wonder if I wasn't good enough.
"Zhang Qiang, Mom knows that there are many things I don't do well enough, but I really don't want to lose you. I said to Zhang Qiang, my voice full of guilt and unease.
He looked at me, his eyes full of mixed emotions, "Mom, I know you're doing it for my good, but you can't be stubborn like this all the time." I hope you can think more about our future for my happiness. ”
Hearing him say that, I felt like a knife in my heart, and I knew that I had lost his understanding and support. I didn't know what I was supposed to do, and I began to regret some of my choices, my stubbornness and indifference.
At this critical moment, I began to reflect on my own actions and attitudes. Perhaps, I was too stubborn and indifferent to give Zhang Qiang enough understanding and support. I don't want to lose my son, and I don't want our relationship to become more estranged. I began to realize that maybe I should make some compromises for the sake of our family and happiness.
However, it all took such a sudden turn that I had not even had time to think it through before I was caught in an even more thrilling crisis.
One night, I was busy cooking and preparing dinner at home. Suddenly, the doorbell rang, and I walked over to open it, only to see a strange young woman standing in the doorway, her eyes full of panic and fear.
"Are you Aunt Li? I'm Wang Ting. She stammered.
I was stunned, I didn't expect Wang Ting to come to me suddenly, and she was alone. I felt uneasy, and my gut told me that something might not be right.
"What's wrong? what's going on?" I asked, my heart filled with anxiety and unease.
Wang Ting sobbed and said, "Auntie, Zhang Qiang...... Something happened to him. ”
When I heard the news, I immediately felt a sharp pain in my heart, as if I had been struck by lightning, and my whole person fell into a deep panic. I wanted to ask for more details, but my lips felt like nails were being nailed, and I couldn't say a complete sentence.
He ...... He was in a car accident on the road and is now in the hospital...... The doctor said that the situation was not optimistic...... "Wang Ting's voice became trembling, and tears rolled down.
I felt like my mind was in turmoil, and the whole world seemed to collapse before my eyes. My son, my eldest son, was in such an accident and I was unable to get to him in time to give him the care and support he needed most.
"Quick, let's go to the hospital!" I said to Wang Ting desperately, my voice full of anxiety and helplessness.
As we hurried to the hospital, I was filled with all sorts of foreboding premonitions. I don't know how my son is doing now, and I don't know if I'll be able to withstand facing him in his last moments.
Finally, we arrived at the hospital, and I stumbled into the room, only to see a scene that made my heart go through the cracks. Zhang Qiang was lying on the bed, his whole body was wrapped in gauze, his face was as pale as paper, and he seemed to have lost consciousness. My heart was torn apart in an instant, and I couldn't imagine how painful and desperate I would have been if I lost him.
"Zhang Qiang, wake up!" I knelt beside the bed, grabbed his hand, and called out in a trembling voice, "Mom is here, wake up!"
However, he didn't react at all, and his body seemed to have moved away from me, floating in another world. My heart was overwhelmed by a sense of despair and helplessness, and I didn't know what else I could do, so I could only silently pray for him, hoping that the heavens would favor him and let him through this life-and-death ordeal.
I spent a long, anxious night in the hospital. Every second seemed like a lifetime, and I could only keep waiting, waiting for my son to wake up, waiting for a miracle to happen.
Finally, early the next morning, the doctor came to the ward with good news. "Zhang Qiang's condition has improved, and he is out of danger. The doctor's words were like a shot in the arm, instantly landing the boulder in my heart.
I felt relieved, tears welled up in my eyes, and I wanted to tell the doctor the joy and gratitude in my heart, but my lips choked and I couldn't say a full sentence. I could only silently pray to the sky and thank God for this incredible miracle for me.
When Zhang Qiang gradually woke up, I rushed to his bedside as soon as possible, grabbed his hand, and tears flowed involuntarily. "Son, you're finally awake!" I said in a trembling voice, "Mommy has been waiting for you here, waiting for you to wake up." ”
Zhang Qiang opened his eyes slightly, his eyes full of confusion and incomprehension. "Mom, what's going on? Why am I in the hospital?" his voice sounded weak and weak.
I held his hand tightly and said in a trembling voice, "You had a car accident and the situation was dangerous, but now you are out of danger. ”
When he heard the news, a trace of surprise and fear flashed in his eyes. "Mom, I'...... How could I have been in a car accident?" his voice trembled, as if he was panicking about his situation.
I knew it wasn't the time to tell him the details of the crash, and I could only comfort him by saying, "Don't worry, you're safe and everything will be fine." ”
However, I knew in my heart that the accident was not an accident, but an elaborate conspiracy. I began to wonder if it had something to do with the strife between our families, and if someone had deliberately designed such an accident to take revenge on us.
I decided to start investigating the matter, I couldn't let those conspirators go unpunished, I wanted to find the truth about what happened to my son and make them pay for what they did.
However, I also understand that this will not be an easy struggle, and I will need to put in every effort and courage to protect my cherished family and maintain our family dignity and bottom line.
I grabbed the hospital sheet in my hand, and there was a sparkle of determination in my eyes. No matter what difficulties and challenges I will face in the future, I will stand firmly behind my family and face them together, and never back down.