But how do you really capture his heart and fill his mind with you?
In fact, the answer lies in the bits and pieces of daily life. With a few little tricks and strategies, you can easily leave a deep mark on a man's heart.
flavor
Did you know that different tastes feel different in a man's subconscious, and sometimes a particular smell is enough to evoke deep memories in a person.
My friend told me about one such thing. He has a first love that he can't forget, and this relationship has been haunting his heart for nearly ten years.
Strangely, whenever he smelled the scent of peaches, the image of the girl immediately came to his mind.
He said that his first love liked peach-flavored gum the most, and every time they kissed, his mouth was full of peach-sweet taste.
Now, whenever he eats peaches, or simply smells the peaches' unique fruity aroma, he thinks of her.
Although a long time has passed, and they are no longer what they were back then, in his heart, the girl will always be the pure and sweet "peach girl".
The memories of their first love, like the sweetness of peaches, have always remained in his heart and lingered.
This is to establish a deep "memory anchor" in the man's subconscious, which will make the man think of you as soon as he smells this in the days to come.
Imagine that on a sunny afternoon, you are walking down a bustling street with him, and suddenly, a familiar smell hits your nose.
It's the smell of ice cream you've tasted together, or the aroma of coffee you've drunk together, or the familiar smell of ink in the bookstore you've frequented.
At this moment, all the memories came to my heart: the laughter and laughter at that time, the gentle look at each other at that time, the good times at that time......
This unique "taste" is like a secret signal between you, no matter how much time passes, no matter how far away you are, as soon as this smell appears, it can immediately evoke resonance and emotion between you.
action
Blatantly tugging at his sleeves may seem too deliberate and unnatural. And that seemingly unintentional touch is often the most provocative.
The real masters always shoot in the shadows!
For example, when you are chatting well, you can pretend to touch his arm lightly unintentionally, so as not to miss a trace and to close the distance.
Or, if you order food together, you can flip your wrist slightly upwards when you hand him the menu.
Don't underestimate such a simple action. The skin on your wrist is delicate and weak, and when you show it to the other person, you are subconsciously sending a signal of trust.
It's like a kitten flipping out of its belly to show trust, and you're silently telling him, "I'm willing to believe in you and show you my most vulnerable side." ”
But beware, some of the so-called "dating cheats" circulating on the Internet, such as sucking a straw, playing with dishes, stroking a cup or biting your lip, should never be tried lightly if it is a first-time meeting!
These are more suitable for use when you already have a certain emotional foundation, such as on a third or fourth date. If you've developed a crush on each other, these little gestures might add a touch of spice.
Because most reliable men who are looking for a long-term relationship may have doubts about your overly skilled moves.
He may think, "Is she so experienced, has she been in love many times?" and this may make them feel uncomfortable.
scene
You can ask him to help you make a small choice from time to time, for example, you can send him a message and say, "These three swimsuits are too tangled, use your tasteful eye to help me choose, and see which swimsuit I will look good with?"
"I'll look good in it" is key, because it will inspire him to think of you in a swimsuit when he chooses.
At the same time, through his choices, you can also get a glimpse of the style he loves.
After he gives an answer, you can easily respond to him: "Okay, then next time we go to the beach together, I'll wear the swimsuit you chose and see how you look!"
In this way, he will be full of expectations for you in the coming days, and even more looking forward to seeing you in that swimsuit.
Write at the end
Finally, I would like to say that "having something to say" is much more attractive than "having an empty appearance".
Many girls have watched "The Legend of Zhen Huan", right? Think about it, why does the emperor never forget Huan Huan? It was in the Yimei Garden that I heard her chanting "If the wind is like understanding, it is easy to be destroyed".
The emperor didn't even see what Huan Huan looked like, but he was fascinated by her style and talent, and repeatedly recalled the scene at that time.
Looking back at our own chat history, every day begins with "Have you eaten?" and ends with "I'm so tired from work today".
I finally understand why some people drift away......
Therefore, the real charm does not depend on the face, but on the temperament and talent from the inside out, which is the most impressive.
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