"Sharing weal and woe" is not only a beautiful yearning, but also a philosophy of life.
For this sentence, I believe that Zhao Benshan's ex-wife Ge Shuzhen was deeply touched, and the two of them went all the way from poverty to wealth.
Unexpectedly, after Zhao Benshan became famous, he just filed for divorce from Ge Shuzhen in the tone of a notice, and the relationship ended.
So how will Ge Shuzhen choose? Has Zhao Benshan ever regretted it?
Sharing bitterness is not sweet
To say that Zhao Benshan's young life is really bitter.
When he was only 6 years old, his mother died. Not long after, his father abandoned him and left the country alone.
Zhao Benshan's childhood was eaten and grew up wearing hundreds of clothes, and he had no one to take care of him, so he had to follow his blind second uncle to learn art.
And there is a hard-working girl not far from him, that is, Ge Shuzhen, like Zhao Benshan, when she was young, her parents died, and she could only rely on her brothers and sisters to pull her up.
When Zhao Benshan was 16 years old, he relied on the skills he learned to enter the commune's propaganda team, which can be regarded as a little better.
However, before a few days of peace passed, the team was disbanded, and Zhao Benshan returned to the village.
In the blink of an eye, Zhao Benshan was 22 years old, and he could be regarded as an older man in the countryside at that time.
The main reason is because he is too poor, but what he didn't expect was that the people in the village introduced two people with the same fate to each other.
Zhao Benshan was originally afraid that Ge Shuzhen would think he was poor, but after getting along a few times, he found out that the other party not only didn't care about his conditions, but was also a virtuous and good daughter-in-law.
To say that after Ge Shuzhen met Zhao Benshan, she was surprised to find the other party's shining point, which was humorous and had a strong personal charm.
After going back and forth, the two felt that they had picked up the treasure, and in 1979, the two got married and officially began the siege journey.
The marriage ceremony of the two was called a simple one, and they didn't even have decent clothes, so they had to ask the neighbors around them to borrow some money and buy clothes.
There is no formal wedding room, but there is a kang in one room, and I live this day in a daze.
However, just after getting married, Zhao Benshan's life ushered in a new turn.
This year, there was a quyi troupe in the county, and Zhao Benshan was tired of doing farm work every day, so he went to the county to have an opportunity.
Ge Shuzhen really didn't see the wrong person, and the Quyi Troupe immediately recruited Zhao Benshan, so that he also had a formal job.
If you want to talk about Zhao Benshan's artistic talent, I don't think there is any need to go into details, it didn't take long for him to become a big man in the group.
The blind man he performed was even more vivid, and he also had a place in the Northeast where the two of them frequently went out.
While he was performing everywhere, Ge Shuzhen was at home, taking care of their daughter.
No one expected that the life of the two people who were suffering from their lives would get better after marriage, but the changes were also unexpected.
In 1982, Ge Shuzhen gave birth to her son Zhao Tiedan.
Zhao Benshan smiled from ear to ear, his career was thriving, his children were complete, and his spirit was written on his face.
Unfortunately, it didn't take long for a thunderbolt to be heard.
His son, Zhao Tiedan, was born deaf and mute, and after a hospital examination, it was found that he had heart disease and hypochondriasis.
For a while, Ge Shuzhen felt that the sky had fallen.
Zhao Benshan can only perform harder, wanting to earn money for his son's treatment.
As a result, this year also became the year when Zhao Benshan's career broke out.
He has received great recognition in the rural talent competition held by Liaoning Provincial Drama, and it can be said that the entire Liaoning Province knows him.
Later, a director took a fancy to Zhao Benshan and made his work "Breaking the Three Strings" into a TV series and put it on the big screen.
Zhao Benshan is also known to audiences across the country because of this TV series.
In 1987, Pan Changjiang, who is also from the Northeast, collaborated with Zhao Benshan on the program "Daguan Lantern".
In this way, Zhao Benshan was transferred from the art troupe in the county to the art troupe in Tieling City.
At this time, the husband and wife also had a trace of spiritual comfort.
However, as the saying goes, when a man is rich, he becomes bad.
Even couples like Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen, who have gone through hardships, have not been able to escape this sentence.
Another new love
In 1991, Zhao Benshan dialed the phone of his wife Ge Shuzhen in the village with apprehension.
Ge Shuzhen picked up the phone and heard her husband say sorry, so she understood everything, and the word divorce was finally said by Zhao Benshan.
This also made Ge Shuzhen, whose life had just improved a little, fall into the ice cellar again.
In fact, Zhao Benshan wanted to divorce because he met another woman in Tieling, Ma Lijuan.
Ma Lijuan of the Art Troupe will not be like Ge Shuzhen, except for working in the field, that is, the kang head and the stove.
She understands national affairs and art, all of which is what Zhao Benshan has always yearned for.
It's just that because of poverty before, I didn't dare to think of such an excellent woman.
However, now it is different, the well-known Zhao Benshan has the right to pursue his own happiness, so he told his wife who was bad at home about the divorce.
After Ge Shuzhen learned the news, she almost fainted from crying.
Under the persuasion of her brother, she gradually accepted all this.
In May 1991, the two divorced.
It has been 12 years since the marriage to the divorce.
Zhao Benshan was also difficult to let go in his heart, and slowly felt guilty and made him give up all his property, and at the same time, the child also followed Ge Shuzhen.
One is not wide
A year after divorcing Ge Shuzhen, Zhao Benshan married Ma Lijuan as he wished.
And the abandoned Ge Shuzhen did not remarry, although many people around her persuaded her to let her find a home while she was young.
However, in Ge Shuzhen's opinion, if she remarries with her two children, even if the other party does not dislike it, the two children may not necessarily adapt.
Instead of making do, it is better to live your own life alone with two children.
Because the second child's body is very weak, even though Ge Shuzhen has tried her best, she still can't keep her son, and at the age of 12, Zhao Tiedan passed away.
The death of her son made it difficult for Ge Shuzhen to accept, she washed her face with tears every day, was overly sad, and fell ill directly.
After recuperation, Ge Shuzhen recovered quickly, because she still had a daughter to bring. Not only to bring it, but also to bring it well.
So, Ge Shuzhen began to look for various jobs to earn more money and give her daughter a better life.
However, it is a pity that she has no culture, and she can only find some hard work to find around, not only earning little money, but also working very hard, and often can't take care of her daughter.
Many people have asked her, didn't Zhao Benshan also leave some property when he divorced, why did he work so hard?
Ge Shuzhen clearly said that because she would sit and eat the mountain empty, there will eventually be a mountain empty, but in fact, she also wants to prove herself in secret.
Under Ge Shuzhen's insistence, she has been doing the lowest work, sweeping and serving dishes.
She is no longer a young man with strong physical strength, but in order to earn more money, she also chooses to work day and night.
When the daughter saw that her mother was working so hard, she suggested to her: "Either go to Dad's company and find a vacant position!"
Ge Shuzhen rejected her daughter's suggestion on the grounds that Zhao Benshan already had a new family.
At this time, Zhao Benshan was not only a frequent visitor to the Spring Festival Gala, but also opened a media company, and he had already lived a life of a superior person.
Ge Shuzhen saw all this, and still maintained her rhythm without hurrying.
However, the emperor lived up to his hard work, and everything finally ushered in a turnaround.
Bitterness is sweet, and I can't afford to climb high
Under Ge Shuzhen's careful teaching, her daughter was also very good and was admitted to university.
After graduating, they found a stable job, and the life of the mother and daughter was very comfortable.
However, deep in Ge Shuzhen's heart, she still has a heart that wants to prove herself.
So after the child was stable, she began to toss.
Ge Shuzhen's cultural level is not high, and after careful consideration, she took out her savings and opened a restaurant.
When she first opened the restaurant, she was also worried about the daily passenger flow.
Many friends gave her ideas: "Your ex-husband Zhao Benshan is a household name, otherwise he will be used as a signboard, there must be a lot of people!"
Unexpectedly, Ge Shuzhen didn't have such a mind at all, and drew a clear line with Zhao Benshan, she thought that the two had been divorced for many years, and it was a basic problem that the well water did not violate the river water.
In Ge Shuzhen's thoughts, she wants her daughter to understand that her father is very powerful, but her mother is no worse than him.
With such a belief, Ge Shuzhen opened her own hotel, and relied on her hard-working, simple and serious spirit to make the hotel popular.
No one thought that the village woman in the countryside would now become a strong woman.
Subsequently, his daughter got married, and Zhao Benshan came, and he saw Ge Shuzhen in front of him with an unbelievable look.
The woman in front of her was unfazed, without any trace of the past.
At this time, Zhao Benshan was already full of white hair and looked like a little old man.
Now, no matter what happened back then, more than 30 years have passed, and Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen have long been relieved of everything.
In comparison, Zhao Benshan is busy and has been in the turmoil of public opinion, and Ge Shuzhen is the envy of everyone if she stays away from right and wrong and has a successful career.
After her daughter got married, Ge Shuzhen put life first, talked with her daughter, chatted, drank tea at home, and lived a beautiful life.
And Zhao Benshan was overworked, and the news of his birth illness was spread since he was 64 years old.
Then he fell into the dispute between his apprentices, and I believe that Zhao Benshan at this time also wanted to be as leisurely as Ge Shuzhen in his heart.
However, it is worth mentioning that Zhao Benshan has set a rule for his apprentices, that is, he is not allowed to abandon his wife after becoming famous.
I don't think it's necessary to say that the reason why he made such a rule must be because he also regretted it.
epilogue
Many people think that husband and wife are easy to share happiness and happiness, but not to share sorrows.
But the story of Ge Shuzhen and Zhao Benshan tells us that there are still many people who can work together to suffer, but what they can't do is to start from the beginning.
Maybe the two of them have a shallow relationship, but such a bad fate can be regarded as an achievement for Ge Shuzhen!
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