Ask all women a question: In your heart, is your husband more important or her mother's family more important?
This is a question that I accidentally saw from a blogger and instantly struck me in the heart.
Husband VS mother's family
Which one weighs more heavily on your heart?
One is a man who gets along with him day and night, and the other is a family that he has lived in since he was a child, and his parents who gave birth to me and raised me are still treated as a family member after he got married.
Just like the back of the palm, each side is important.
Just when I didn't know how to reply, the real replies of more than 20,000 netizens in the comment area really opened my eyes, and the conclusion was also surprising!
Why only ask women, and men come out to answer!!
The mother's family is very important, but it must also be moderate, you can't blindly favor the mother's family, or the kind without a bottom line, which can easily cause your own small family to break up!
My husband is good to my parents, and I will be good to my in-laws!!
Kudos to this mother-in-law!!
What kind of couple are they!!
This feeling is like saying that the wife can be found again, and the mother has only one !!
Agree! Just take me to a good scale and be yourself!!
A good husband will take the initiative to hand over the money he earns!!
Hey, my parents are still here, my parents are gone, and most of my brothers and sisters are dead in name.
In fact, my old father has already given me the answer to this question: my partner is the most important, my children are my lifelong concern, and my parents are my responsibility.
My father said that after a lifetime, when you are old, you will find that only your wife is really by your side, talking to you, asking for warmth, and taking care of you.
Filial piety to parents and providing for them in old age is the responsibility of children, and it is also a reward for them.
You can give emotionally, but not the most important person.
For children, they have the obligation to raise them, but they are not the most important people, just the concern in their hearts and the sustenance of their spirits.
The old father also used his practical actions to prove to me that taking good care of my partner, being more considerate, and tolerating her more is the criterion for a sustainable marriage and a happy life.
Of course, my father also told me that your husband is important, but it doesn't mean that you have to take your in-laws' requests as holy decrees, and if you don't resist, you can't live your own life.
Respect the premise of your husband, but also have your own thoughts, don't blindly swallow your anger, and in the end you will only let yourself fall into a miserable situation.
What do you think about this?