Guide:
At a very young age, our older generation warned us that people have to cherish every day that belongs to them in life, to be honest, the end of life is death, a glorious life, a life of inaction, a life of success, and a life of failure are all the same. Then in the limited days, we must strive to realize one of our own values, so as to make life meaningful.
The ultimate destination of people is the grave, but for the deceased, the relics left before the death are still necessary to pay attention to the living people, there is an old saying in the countryside, "the relics are not left behind, and the misfortune is left"?
When a person dies, what relics can't be left behind, or in other words, why can't they be left behind? Isn't it good to leave a thought for the living?
If you are interested, let's explore it together and take a look at the meaning behind the proverb in the countryside.
1. No debts
When people are alive, they must pay attention to deal with debts well, many people think that people die and their debts are eliminated, but in fact, this is not right, especially in rural areas, it is even more impossible.
When a person dies, the debts left behind must be cleared, especially the kind that is more clear, such as a signature and a pledge, or some personal debts, must be repaid, if a person dies, and still leaves these debts, it is easy to lead to people's dissatisfaction, and even cause a disaster in the family.
As an heir, you must bear all the debts, rather than feeling that the debts are reasonable, or even directly being a liar.
2. Do not leave intricate family relationships
Before death, people should strive to build a harmonious, understanding and supportive family relationship, so that family, love and friendship can be fully communicated and expressed.
When a person passes away, family problems can become complex and difficult to solve.
Therefore, before a person leaves, it is best to deal with his emotional entanglements, the division of family property, or the conflicts between children, because these are likely to be the fuses of subsequent conflicts.
Therefore, people should bravely face and solve family problems before they are alive, so as to ensure that when they leave, they will leave a harmonious family tone, rather than a mystery, which will also bring a very big contradiction.
3. 不留遗憾
Life is quite short, although there will be regrets, but before you die, it is best not to leave too many regrets.
If you leave a relatively big regret, then the living people will be haunted, and even just want to help the deceased and fulfill an unfulfilled wish, which will also have a great impact on the family, and even affect your own unfinished career, so you will feel regretful.
Therefore, when you are alive, you should do your job well and don't leave too many regrets, otherwise, it will also have a very big impact on the follow-up, and even bring unnecessary troubles and contradictions in life.
"If you don't leave three relics, you will leave a lot of trouble?" They refer to the fact that debts are not left, complicated family relationships are not left, and regrets are not left; otherwise, it is easy to cause a great trouble to oneself and thus affect the life of the living person.
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