There is not a single dish, it is left because it tastes good.
Older men and women in life have their own reasons, and everyone dislikes others from their own standpoint, just like Yang Li's sentence: obviously he is very ordinary, but he is so confident.
Refuse to go on a blind date with an older leftover man
Ms. Wang, a 33-year-old woman, has always been single, and she was urged by her parents to go on a blind date, and she was very annoyed.
The woman revealed that she had a flexible brain since she was a child, and when she was young, she went to work in a big city.
At the beginning, she was an ordinary employee of the unit, and after several years of hard work, she successfully entered the sales department, and because of her high emotional intelligence and good eloquence, her income also rose and she saved 3.83 million savings.
No one's life was smooth sailing, and the mask incident also had an impact on her work, and she did not panic in the slightest when the company laid off employees.
I wanted to find a new job, but after submitting more than a dozen resumes, I found that I couldn't find a suitable job at all.
When I thought that I had more than 3 million savings, I felt a sense of security, so I simply lay in my room to rest, watch dramas at night, and sleep until I woke up naturally in the morning.
I don't want to cook and order takeout, when I'm in a good mood, I buy some dishes I like, and she finds that she can't spend much money, as long as she doesn't spend money indiscriminately, this money can be used for a lifetime.
Parents don't think so, they think that their daughter is 33 years old and has not yet started a family, and it is a shame to say it.
I kept calling to urge marriage, and after learning that she didn't go to work, I was even more anxious, worried that my daughter would be alone and would fall at home one day, and no one would know.
In order to let her daughter go on a blind date, the mother also pretended to be sick and asked her daughter to go home to take care of herself, but when she came home, she saw that her mother was in good health.
Seeing that her daughter was angry, her mother persuaded her bitterly: "How many good years a woman has, if you delay it for a few more years, the childbearing age will pass, and when the time comes, even if you have more money, no man will be willing to marry you, you are old, and there is no one to talk to." ”
The mother had a point, but the woman didn't think it was entirely right.
It's hard to be lonely, but is it necessarily happy to be married?
She is very clear about her situation, she looks ordinary, has a certain economic strength, if she is looking for a partner, most of the men of this age are married, and those who can come out on a blind date are also divorced, and some still have children.
I don't even have children, so I have to be a stepmother, how can I have experience, besides, complex relationships are not easy to get along with.
Even if the man is single, the conditions for the older leftover men must be flawed, either they have no money and need you to help the poor, or they have a bad temper and no one can bear it.
People of this age are poor, bald and arrogant, and they can't think about how much they want to marry each other.
Young guy, can talk to you about love, at least there is some true love, in middle age, everyone is more realistic, either money, or beauty, they have no appearance, what can the other party want?
She has saved money so easily, but she doesn't want to share it with others, so she might as well spend it freely alone.
Parents don't agree, they think their daughter is too lonely, you think it's good to be alone now, there will always be a time when you're older, when you're not feeling well, who can take care of you?
"I can find a nurse. The woman said, "I can go to a nursing home if I have money, and it's not easy to find someone to talk to." ”
Parents: "You don't have children, it's going to be hard to go to a nursing home." ”
"I've lived a comfortable life for decades, and even if I endure hardship, I deserve it. ”
In any case, the woman was reluctant to go on a blind date, which made her parents very angry and kicked her out of the door.
The woman didn't understand and asked everyone, "Do you have to get married?"
Many netizens left messages below.
Some netizens think that being single is not bad, you have an independent economy, why bother to compromise for others, at this age, there is no chance to find a high-quality single man, it is better to live alone.
There are also some netizens who oppose that there is only one life, and you should have children, if everyone is single, then who will inherit civilization?
I don't know what you think? This is also the current situation of many older singles.
It's not that they don't want to get married, it's that they can't find someone who suits them.
If when you are young, you still have fantasies about love, then in middle age, you will have realistic considerations, and no one wants to settle.
Parents hope that their daughters will learn to forbear and take responsibility, but in their daughter's opinion, it is better to please others than to please themselves, and it is more important to consider that retirement is too far away, and it is better to treat yourself well.
What do you think about this? Do you think older singles should get married on a blind date?