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Mankind has entered the era of commerce, and money seems to have become the yardstick to measure the value of everything.
We are here, and we are inevitably sad about this broken silver tael.
When you're struggling, stop doing these three things and don't make your life worse.
01: Don't do job hopping that doesn't improve your life
Job-hopping seems to be the norm for young people in the modern workplace.
Sometimes, in order to pursue higher ideals or broader development space, we will want to leave our current jobs.
As the saying goes, good birds choose trees to perch.
However, when we don't have money, we need to think more carefully about changing jobs.
Changing jobs is not an easy task, it requires us to invest a lot of time and energy in research, submitting resumes, interviews, and may even require us to give up our existing income and benefits to try again.
When money is still insufficient, voluntarily giving up on work can increase losses, and failing the interview can put us under more stress.
What's more, the treatment of some jobs may not be what we expect in our hearts, and we may go to a new environment, and we will feel lost because we can't adapt to the rhythm and corporate culture of the new job as soon as possible.
If a new job doesn't really improve our lives, then there's no point in changing jobs.
02: Don't talk about love without emotional value
Falling in love is a beautiful experience in life, but it is by no means a matter of finding someone to fall in love with to achieve happiness and satisfaction.
True love will make us feel the warmth and sweetness of love, and also teach us how to care, understand and tolerate others.
However, when there is no money, the other party cannot give us the emotional value we need, and this kind of love will only consume each other's spirits, but affect the pace of improving life.
Love without emotional value is a one-way output, and the other party seems to be only trying to get our efforts to satisfy their emotional value.
In this kind of relationship, one partner will continue to give for the other and will not get the corresponding return, while the other partner will only take and will not give.
Such a relationship not only fails to make us feel the beauty of love, but can make us feel tired and hopeless.
When life is difficult, what we need is a relationship that can support and rely on each other.
We need to find people with whom we can share our joys and sorrows, face life's challenges together, and give them strength when they encounter problems.
Only in this way can we reap happiness on the road of love.
03: If you don't buy a product that you can't improve yourself
In the current era of consumerism, it is easy to be attracted by a variety of products.
Sometimes, in pursuit of momentary satisfaction and happiness, we buy products that don't really improve ourselves.
Especially when we have no money, we need to face the consumption trap more rationally and stop buying those useless products.
At this time, it is necessary and wise to be clear about your consumption needs, and learn to distinguish between necessities and luxuries.
Moreover, we need to cultivate our financial awareness and the ability to anticipate risks, reasonably plan our income and expenses, and avoid impulsive consumption and excessive consumption.
Here, some people want to say that we must also learn to invest in ourselves and improve our overall strength.
At this time, we need to identify what is the course that can really improve our ability, and what is the trick of making money.
In this way, we can really understand what it means to make the most of it.
No one has smooth sailing in their lives, and they always have to go through wind and rain to see the rainbow.
Momentary frustration is not a bad thing in some way, it can help us accumulate experience and help us grow.
As long as we take the initiative to seek an exit to break free in times of crisis, we will definitely see hope in perseverance and forbearance, and at that time, we will see the opportunity for ourselves to soar into the sky.
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