Zhang Wei is an ordinary office worker in his early Chinese New Year's Eve. and his wife Zhang Yan have been together for many years, and the two have experienced the ups and downs of life together.
A few years ago, they took out a loan to buy a small house, which was their dream home. At that time, the couple was elated, thinking that they were about to live a happy life. But it didn't take long for Zhang Wei to lose his job, and the mortgage began to become a heavy burden.
Zhang Wei has been looking for a job, but opportunities are hard to come by. Zhang Yan has been working outside the home, barely making ends meet. Zhang Wei felt helpless and blamed himself, and Zhang Yan also began to blame him. Their contradictions are growing bigger and bigger, and their married life is on the verge of breaking down.
One day, Zhang Yan came back from work and was extremely emotional.
"When are we going to pay off this damn mortgage?" She asked Zhang Wei, "When will you find a stable job?"
Zhang Wei lowered his head and said in a sincere tone: "I'm sorry, Yanzi, I've been trying to find a job, but my luck is too bad." I promise to pay off my mortgage as soon as possible, please give me some more time. "
"Time?!" Zhang Yan said angrily, "We've been waiting for too long! Have you ever wondered if we are destined to be tormented by mortgages for the rest of our lives if we continue like this?"
Zhang Yan's eyes were firm and sad: "If you don't pay off the mortgage, let's divorce." I don't want to be dragged down by a mortgage for the rest of my life, I want to live the life I deserve. "
His wife's words deeply hurt Zhang Wei. He began to reflect on whether he was really unworthy of Zhang Yan, whether he really did his best, whether he was worthy of their marriage, and an unprecedented self-doubt haunted him.
After some struggle, Zhang Wei finally made up his mind. He will do everything he can to pay off the mortgage, for the sake of their marriage, for their future. He began to look for work like a mad dog, at all costs. Zhang Yan saw it in her eyes and finally had a glimmer of hope.
However, the reality is cruel and unforgiving. No matter how hard Zhang Wei tries, a good job is hard to find. He began to wonder if he was doomed to nothing. Ms. Zhang's expectations seem to be getting slimmer.
Just when Zhang Wei was at his most desperate, his parents gave him great support.
"Son, as long as you don't give up, there is still hope. His parents comforted him, "We all believe in you." "
They even took out their entire pension to help Zhang Wei and his wife repay the loan. The support of his parents gave Zhang Wei great strength. He seemed to have regained his fighting spirit. He began to learn new skills and constantly improve himself. Finally, a company took a fancy to him and gave him a chance.
The new job brought double pressure to Zhang Wei. On the one hand, the considerable salary gives him hope of paying off his mortgage; On the other hand, the work is heavy, often requiring overtime until late at night, and the mental and physical strength is almost overdrawn.
Zhang Yan saw it in her eyes and was very distressed. She knew that her husband was working hard for their future, but she didn't want Zhang Wei to be physically and mentally exhausted.
"Viagra, you've been working too hard lately. One night, Zhang Yan said helplessly, "I see that you are almost exhausted, and your body can't stand it." "
Zhang Wei smiled reluctantly: "It's okay, as long as you can pay off the mortgage as soon as possible, this hard work is nothing." "
Zhang Yan sighed, stepped forward and hugged her husband gently: "I'm sorry, I was too decisive and hurt you." It's just that I'm not worthy of you. "
Zhang Wei was deeply moved by his wife's apology. He hugged Zhang Yan tightly, tears rolling in his eyes.
From that moment on, the relationship between the husband and wife seemed to rekindle a spark. They began to trust each other, support each other, and be as close as ever. The mortgage gloom is finally starting to dissipate.
A year later, Zhang Wei finally got his wish and paid off all the loans. When he got the house book, Zhang Yan burst into tears of joy. She said excitedly: "Great, we finally don't have to be tortured by the mortgage!
Zhang Wei smiled and nodded, extremely relieved in his heart. At this moment, he felt as if he had the whole world again.
This experience made Zhang Wei deeply realize that marriage is not all smooth sailing. It requires the efforts and understanding of both parties, and the ups and downs of life need to be faced together. Only when we have truly experienced the ordeal can we cherish each other.
He began to learn to be grateful for everything around him. I am grateful for my wife's tolerance, my parents' support, and God for the opportunity he has given him. With a job he likes and the love of his family, he is already the richest man in the world.
A few years later, Zhang Wei and Zhang Yan's lives were finally back on track. Zhang Yan's body gradually recovered, and they had a lovely child. The family of three is happy, like the happiest family in the world.
Whenever Zhang Wei looks at the happy smiling faces of his wife and children, he will be grateful for the difficult times. Because it taught him to cherish what he had in front of him. Life is like this, sunshine and haze always go hand in hand. But as long as we trust and support each other, we will be able to go through every difficult moment. Marriage is not a bondage to each other, but a commitment to move forward together. With this promise, they have unlimited power.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Zhang Wei's child has grown up. One day, his son told Zhang Wei about his marital troubles.
"Dad, my daughter-in-law and I have been arguing a lot lately. The son sighed, "She always complains that I don't work hard and don't make enough money to support her expenses." "
When Zhang Wei heard this, he couldn't help but think of the difficult years between himself and Zhang Yan many years ago. He patted his son on the shoulder and said earnestly: "Son, marriage is like this, and there will inevitably be tribulations. But as long as you understand each other and support each other, you will be able to get through it. "
"But Dad, she always threatens to divorce me, what should I do?" The son asked helplessly.
Zhang Wei thought for a while and said slowly: "Your mother also said this to me back then. I was in a lot of pain and it felt like the world had collapsed. But then I realized that she said that because she cared too much about our marriage and future. "
So you have to be considerate of your wife's feelings and prove with your actions that you value this marriage. Just like I did back then, do your best to achieve your ideal life. As long as you persist and don't give up, one day she will believe in you again. "
The son nodded, as if he had a new appreciation for his father's words.
Time flies again, and in a blink of an eye, my son also has a child of his own. One day, Zhang Wei happily said to his son: "Look, your persistence back then has finally paid off. Now you are as happy as your mother. "
The son smiled and nodded, his eyes full of gratitude.
Zhang Wei was full of emotion. Along the way, he and Zhang Yan have experienced too much. There are tribulations, and there are laughter; There are tears, and there are touches. But it is precisely because of those ups and downs that their relationship will be so strong and so precious.
As Zhang Wei often said to the people around him: "Marriage is not a constraint on each other, but a commitment to move forward together." With this commitment, we have unlimited strength to overcome any odds. "
This is not only Zhang Wei's life motto, but also the persistence of three generations of his family in love and marriage. They interpret this commitment with their actions again and again, weaving ordinary life into a moving music.
The years are like a song, and love lasts forever. As long as this commitment shines eternally in their hearts, they will always have the courage and strength to pursue a happy life.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Zhang Wei has entered the twilight of his life. On the day of his 80th birthday, the whole family came together and enjoyed themselves.
"Grandpa, you've been amazing!" The grandchildren surrounded Zhang Wei, their eyes full of reverence, "It's not easy for you and grandma to come together." "
Zhang Wei smiled and shook his head: "Where am I great, I just worked hard." Remember, marriage is a commitment that requires a concerted effort. Only by understanding and supporting each other can we go to the end. "
"Take the time you bought the house, your grandmother once threatened a divorce because I couldn't find a job. I was in despair and felt like the whole world had left me. "
Zhang Yan nodded on the side, with a look of memory on her face.
"But that's when I realized that your grandma said that because she cared too much about our marriage and future. So I made up my mind that I must do my best to achieve our ideal life. "
"Grandpa, you must have had a hard time, didn't you?" The granddaughters said sadly.
Zhang Wei smiled and shook his head: "There is hard work, but more is satisfaction and happiness." Because I know that as long as we get through it together, we will definitely get through those difficult years. Sure enough, with the support of your grandparents, I finally got a good job and we paid off the mortgage very quickly. Since then, your grandma and I have become more harmonious. "
The whole family was deeply touched by this touching experience. It turned out that the grandparents also faced the trials of marriage back then, but finally overcame everything with actions and commitments.
"So, you must also learn to understand and support each other in the future. Marriage is like this, and there will inevitably be tribulations. But as long as you work hand in hand, you will be able to get through every difficult moment. Zhang Wei said earnestly.
Everyone nodded solemnly, determined to remember Grandpa's earnest teachings.
On this day, a warm atmosphere envelops the whole family. Everyone is happy, like a big harmonious family. Looking at everything in front of him, Zhang Wei was extremely relieved. He thanked God for allowing him and Zhang Yan to stay together until they grew old, and also thanked so many lovely children and grandchildren around them, constituting their happy lives.
yes, they've been through so much along the way. There are tribulations, and there are laughter; There are tears, and there are touches. But it is precisely because of those ups and downs that their relationship will be so strong and so precious. Life is like this, there is no happiness without smooth sailing. It needs to be cherished and cared for. Only by taking action to realize our dreams and protect each other's commitments can we have true happiness.
The years are like a song, and love lasts forever. As long as the promise to move forward together shines forever in your heart, you will definitely have the courage and strength to pursue a happy life. Zhang Wei and Zhang Yan are the best footnotes. They interpret this commitment with their actions, weaving ordinary life into a moving music.
When the sunset gradually set in the west, Zhang Wei looked at the golden afterglow outside the window, and his heart was full of happiness and tranquility. Yes, there are always sunshine and gloom on the road of life, but as long as there is the power of love, you will be able to go through every difficult moment. He and Zhang Yan are the best examples.