It is often said that a woman's love is always cautious, and she does not dare to say it for fear that the other party will not know.
It is true that when a woman falls in love with someone, she often seems cautious because she is reserved and does not dare to take the initiative to approach the other person, but her heart will be very eager to understand the other party, want to enter the other party's world, and want the other party to understand her heart.
Once a woman falls in love with someone else, it is easy to fall into the swamp of self-contradiction, so that she cannot extricate herself. And men will not have this situation in the face of feelings, their likes are often straightforward, and they never hide their inner thoughts.
Therefore, if you want to know whether a man really loves you, you can easily know what he really thinks in his heart by asking him these 4 questions.
01
"What are your plans for the future?"
When you've been with a guy for a while, you can ask him what his plans are for the future.
If a man is sincere enough to you, he will plan your future with him very seriously, he will make you feel particularly secure, because he wants to have a home with you, and his face will be full of happiness in the process of talking to you.
On the contrary, if a man does not want to have a home with you, he will not be honest with you, he will only cover up the past with other things, he will say, "It's a bit too early to say this, let's talk about it later"!
02
"I want to marry you, when will you marry me?"
The man who really loves you is ready to marry you and go home, just waiting for you to say a word, and the man who doesn't love you is just having fun with you, and he will not be responsible for you at all, and he will not marry you home at all!
To love or not to love, it depends on how he answers this question. The man who loves you will reply to you "Go, get the certificate now, and then choose a good day to get married".
Men who don't love you don't dare to say the words "marry you" at all. He's really afraid that you will stick to him, he's really afraid that you won't marry him, and he's really afraid that you'll always follow him!
03
"What are my preferences?"
If you really love your man, then he must have your preferences in mind.
If a man can't even remember your preferences, then the man must not really love you. His kindness to you is just his means of flirting with women, he has done it to many women, and it seems to be touching on the surface, but in fact, she has no intention at all, let alone anything to you.
Therefore, women must not be deceived by such a man, and must see the real contribution of the man in order to believe what the man says.
04
"If I didn't want children, would you take it?"
A man who really loves you, he will respect your decision and value your opinion very much, because in his heart, you are a very important person, so he will care a lot about what you think.
Before a woman gets married, she asks a man this question: "If I don't want children, will you accept it?" ”
A man who truly loves you will not force you to have a child for him. He will respect your ideas, after all, this kind of problem depends on personal wishes, a man who truly loves you will not use you as a fertility tool, and he will not hurt you.
05
Emotional message
Love may be the most complex and unsolvable proposition in the world, everyone will have a side of fear and fear in love, and there will be a strong sense of affection and honey, when you and I are nong.
In love, men occasionally have times when they are ashamed to express themselves, and it would be a pity if two people who were in love with each other missed each other because they didn't dare to express it.
In fact, love is not as complicated as imagined, and the people who love you and those who don't love you definitely have different attitudes towards you. If you want to know the answer, you can't help but find a way to test it, and maybe you can even prompt him to confess to you directly.
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