The annual college entrance examination is over, and it is time to fill in the volunteers, and students with high scores can choose more colleges and universities when they volunteer to fill in, and it is difficult for students with unsatisfactory scores to choose.
The college entrance examination is also a selective exam, so there must be a gap in the candidates' grades, and the author's colleagues are frustrated because of the child's poor grades. Although the college entrance examination is very important, it is not necessarily the legendary one for life, when the author was a graduate student, there was a classmate who was the first to take the college entrance examination, and then the graduate student, as long as you want to study, it is never too late, and you also have the opportunity.
People with bad grades may not achieve nothing, take a step back, people with good grades may not be all glorious for a lifetime, and the fate of a person is never more than just the factor of achievement.
Especially after entering the society, many people find that academic qualifications are indeed a stepping stone, but it is only a stepping stone, and many subsequent developments have little to do with grades. In other words, if a child has a high IQ but a low emotional intelligence, he will live a more unhappy life and even embark on the path of crime.
There was a brutal homicide case in the United States, in order to satisfy her possessive desire, a female doctor from Tsinghua University shot her husband with her own hands, and then calmly lived with the body for 7 days.
Unhappy childhood
In the mainland, Tsinghua University is the dream university for many students, and every year some proud children start another starting point in their lives here.
In 1995, Chen Danlei achieved the fifth place in Sichuan Province in the college entrance examination, became the best among the others, and received an admission letter from Tsinghua University. Compared with other senior high school graduates, being admitted to Tsinghua University did not make her too happy, she just wanted to start school as soon as possible and escape from the family that made her feel depressed.
It stands to reason that the family atmosphere that can cultivate such an excellent child should be good, but Chen Danlei is the unfortunate one.
Since Chen Danlei can remember, she has often heard her parents quarrel over some trivial matters. When she was young, she didn't understand the adult world, and when she saw her parents who spoke badly to her, she had to remain silent, for fear that her words and deeds would cause quarrels between her parents again. Over time, Chen Danlei has developed an introverted personality, she is used to living in her own world and does not like to communicate with outsiders.
Due to the discord between her parents, the atmosphere of the whole family is not happy and joyful, and the only thing that Chen Danlei can make her parents happy is to study hard, every time she gets a good score in the exam, she can always make her parents show a smile on their cloudy faces.
's parents also saw Chen Danlei's efforts, so in order to let her have a seemingly complete home, they have been living under the same roof with discord until Chen Danlei was admitted to university, and they divorced.
Happy people are healed by childhood all their lives, and unhappy people are healed by childhood all their lives, Chen Danlei still has good grades after entering college, but she doesn't seem to be interested in anything except studying.
She neither participates in clubs and interest classes, nor does she like to participate in group activities, nor even does she like to communicate with classmates and teachers.
Sweet love
Adolescent girls always look forward to love, although Chen Danlei rarely interacts with people, but she is also a young girl, and He Lei's appearance satisfies her fantasy of the other half of her life.
In school, those who have particularly good grades always have a kind of aura, He Lei also admires Chen Danlei very much, and the two immediately established a relationship in college, He Lei made Chen Danlei feel the sweetness of love.
After graduating from the bachelor's degree, Chen Danlei was admitted to the graduate school of Puji University in the United States with excellent results, and He Lei was not so lucky, so he could only follow Chen Danlei to the United States as an accompaniment.
After settling down in the United States, the two also reached the age of talking about marriage, so they got married. Although He Lei's grades are not as good as Chen Danlei's, his personality is very sunny and cheerful, and he is in a foreign country, and He Lei's character advantage quickly played a role.
He soon made new friends in a completely unfamiliar environment, and in order to keep up with Chen Danlei, he was also admitted to Puji University for graduate school.
Compared with He Lei's colorful life, Chen Danlei's life is very boring, and she has nothing else to do except study, so she puts all her time and energy on her husband He Lei.
Every adult needs their own space and freedom, Chen Danlei's love for He Lei was in the wrong way, and her desire to control caused He Lei to be a little breathless. He Lei also tried to change Chen Danlei's character, but the country is easy to change, Chen Danlei still does her own thing, and in the end He Lei had to give up the idea of changing her personality.
He Lei wanted to have space to be alone, Chen Danlei didn't understand He Lei's needs very much, she didn't consider this matter from a normal perspective, but was cranky, and once suspected that He Lei was cheating.
At the beginning, He Lei had the patience to explain to Chen Danlei, but after a long time and many times, He Lei was too lazy to explain, the originally loving young couple often fought coldly, and they didn't say a word to each other for a few days.
Brutal murder
Chen Danlei, who has been taciturn since she was a child, is accustomed to cold violence, but He Lei is unwilling to live such a depressing life, so he wants to try to break this mode of getting along, but no matter how hard he tries, Chen Danlei is still indifferent.
One day in 2005, He Lei, who couldn't stand the long-term repressive life, filed for divorce from Chen Danlei, Chen Danlei was calm on the surface, and He Lei thought that he could get rid of the shackles of this marriage. never thought that the next morning, he left this world forever, and it was his wife Chen Danlei who sent him away.
Chen Danlei looked at her sleeping husband, took out the gun prepared in advance, aimed it at the back of He Lei's head and pulled the trigger, in Chen Danlei's opinion, only in this way can she keep He Lei by her side forever.
Chen Danlei was not afraid of such a big thing as murder, after she put He Lei's body away, she lived casually for 7 days and 7 nights. But after a long time, the corpse began to emit an unpleasant smell, and Chen Danlei also dismembered and discarded the corpse in order to dispose of it. After everything was over, she disguised herself as He Lei and bought a plane ticket back to China.
Chen Danlei was found to be abnormal by mainland security personnel when she passed through the security check, and then news came from the United States that Chen Danlei was suspected of intentional homicide in the United States.
Although the case of Chen Danlei shooting and killing her husband He Lei was very cruel, the process was not complicated, and the American police soon found sufficient evidence in their residence, proving that the person who killed He Lei, dismembered the body, and abandoned the body was Chen Danlei. In the face of conclusive evidence, Chen Danlei did not escape the punishment of the law and was sentenced to death with a two-year reprieve.
Brief summary:
Since ancient times, it has been murder to pay for life, Chen Danlei killed her husband He Lei, and in the end she could not escape death, but this incident was a fatal blow to the families of the two people, and the facts have been revealed, but it is difficult to save He Lei's life.
Moreover, because the modus operandi of this case is very cruel, the murderer has the advantage of a female doctor who graduated from Tsinghua University, and it has also attracted public opinion all over the world for a while, similar to "In order to satisfy her possessiveness, a female doctor from Tsinghua University shot her husband with her own hands, and calmly lived with the body for 7 days afterwards" The news is overwhelming, and many people are making a big fuss about this topic from different angles.
The revelation of this incident to many people is that happiness has no absolute relationship with academic qualifications and IQ, on the contrary, a sound personality and a healthy psychology are more important.
Now the state vigorously advocates quality education, grades are not the only criterion for evaluating children, and academic qualifications are not a sign of a person's success, as long as a person's three views are correct, his character is sound, and he does a job within his ability, he is a useful person to the society, and he will also be a happy person.