Recently, a video about star Qin Hailu's sharing of crab meat in a variety show caused controversy went viral on the Internet, and many netizens questioned Qin Hailu's emotional intelligence. Behind the incident, there are some social phenomena worth thinking about.
Qin Hailu first distributed the crab meat to his friend Liu Tao, and did not take care of the elderly Zhang Kaili first, which caused criticism. The words and deeds of celebrities are often concerned, and emotional intelligence issues are easy to criticize. Their actions should consider the impact on the public and establish a good image.
Celebrities should pay attention to the cultivation of emotional intelligence. In complex relationships, emotional intelligence helps to clarify the boundaries between oneself and others, which can help to deal with complex relationships. Celebrities should strengthen the cultivation of emotional management, empathy and other abilities.
Celebrity behavior should take into account public expectations. Society has moral expectations of it, and behavior is magnified and scrutinized. Celebrities should pay attention to maintaining their public image and not just start from selfishness.
It is not his intention for celebrities to receive attention, but it should be faced. By demonstrating emotional intelligence, we can resolve misunderstandings, gain public understanding, and advocate rational discussion of issues.
"Eating and broadcasting" has become the main element of many variety shows. On the one hand, it stems from the curiosity of the public, but it also reflects the lack of attention caused by information overload.
Abundant food information satisfies the public's impetuous novelty desires, but long-term reliance on the stimulation of the five senses rather than inner needs can easily lead to the problem of inability to concentrate.
On the other hand, relying on external stimuli for attention also limits the improvement of self-awareness. People should reflect on how to gain attention and improve their ability to concentrate through their inner strength.
Qin Hailu gave it to Liu Tao first without taking care of Zhang Kaili first, which was regarded as rude. Some netizens criticized Qin Hailu for not understanding the rules. This highlights the gap between different generations in the norms of etiquette.
With the changes in society, there are differences in the behavior norms of different age groups. But etiquette is still about respect for others, and this fundamental value has not changed. As public figures, celebrities should lead by example.
Peaceful and rational exchanges between different generations should enhance mutual understanding and reduce the gap. and reach a consensus on the norms of behavior in tolerance.
The high click-through rate of the crab meat scandal shows that the public is interested in such news. We-media have also joined the hype to attract attention.
But over-reading the casual behavior of celebrities can lead to turning a blind eye to more important social issues. The public should also be wary of people who are molded as just entertaining gossip.
The personal behavior of celebrities is often magnified and scrutinized, and behind Qin Hailu's division of crab meat, a number of social phenomena and problems are reflected.
It takes the celebrities themselves, the public, and the media to work together to defuse such focused negative events and direct society to the issues that really matter.