In a relationship, both men and women want to find a dedicated and serious partner. This means that the other person is willing to invest time and effort into maintaining the relationship and will not betray the love.
Single-mindedness is the cornerstone of a long-lasting and authentic relationship. If you are unfortunate enough to meet a casual and frivolous person, it is difficult to guarantee your feelings.
It is obvious that "scumbags" and "scumbags" often show the characteristics of rashness and unseriousness.
Unfortunately, not everyone can distinguish those who steal their feelings in the vast sea of people with keen insight. There are still many people who will be confused by them.
As the saying goes: "Women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." However, men are just as worried about marrying the wrong wife, especially as they get older.
As people get older, they become more cautious. Especially for middle-aged men, they will become more cautious when it comes to feelings. When younger, most men are brave and adventurous, but as they get older, they become more cautious, especially emotionally.
While the truth is true, people are often deceived by superficial disguises.
Anyone knows how to disguise and package themselves, but some people will be confused by this surface, and some people will be able to break through the disguise and discover the essence. This is the human side where we can hide our true emotions and thoughts from our appearances. We need to be cautious about others, not to be easily fooled by their appearance, but to understand them from the heart.
In general, when women enter middle age, they will become more composed and calm, and they will be more cautious and measured in handling their feelings.
Young women are naïve and impulsive because they lack sufficient experience and insight. It is often easy to make impulsive decisions driven by emotions. Middle-aged women, on the other hand, have experienced more life experiences, have a broader perspective, and will not be easily shaken.
A woman's character can be judged by how they behave. A middle-aged woman who casually indulges herself will usually behave more impulsively than a younger woman. From this point you can judge her character and treat them accordingly.
Invite you to her home
For middle-aged women, home is a very private space.
She usually doesn't easily invite strangers or distrustful members of the opposite sex to her home. Unless you know each other very well and trust the other person, you will consider the invitation.
If a middle-aged woman only has an ordinary relationship with you, but always invites you to her home, then she is likely to be a casual woman.
Perhaps inadvertently, she will also use this method to attract the attention of other members of the opposite sex.
Actually, it's not uncommon to invite you to her residence, but it's a bit strange if such invitations happen frequently. If she just invites you to dinner at home out of politeness, it shows that she knows how to respect others and knows how to be polite.
If she's always making obvious hints and adding some jackpots, there's a good chance she's hinting at you. If you can't accurately judge her intentions, then you may fall into the trap she has designed. But don't be anxious, and be cautious to avoid being tethered.
Always making excessive jokes
When we genuinely like someone and intend to pursue them, we usually pay a lot of attention to how we behave to make sure we don't stress or confuse the other person.
Only those who are whimsical and not serious will treat each other as child's play, disrespecting each other at all and despising themselves.
Most of the middle-aged women who often tease you with jokes are frivolous women.
It is important to know that if a middle-aged woman really has a crush on you, she will usually be very cautious for fear of doing anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and thus ruin your current relationship. It's just her way of showing it, because she values your relationship and wants it to last.
Conversely, a casual woman will pursue her success and catch you quickly, so she usually uses such jokes to test you.
For example, she will affectionately address you as "dear" or "good brother" and show intimacy. Sometimes, she may say something provocative.
When faced with such a situation, pay attention. If you respond positively and appreciatively to her words and actions, she will assume that you are interested in her and misunderstand. Understand that her excessive ridicule is a test of whether you have a crush on her. So, be cautious about her words and mannerisms to avoid misunderstandings.
Regardless of gender, measured and serious people will not easily have physical contact with the opposite sex. It is a basic form of social etiquette and a sign of respect for oneself and others.
After all, without someone close to you, physical contact will only make you feel particularly uncomfortable.
Compared to an average middle-aged woman, they are more adept at using physical contact to get your attention. You will find that in the course of your relationship, they will always care about or inadvertently come into contact with you. This physical contact can be like a special magic weapon that draws you deeply and makes it difficult for you to resist.
For example, when you sit together, she will deliberately lean towards you. Also, she won't mind sharing the food you've eaten with you, and will even intentionally let you have the same drink. These behaviors show that she has a crush on you.
You must not take this lightly or think that she really likes you. You have to understand that flirting and liking are completely different concepts, the former is a skill, and the latter is genuine. Make sure you can clearly identify the difference between the two to avoid being emotionally hurt.
Feelings need to be treated sincerely, but few people can take feelings seriously.
In other words, this practice is mostly adopted by experienced people who know how to respond quickly to your problem, which is known as "the right medicine".
Conclusion:
When a woman reaches middle age, if she is still unmarried, it may be because she has experienced emotional frustration or because she is focused on her career.
Whatever the case may be, she always lacks confidence in her relationships, and this insecurity can make her cautious and not take action easily.
Even if you are her favorite man, she will only express her attitude implicitly and will not reject you easily, but she will definitely keep a bottom line for herself.
In contrast, a casual lady may see you as one of her "targets". In terms of emotion, she may have a lot of experience.
The reason she is stuck in the single state is simply because she has never found someone who makes her crush. This is a common situation for middle-aged single women.
When you meet such a woman, you may revel in her flirtation for a while, but she will not be the kind of partner who really wants to spend the rest of your life with you.
There is a good saying, "women chase men, interlayer yarn", if a woman flirts with you in a keen moment, then many men will have a hard time suppressing themselves. For such a woman, you need to keep calm thinking and objective analysis.