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My name is Wang Xiaoming, I have just entered the society this year, and I am always full of expectations and a little apprehensive about occasions like family gatherings. In my family, there is such a relative, her name is Auntie, and she is my father's cousin, and she is quite close to me. However, whenever we visit her home, there is always a different kind of embarrassment and discomfort, as if we are in a cold silence.
During the annual Spring Festival, our family has to go to my aunt's house to pay New Year's greetings. I was carefully dressed and wondered how I could talk and play with my cousins. I vividly remember last year, when my family waited for two hours to see my aunt and her family. Their attitude was cold and perfunctory, and they did not seem interested in our arrival.
"Xiao Ming, look how good you look!" When my aunt saw me, her face was gentle and enthusiastic, just like last year. Her words were full of praise and care, and I felt warm. But at the same time, I also felt a faint uneasiness, as if an unknown storm was brewing.
"Thank you, Auntie. I replied politely, feeling a little apprehensive about whether this apparent enthusiasm was genuine.
Entering the aunt's house, a strong smell of the New Year came to the face, and the table was filled with all kinds of delicious Chinese New Year's Eve meals, steaming hot and fragrant. My aunt kept serving the food and warmly invited us to taste it, and I was embarrassed to refuse. However, I felt a subtle embarrassment while talking to my aunt, whose gaze drifted to the corner of the living room from time to time, as if waiting for something.
"Xiao Ming, try this braised pork, I made it for you. Auntie said as she brought a large piece of meat to my bowl. I took a bite and found that it tasted really good, but I wondered why she was so enthusiastic about me.
"Thank you, Auntie, this braised pork is really delicious. I replied politely, trying to hide my hesitation and uneasiness.
The family chatted and laughed at the dinner table, but I always felt a little strange. Maybe it's because of the attitude of the aunt's family, their expressions are always a little stiff, and their words are perfunctory. I tried to communicate with them, but I always felt an indescribable awkwardness and hindrance.
"Xiao Ming, how are you studying?" my cousin asked suddenly, breaking the silence in my heart.
"It's okay, thank you for your concern. I replied awkwardly, even though I knew it was just a polite greeting from her, but I wanted to get as close as possible to her.
"Oh, that's good. My cousin's answer was a little indifferent, and she turned her gaze away, as if she didn't care about my answer.
I felt a sense of loss in my heart, and I couldn't help but feel a little depressed. Maybe I'm expecting too much, I think. Such a meeting may be just a formality and a routine for them. But for me, it means more, it means sincerity and warmth between my family.
After the meal, my aunt warmly invited us to the living room for tea, and I was secretly glad that I could take this opportunity to communicate more with her and her family. However, when I entered the living room, I found that my aunt and her family were already sitting together, talking to each other, as if discussing something.
"Xiao Ming, come, sit here. When my aunt saw me, she immediately motioned for me to sit next to her, still with a warm smile on her face.
After I sat down, my aunt's expression suddenly became serious, and her eyes stared at me, making me feel an inexplicable pressure.
"Xiao Ming, I have something I want to tell you. Auntie's voice was a little low, with a hint of foreboding.
"What's the matter?" I asked, a little nervously, a sense of foreboding in my mind.
"It's about your studies and your future arrangements. Auntie said, turning her gaze to me
, my heart tightened, I didn't know what my aunt was going to say.
"That's right, Xiao Ming, I know that you are in high school right now, and considering your future development, our family has a job for you. There was a hint of anticipation and mystery in the aunt's tone.
I was shocked when I heard this, I didn't expect my aunt to suddenly bring up such a thing. "What job?" I asked curiously.
"It's a management job in our family business, it pays well and has a lot of room to grow. The aunt said and smiled mysteriously, seeming to be confident in the job.
I was shaken by this, and although the job sounded good, I still felt a little lost. "Thank you, Auntie, but I still want to finish my studies first and then think about work. I politely declined.
When my aunt listened to my answer, the smile on her face froze suddenly, and a trace of disappointment and dissatisfaction flashed in her eyes.
"Oh, Xiao Ming, think about it, how rare this job is, it may not be a good thing for you to give up your studies to work. The aunt persuaded, revealing a hint of helplessness in her tone.
I hesitated, not knowing how to answer. My aunt's words made me feel a little stressed, but I still felt that now was not the time to think about work.
"Auntie, I still want to finish my studies first, and then think about work. I said firmly, and despite some uneasiness, I felt it was the right choice.
When my aunt listened to my answer, the expression on her face became a little complicated, and there seemed to be some disappointment and dissatisfaction in her eyes. "Well, since you think so, then let it be. Auntie sighed, looking a little lonely.
I felt guilty in my heart, wondering if my choice had disappointed my aunt. "Auntie, I'm really sorry. I tried to explain, hoping to dispel her unhappiness.
"Forget it, just figure it out for yourself. The aunt waved her hand, as if she didn't want to talk about it anymore.
I felt a sigh of emotion in my heart, wondering if this rejection would affect the relationship between me and my aunt. But I still firmly believe that only by completing my studies can I have a better future.
During the whole New Year's greeting, my relationship with my aunt became a little awkward, her smile looked a little forced, and I didn't know how to get along with her. My family tried to ease the mood as much as possible, but the uneasiness in my heart became more and more pervasive.
As time passed, we gradually said goodbye to my aunt and her family and returned to our own home. But the doubts and uneasiness in my heart still linger, and I don't know if this rejection will affect our relationship, and I don't know what kind of changes will happen in the future.
When I got home, I lay in bed and thought about what had just happened. Maybe I really missed a good opportunity, but I still think that only by completing my studies can I have a better future. I don't know if this was the right choice, but I hope to stick with it and live up to my choices and beliefs.
As time passed, my relationship with my aunt gradually returned to normal, and although there was some awkwardness during the New Year's greetings, we were able to maintain a semblance of harmony. I don't know what kind of changes will happen in the future, but I believe that as long as I stick to my choices and beliefs, everything will be better.
This experience has made me more aware of the truth that even in the face of difficulties and choices, as long as we stick to our beliefs and move forward bravely, we will definitely be able to meet a better future. I believe that as long as I persist in working hard and live up to my choices, I will be able to achieve my dreams.
When I got home, I lay in bed and thought about today. The inexplicable embarrassment and uneasiness that haunted me all the time made it difficult for me to sleep. I don't know if the relationship between me and my aunt will become awkward because of this rejection, but I am more worried about whether I have made the right choice.
As time passed, I gradually fell asleep, but the uneasiness in my heart still lingered.
The next morning, I woke up to find it already sunny outside. I stretched, then got up and got ready to start the day.
Walking out of the room, I saw my mom busy preparing breakfast in the kitchen. "Good morning, Mom. I greeted my mom with a smile.
"Good morning, Xiao Ming, how was the New Year's greeting yesterday?" asked my mother with a smile on her face.
My heart tightened, and I didn't know how to answer. I didn't want my mom to worry, but I didn't know how to talk about yesterday's embarrassing experience. "It's okay, it's just a little embarrassing. I replied vaguely.
"What's wrong?" my mother listened, and immediately stopped what she was doing and looked at me with concern.
I sighed and told my mom everything I had experienced yesterday. Mom listened, and a worried expression appeared on her face. "You don't have to worry too much, the relationship between people needs to be managed, maybe because of a momentary misunderstanding. Mom comforted.
I nodded, and the uneasiness in my heart gradually dissipated a little. Maybe my mom is right, I shouldn't pay too much attention to what happened yesterday, maybe it was just a momentary misunderstanding.
After breakfast, I packed my bags and prepared to go to school. As soon as I got to the door, the phone rang. I picked up the phone and found out it was my aunt calling.
"Hey, Auntie, hello. I greeted politely.
"Xiao Ming, I didn't have time to tell you yesterday that there are some things that need to be dealt with at home recently, and it may take a while to meet. Auntie's voice sounded a little muffled.
When I heard this, I breathed a sigh of relief in my heart, and I seemed to be relieved. "It's okay, Auntie, you have something to deal with, I totally understand. I comforted.
"Well, okay, thank you for your understanding, Xiao Ming. I'll take care of these things as soon as I can, and then I'll ask you over. Auntie said.
"Okay, Auntie, you can go about your business first, we will wait for your good news. I said with a smile.
When I hung up the phone, the uneasiness in my heart completely dissipated. Maybe my aunt really has something to deal with at home, so she behaved a little distant yesterday. I couldn't help but feel guilty for my suspicions, and maybe I should give my aunt more trust and understanding.
Out of the house, I set out on my way to school. The mood is much brighter, and I can't help but sigh that the relationship between people is really complex and delicate, and it needs to be managed and understood with heart.
At school, I was so engaged in my studies and life that I tried not to think about the embarrassing experience of yesterday. I believe that as long as I stick to my choices and beliefs, everything will be better.
After school, I walked out of the school gate with my friends and started a happy school life. Although I was still nervous, I gradually forgot about yesterday's embarrassing experience with my friends, and my mood became lighter and happier.
"Xiao Ming, let's go play together tonight!" the friends suggested with great interest.
"Okay, where are you going?" I asked with a smile.
"We can go to the cinema to see the latest movie and then go to dinner. The friends said excitedly.
"Well, that's it!" I replied happily, and the troubles in my heart seemed to be swept away.
Our group happily walked to the cinema, laughing and laughing along the way. When we arrived at the cinema, we bought tickets, found a spot, and got ready to watch the movie. When the movie started, I was completely immersed in the plot, forgetting all my worries and enjoying the visual feast brought by the big screen.
After the movie, we walked out of the cinema together, and our stomachs were already rumbling with hunger. "What to eat?" I asked.
"Let's go eat hot pot! It's been a bit cold lately, and eating hot pot is the warmest for your stomach!" agreed the friends.
So, we went to a nearby hot pot restaurant, ordered a variety of ingredients, and prepared to start a delicious hot pot meal.
"Xiao Ming, come, I'll give you meat!" my friend said to me with a smile.
"Thank you!" I took the meat from my friend and put it in the pot to cook, and the aroma was overflowing.
We ate and talked, laughed and gradually forgot the passage of time. In such a pleasant atmosphere, I felt the warmth and support of my friends, and the anxiety in my heart gradually dissipated.
After eating hot pot, we walked out of the restaurant together, and our friends said goodbye and went home. I walked home alone, full of anticipation and confidence for the future. There may be all kinds of difficulties and challenges in life, but as long as you have the support and companionship of friends, everything will be better.
When I returned home, I felt a deep sense of satisfaction and happiness. Although some awkward things happened in the family gathering, the pleasant time spent with my friends made me feel the beauty and warmth of life.
I lay in bed and remembered everything that had happened today, and my heart was filled with gratitude and joy. Maybe life is like this, there are laughter and tears, difficulties and support. But as long as we stick to our beliefs and move forward bravely, we will be able to meet a better future.
Closing my eyes, I fell into a sweet sleep, looking forward to tomorrow.
When I woke up the next morning, the sun was shining through the window, warm and bright. I woke up in a happy mood and ready to start the day.
Walking out of the room, I saw my dad in the living room drinking morning tea while reading the newspaper. "Good morning, Dad. I greeted him with a smile.
"Good morning, Xiao Ming, how did you go to Auntie's house yesterday?" Dad asked with concern as he put down the newspaper.
My heart fluttered, and I didn't know how to answer. "It's okay, it's just a little embarrassing. I replied vaguely.
Dad frowned slightly, "Embarrassing?
I told my dad everything I had experienced yesterday, including my aunt's sudden offer to let me go to work. "I felt like I had made the right choice, but my aunt didn't seem to be happy. I said helplessly.
Dad listened to my narration and was silent for a moment. "Xiao Ming, sometimes it is not easy to communicate and communicate between people. Maybe it's because of some misunderstandings, you might as well take the initiative to communicate with your aunt and explain your thoughts. Dad gently admonished.
I nodded, grateful for my father's advice. "Well, I'll try. I said solemnly.
Dad smiled and nodded, encouraging: "No matter what difficulties you encounter, you must face them bravely, you are the pride of our family." ”
I felt my father's love and support, and my heart was full of confidence and courage. I decided to find an opportunity to communicate with my aunt today and solve my doubts.
After breakfast, I packed my bag and prepared to go to school. Before I went out, I decided to give my aunt a call and communicate with her properly.
Picking up my phone, I dialed my aunt's number. "Hey, Auntie, hello. I greeted politely.
"Xiao Ming, what's wrong with you?"
"It's nothing, I just wanted to talk to you about yesterday. I said tentatively.
"Oh, what happened yesterday, do you remember?" the aunt's voice sounded a little hesitant.
"Yes, I think there seems to be some misunderstanding between us, and I want to communicate with you. I said frankly.
"Oh, Xiao Ming, maybe I was a little impulsive yesterday and didn't take your feelings into account. There was a hint of apology in Auntie's voice.
When I heard this, my heart was relieved, "Auntie, it's okay, I may be a little ill-considered." ”
We spoke freely on the phone and talked about all the doubts of yesterday. Through this communication, I felt my aunt's understanding and support, and the doubts in my heart gradually dissipated.
I hung up the phone and went out to school in a happy mood. I believe that through communication and understanding, our relationship will be more harmonious and the future will be better.
On the way home, I felt an inexplicable sense of relief and joy. Maybe life is like this, full of all kinds of challenges and difficulties, but as long as we face it bravely and communicate with our hearts, everything will become better.
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