You can pretend that the person who likes you doesn't like you, but the person who flirts with you, you can't pretend.
In the face of love, many women will always lose their way, not knowing whether a man loves himself or flirts with himself, if he just wants to have fun for the sake of freshness, then there is no need to be together at all.
In fact, a man's behavior can be seen from his attitude towards you, if a man really likes you, he will definitely show something in these three aspects.
- Reject other women for you
If a man genuinely likes you, he will be willing to turn down other women for you. Because a man who really loves you, he will not only have himself, he wants to be accompanied by a woman by his side.
So when he likes a woman, he will put her in the most important position in his heart and will definitely not have any affection for other women, no matter how beautiful and attractive she is.
When a man is with you, he can't help but pay attention to your every move, especially about you. If he sees you chatting with another man, he will be jealous and will often find excuses to approach you.
In fact, it's all because he likes you and cares about you that he will behave like this. Because if you really love someone, you will care about her feelings and thoughts.
A man is just a temporary novelty for you, he just wants to have fun, and he has no intention of spending his life with you at all. Therefore, it is impossible to hide the love of someone, and you can know whether he is true or false by looking at whether he loves you or not.
- Reluctant to leave you alone
The person who loves you will be reluctant to leave you alone because he is afraid that you will be hurt and that you will leave.
When a man falls in love with a woman, he will try his best to get close to her and make her feel his love.
But the person who flirts with you will always say something ambiguous when chatting with you, which makes you insecure and afraid of losing.
In the eyes of a woman, a man will not let her alone if he really likes her. He would be reluctant to let her be hurt and wronged. So when getting along with this man, he will show protection and care for you.
For example, he will take the initiative to hold the woman's hand and take the woman shopping. When a woman doesn't want to do dangerous actions, he won't force her to do some dangerous actions.
At the same time, he will also give all his pocket money to the woman for safekeeping, so that the woman can buy what she wants.
These seemingly ordinary actions are the best proof of a man's love and dislove.
If a man always behaves coldly when he gets along with you, is unwilling to hold hands with you, hugs you, and is even less willing to spend money on you, then he must be the one who flirts with you.
- will reject all ambiguity for you
Because he loves you, he will defend you in front of other members of the opposite sex and not let you be hurt.
Gu Yuan and Nan Xiang in "Little Times" are a couple, when they were together, Gu Yuan always loved Nan Xiang wholeheartedly, even if he and Song Xue were together later, he never lived up to Nan Xiang.
If a man is ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex, it only means that he doesn't love you that much, and if a man doesn't react at all to other girls' overtures, it just means that he doesn't like you enough.
To love someone is to give her a sense of security, because only when you truly love someone will you be with others regardless of gains and losses.
So if you meet a man who is willing to reject all ambiguity for you, then he must really love you.