There is a topic on Zhihu: "Choosing between a second-married woman and an older leftover woman, which woman will you marry?" is a dilemma, and different people will give different answers.
Older leftover girls usually have high education and strong ability, and they have a wide range of choices, so she picks and chooses, and she becomes an old girl in a flash, and her marriage is unresolved. A second-married woman has experienced a failed marriage, and when faced with a new relationship, she is usually very demanding, putting forward some excessive conditions, which discourages many men.
Many people give preference to older leftover women, because they are not material and will not be so realistic, compared with second-married women marrying older leftover women It is easier to have a happy and beautiful life, which is also a common choice for many men. But this does not mean that no one wants a second-married woman, if the conditions of the second-married woman are good enough and the criteria for choosing a mate are rational enough, she can still find a satisfactory marriage partner.
The 28-year-old divorced beauty has experienced the change of marriage, she has no man to rely on, and the economic conditions are not good, she falls in love with a handsome guy, and the two of them love each other, and they both have plans to get married. The beauty wants a bride price of 200,000 yuan, and she also wants a house and a car, threatening that being young and beautiful is her capital, she doesn't have to worry about getting married, no matter which man marries her, it is a blessing!
Ms. Deng is from the city, her family conditions are good, and as the only daughter in the family, her parents poured all their love into her. Ms. Deng eats well, dresses well, and is going well in both her studies and career.
After graduating from university, Ms. Deng stayed in the city, and she found a decent and stable job, earning seven or eight thousand yuan a month, which was enough to maintain her normal expenses, and Ms. Deng enjoyed this easy and happy life.
Because she is beautiful and has a good figure, there is never a shortage of suitors around Ms. Deng. Many men took the initiative to talk to her and wanted to date her, but Ms. Deng had a high vision and was picky, and she didn't get married until she was 27 years old. The ex-husband's family conditions are good, he has a house and a car, and an annual income of more than 200,000 yuan, which gives Ms. Deng a good living environment, and he meets all of Ms. Deng's material and money needs. Ms. Tang is fortunate to have made a good living through marriage.
However, there is one thing that Ms. Tang is very concerned about. Because of his work, my ex-husband often deals with the opposite sex and knows a lot of friends and clients of the opposite sex. Ms. Deng was worried that her ex-husband would betray her marriage and do something sorry for her, so she always quarreled with her ex-husband, and their relationship became worse and worse as they quarreled. By chance, Ms. Deng found that her ex-husband and a woman were very close, and she chose to divorce in a fit of anger.
Ms. Tang could have had a happy marriage, but her suspicion and wayward marriage ended in a breakdown. Recalling these things, Ms. Deng regretted it, but the matter had become a reality, and Ms. Deng could only face it calmly.
Ms. Deng is 28 years old, has no children and no burden, but after a failed marriage, she is still young and beautiful, and she is still slim, which is her biggest advantage. Ms. Deng plans to marry a man with superior conditions through her outstanding appearance and live a happy and beautiful life, in order to realize this wish, Ms. Deng frequently goes on blind dates.
Ms. Deng has seen many blind dates, and the conditions of those men are good, but Ms. Deng is not satisfied. Ms. Deng asked the other party to be handsome, handsome, humorous, and able to give her material security, and at the same time care for her, take care of her, and spoil her like a princess. Ms. Deng was exaggerated by men from childhood to adulthood, and she felt that these demands were not too much.
Ms. Deng and Mr. Chen were introduced on a blind date. Mr. Chen is the only child in the family, has three houses, his parents have a high income and a good family background, Mr. Chen is handsome, talented and capable, and is a high-quality marriage partner, Ms. Deng is very satisfied with this. She seized this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity and planned to marry Mr. Chen and have a happy life.
Under Ms. Deng's careful management, their relationship has become more and more stable, to the point of talking about marriage. After three months of dating, Ms. Deng visited her home, and she talked to Mr. Chen's parents about getting married. Ms. Tang, who has experience in this area, has seized the heart of the matter and intends to take the opportunity of marriage to make her request.
Ms. Deng asked for a bride price of 200,000 yuan, asked Mr. Chen to write her name on the real estate certificate, and asked for a car worth more than 200,000 yuan. Ms. Tang believes that the bride price is a necessary thing to get married. She is beautiful and very young, and it is not too much to ask for a bride price of 200,000. If she is the first marriage, she will ask for more than 300,000. In addition, the house, car and savings are things that Ms. Deng is very concerned about, and Mr. Chen should show enough sincerity on this issue.
Ms. Deng spoke eloquently and bluntly stated her request. Mr. Chen's mother was very disgusted, she felt that Ms. Deng was divorced, she should have been more low-key, realistic, and took the initiative to lower her standards, not to think about those unrealistic things, so that Mr. Chen had the intention of marrying her. Ms. Deng didn't do this, but the lion opened her mouth to ask for a bride price, a wedding room and a car, what is this not a pipe dream?
With this in mind, Mr. Chen's mother's face was gloomy, and she threw Ms. Deng a mirror to let her take a good look at her greedy face. Ms. Deng was stunned by the sudden move of her future mother-in-law, and she was speechless for a long time.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens. Many people agree with Ms. Deng's point of view, that there are more men and fewer women, and women are very popular in the blind date market, and she can choose a satisfactory man according to her own requirements. At the same time, she can ask for a bride price and a marriage room, and ask the man to give her material guarantees, which is a prerequisite for a woman to agree to get married, and it is also a source of a woman's sense of security and happiness.
More people accused Ms. Deng of being unrealistic. She is 28 years old, divorced once, and has a very rich emotional experience, and men with good conditions will not consider her. What's more, Ms. Deng asked for a bride price of 200,000 yuan, a house and a car, and made a lot of excessive demands. Instead of marrying her, it is better for a man to find a beautiful woman who is not married, Ms. Deng has a high opinion of herself.
Some people also ridiculed: "This is an era of looking at faces, as long as a woman is beautiful and very young, she can make all kinds of demands when talking about marriage." Although Mr. Chen is not satisfied, there are always men who are willing to marry her and provide her with a quality life!"
If you are a man, are you willing to marry Ms. Deng? Do you think Ms. Deng's mate selection criteria are reliable? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.