01
I received a call from my mother-in-law again to persuade me to change rooms, and I silently blocked my mother-in-law's contact information.
Ever since she learned that my parents' house had been demolished, my mother-in-law has been on the move, always hinting consciously or unconsciously that the house we live in now is too small.
My mother-in-law said that we have two children, and when the children are older, they want to have a separate room, and the third room is too small, so let's change the house. After we categorically refused, my mother-in-law proposed to replace the 3 rooms with 4 rooms.
I only smiled at my mother-in-law's kindness and enthusiasm. When do we need my mother-in-law to advise us when we change houses?
02
When other girls get married, their in-laws buy a house and give a bride price. And my husband and I got married, but my mother's family bought a house to save the bride price.
I have also been aggrieved and sad, but I only got a wordless reassurance and explanation from my husband. He said that it was not easy for his parents to raise their brothers, and now that he has graduated and worked, he should no longer gnaw at his old age.
My husband with strong self-esteem is unwilling to embarrass his parents, but he can only wronged me. My grievances hurt my parents in their eyes. Before I could speak, my parents bought me a dowry house.
Although it is a small three-bedroom with an area of 90 square meters, I feel very content. After all, if you live in your own house, it's better to rent a house.
03
As soon as my parents married the house, my in-laws smiled and praised me for being virtuous and gentle. At that time, I was still complacent, thinking that the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should not be a problem after marriage.
However, as soon as we got married, my mother-in-law tried to come to our house by all means. Either self-pity and self-pity, or all kinds of cynicism, in short, I just want to move in with our parents.
If I hadn't resolutely stopped him, my husband would have taken his parents to the house. After I got pregnant and gave birth, my mother-in-law immediately moved in on the pretext of taking care of me and the child.
And my mother, who was going to take care of my confinement and children, could only go back to her own home, and was unwilling to rush in with my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law's uninvited arrival made me a little annoyed but helpless.
04
My mother-in-law always loves to be at my house, pointing fingers and making everyone obey her arrangements and commands. If I resist and be dissatisfied, my mother-in-law will cry and complain to her son. My husband will look for me again and persuade me to bear with me.
After a lot of tossing, it often ends with me compromising and giving in. Therefore, the mother-in-law's arrogance is even more arrogant, thinking that she is the mistress of the house, and everyone has to put up with her.
For the sake of the relationship between husband and wife and family harmony, I just endured it and didn't get mad, and I turned a blind eye to my mother-in-law's many excessive demands.
However, my forbearance, in the eyes of my mother-in-law, was like compromise and fear, and in my family, it was even more powerful. Everything must be arranged by her, and when I do something and buy something, my mother-in-law always points fingers.
05
My mother-in-law interfered in our family affairs under the banner of being good for us, and for the sake of my husband's face, I turned a blind eye and didn't bother with her.
However, my mother-in-law's hand stretched out so long and reached directly on the demolition money of my mother's house. After learning that my parents' hometown house was demolished and 1.58 million was distributed, the whole person jumped up and was happier than my husband and me.
Then, my mother-in-law began to complain that the house she lives in now is too small, the room is too small, and it seems crowded for many people. The mother-in-law tentatively persuaded her, why don't you replace the current small third room with a big fourth room, and the two children will just have one room per person when they grow up.
My mother-in-law looked at her son, but my husband looked at me in embarrassment and motioned for me to express his position with his eyes. Seeing that her son was slow to express her position, her mother-in-law was still a little angry, thinking that her husband was strict with his wife, and a big man should be the master of the house, instead of looking at his wife's face.
06
What is the idea in my mother-in-law's heart, I know very well. Since I learned that my mother's family had been demolished and divided the house, my mother-in-law couldn't wait to call my brother-in-law and brother-in-law and ask them to pack their bags as soon as possible and wait for her notice to come to live in the city.
If I hadn't heard my mother-in-law's phone call by chance, I might have thought that my mother-in-law was thinking about our small family. After all, although the two children are young now, as the children grow up, the existing house will definitely be depressing to live in.
Seeing that I was a little loose, my mother-in-law was overjoyed and began to arrange everyone's room on the spot. The mother-in-law said that the two children are still young and can share a room and a bunk bed. She lives with her father-in-law, we live in the master bedroom, and the other guest room is reserved for the brother-in-law's family, although it is a little crowded, but the family, don't pay too much attention to it.
After my mother-in-law finished speaking, I got up directly and threw her luggage out of the house, not to mention that my brother-in-law's family was going to move in, even my mother-in-law and I had to send her back to my hometown.
I sneered and told my mother-in-law, whose son is raised, so I shouldn't help you raise your son. My parents' money is not generous, even if we buy a senior house, it is to take my parents to support the elderly, not your youngest son's family.
No matter how much my mother-in-law makes trouble, I am determined to send my mother-in-law back to my hometown. Isn't the mother-in-law always thinking about her youngest son and two grandsons in her hometown, so let's get together as a family.