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In this socially diverse world, there will always be some people who are on the edge of life, who are under the pressure and blows of life, or because of personal mental health problems, and gradually embark on the path of misstepping, or because of the impulse of the moment to make wrong choices, and finally become nothing.
And many of them have their own untold stories, their own sufferings, and although they have made mistakes, their hearts may be more painful than anyone else.
So what exactly have fallen on the wrong foot, and why did they embark on the path of stumbling?
And how many people like them need the care and help of society?
How can we prevent the problem of stumbling and how can we help them to reintegrate into society?
What can we do?
Today, we're going to talk about the story of the person who lost his footing.
1. A 45-year-old woman who has lost her footing.
45-year-old Xiaoli is a native of a small county town in Guangdong, she was originally the only daughter in the family, she has been favored by her parents since she was a child, and she has lived a very superior life in both study and life.
In order to give their daughter a better future, her parents sent her to Guangzhou to study in high school when she was in high school, because Xiaoli's academic performance has always been very good, so she was also among the best in the exam, and finally successfully admitted to a key university in Guangzhou.
Originally, Xiaoli's future was bright, but in Xiaoli's first year of college, her father suffered from lung cancer, and Xiaoli's mother had just resigned at this time, so the family's life was all on Xiaoli.
With Xiaoli's hard work, the family's life gradually improved, and in the process, Xiaoli's father also recovered under the careful treatment of doctors.
But at this time, Xiaoli suffered a lot of damage mentally because of the excessive pressure of life and the life and death of her father.
And at this time, Xiaoli met Xiaoli's father at this time, Xiaoli's father is not very old, only in his early forties, but in Xiaoli's eyes, Xiaoli's father is a very good man.
Under the warm hospitality of Xiaoli's father, Xiaoli's father also had a good impression of her, Xiaoli, but Xiaoli's father didn't know that the woman in front of him was actually his daughter's peer.
Under this misunderstanding, Xiaoli's father and Xiaoli also had a relationship, and this incident also made Xiaoli's father very guilty, he felt sorry for his wife, so after this incident, Xiaoli's father left his family and left the family.
And Xiaoli's mother was originally a very fragile woman, and when she knew that her husband had left home, she was greatly stimulated, so during this time, Xiaoli's mother also did many incomprehensible things.
During this time, Xiaoli's mother did a lot of harm to Xiaoli, and she even put a knife next to Xiaoli's bed, just to kill Xiaoli so that she could meet her husband.
And after Xiaoli's father left, Xiaoli's father didn't know where to go, so Xiaoli's mother could only support the family, and during this time, Xiaoli's mother also found her husband under various relationships outside.
However, when she met her husband, she found that he had a new family, so during this time, Xiaoli's mother was completely devastated.
And when Xiaoli's father knew that his wife had completely collapsed, he had no choice but to let Xiaoli's mother go to a psychiatric hospital for treatment.
During this time, Xiaoli also lost confidence in life because of her father's departure, and at the same time had this huge psychological shadow, so after graduating from college, she returned to her hometown to take care of her mother.
However, during this time, Xiaoli's mother also hated Xiaoli because of Xiaoli's father's departure, so during this time, Xiaoli's mother also did many things to Xiaoli to hurt her.
During this time, Xiaoli also suffered a lot of injuries, and at the same time had to take care of her mother, so Xiaoli's pressure was also very great.
After her mother's treatment, Xiaoli also worked in an elementary school, but Xiaoli's job was not very stable, and she had to take care of her mother at the same time, so Xiaoli's pressure was also very great.
During this time, one of Xiaoli's friends, who was also her classmate, told her that he had a friend who could offer Xiaoli a very good job and also allow Xiaoli to earn more money.
At this time, Xiaoli's mother's illness recurred, and Xiaoli's family was unable to provide Xiaoli with more money, so Xiaoli accepted the job, but when she came to this elementary school, she found that it was a very famous song hall.
Here, Xiaoli is a waiter, and in the process of this work, Xiaoli is still very self-disciplined and will not be tempted more, but during this time, Xiaoli met a young man, Xiaoli had a good impression of this person, but this person said to Xiaoli that he was a guest.
Under the warm hospitality of this young man, Xiaoli also had a relationship with this person, and after this incident, Xiaoli also realized her mistake, but after Xiaoli realized her mistake, she didn't know what else she could do, so she began her own path of failure.
Second, the truth of the stumble.
45-year-old Xiaoli, during this time, also regretted her life, but she had no choice, so at this time, Xiaoli took the initiative to confess to her family what she had done.
After the family found out, Xiaoli's family did not give Xiaoli more blame, but just silently treated her, and during this time, Xiaoli also received treatment from a psychiatrist, and also participated in many rehabilitation activities.
In these activities, Xiaoli also met many people like herself, and in the process, they also regretted what they had done, so in the process, Xiaoli also met many like-minded friends.
In this process, Xiaoli gradually came out of her psychological pressure, and at the same time found her life goal, that is, to treat her illness well, and at the same time to give her children a good future.
In this process, Xiaoli also met a man with the same experience, and this man also took good care of Xiaoli, and Xiaoli also had a good impression of this man in her heart, so during this time, Xiaoli also married this man, and in this man's body, Xiaoli also found the shadow of her father.
III. Conclusion.
Everyone deserves to be respected and cared for, and each of us should use love and tolerance to warm those who have been abandoned by life, so that they can feel the warmth and beauty of life.
We should also face the problem of stumbling with a rational attitude, and at the same time, we should also provide more care and help to those who have embarked on the road of stumbling.
At the same time, in the field of education and mental health, intervention and help for psychological stress and dilemmas should also be strengthened to prevent the occurrence of stumbling problems, and more resources and support should be provided for those who have embarked on the road of misstepping.
Only in this way can we better help those who have lost their footing, so that they can get out of the spiritual predicament, reintegrate into society, and return to normal life.