In our older generation, there is always such a custom - after the birth of a newborn, the first person to hold the child is often the closest person in the family, especially grandparents or grandparents. This seemingly ordinary action is endowed with the mysterious saying of "stepping on life", as if it can bring good luck and blessings to children. Is this superstitious or scientifically based?
First of all, let's talk about the origin of "stepping on life". Ancient times
It is believed that newborns have the weakest vitality and need the love and blessings of their families to be stable. Elders believe that through contact and embrace, they can pass on their own life force to their children and resist some unknown risks for their children. This concept, in the words of the ancients, is that "at the beginning of man, nature is good", and the love of parents and elders is the first line of defense for children's growth.
However, from the point of view of modern medicine, there is no conclusive scientific evidence to support it. Newborns' immune systems are not yet fully developed, but their skin is more sensitive than that of adults, and too much human contact may increase the risk of infection. However, this does not mean that we have to completely reject this tradition, after all, the transmission of family affection and blessings are equally important to the psychological growth of children.
As the famous American psychologist Fromm said, "Love is the education of life." "Every child needs love, and this love often begins with the person who first picked them up. The warmth and peace of mind they feel will become a precious memory for a lifetime.
In addition, psychologist Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory also points out that people's basic needs include physiology, security, love and belonging. The embrace of elders is an important way to meet these needs of children, making them feel accepted and loved, which is essential for their mental health.
Therefore, although there may not be a strict scientific explanation for "stepping on life", the emotional value it contains cannot be ignored. It represents the expectation and blessing of the family, and the deepest love for the new life. In this fast-paced society, let's slow down and feel the temperature in that tradition with our hearts, so that love can be transmitted more warmly.
Finally, whether or not we believe in the magical power of "stepping on life", we should remember that every child is unique and their happiness and health are the most important thing. Let us embrace the arrival of every new life with the most sincere love, because that is the most real "stepping on life".
This article hopes to make you recall your own growth process, and also arouse everyone's love and attention for the new generation. Forward it so that more people can feel the warmth from the bottom of their hearts!