In 2022, I was promoted to platoon commander and returned to my hometown with honor. My parents were proud of me, and my neighbors looked at me with envy. At this joyous moment, I went home with great anticipation to get engaged. However, this engagement turned out to be a farce in my family.
On that day, the sun was shining, and I came to the home of my blind date daughter Xiaofang in high spirits. Xiaofang is beautiful and has a gentle personality, we have known each other for a long time and are interested in each other. But just as we were about to get engaged, she suddenly proposed to withdraw from the marriage.
I was stunned and asked her why, but she couldn't say anything. At this time, my mother took me aside and whispered to me the inside story.
It turned out that after Xiaofang's family learned that I was promoted to platoon commander, they were worried that I would not be able to take care of the family because I was away all the year round, so they persuaded Xiaofang to quit the marriage. Xiaofang was conflicted in her heart, and she didn't know what to do, so she had to listen to her family's opinions.
I felt very angry and asked Xiaofang: "We have been in a relationship for so many years, have you given up so easily?"
Xiaofang looked at me with teary eyes and said, "I don't want to do this either, but my family is worried that after we get married, you will be away for a long time, and I can't bear this loneliness." ”
I was anxious and said, "I can apply for a transfer back, and we will definitely be able to live happily ever after." ”
Xiao Fang was silent for a while, and then said, "Then can you promise me a condition?"
I hurriedly asked, "What conditions?" As long as I can do it, I will definitely promise you. ”
Xiaofang said: "If you can make my family change their minds within a month, I will agree to get engaged to you." ”
I knew it wouldn't be easy, but I couldn't give up, so I had to say yes.
In the following month, I tried my best to go to Xiaofang's relatives and friends and ask them to help persuade her. Then, I applied to the leader to be transferred back to prove that I was capable of taking care of the family. In the end, I also invited a respected elder to go to Xiaofang's house to propose marriage.
Finally, with my efforts, Xiaofang's family changed their minds and agreed to our marriage.
On the day of the engagement, I was overwhelmed with emotion. was originally a happy event, but because of a misunderstanding, it almost went to ruin. I learned that marriage is not child's play, but requires both parties to work together to achieve happiness.
Since then, Xiaofang and I have worked hand in hand to manage our lives. Although there are still many difficulties in life, we all firmly believe that as long as we hold hands with each other, we will be able to overcome everything.
(ENDS)
Life after marriage was not all smooth sailing, and the tasks in the army were so heavy that I had to go out a lot of missions. Every time I left, Xiaofang would silently pack my luggage for me, and the worry and reluctance in her eyes made my heart ache. I promised her to be transferred back as soon as possible, but the soldier's vocation was to obey orders, and that promise became distant.
That day, I had just returned from a mission and was physically and mentally exhausted. Xiao Fang saw my exhaustion, gently massaged my shoulders, and asked softly, "This mission must be very hard, right?"
I sighed and replied, "Yes, but I am not afraid of anything when I think of you waiting for me at home." ”
Xiao Fang smiled, but a trace of worry flashed in her eyes. She hesitated for a moment, and finally spoke: "I've been thinking of a way lately, maybe I can get you back sooner." ”
I looked at her in amazement: "Really? What can you do?"
Xiao Fang took out a newspaper, pointed to a piece of news and said, "Look, there is a policy for military personnel to change jobs, maybe we can try it." ”
I took the newspaper with mixed feelings. Changing jobs means leaving the army I love, but it also means being able to be by Xiaofang's side. I looked at Xiaofang's expectant eyes, knowing her sacrifice and dedication.
"It's an important decision and I'm going to think about it. I said cautiously.
Xiao Fang nodded and held my hand: "No matter what decision you make, I will support you." ”
That night, I tossed and turned, thinking about the way forward. In the end, I decided to apply for a job change for the sake of Xiaofang and our family.
The process of changing jobs was cumbersome and lengthy, and I accompanied Xiaofang every day during the days of waiting. We went to the vegetable market to buy groceries together, cooked at home together, watched movies together, and lived a simple and happy life. During this time, I noticed that Xiaofang's belly was gradually bulging, and she was pregnant.
That day, I accompanied Xiaofang to the hospital for a prenatal checkup, and my heart was full of anticipation and nervousness. The doctor told us that it was a healthy baby, and I excitedly held Xiaofang's hand, my eyes filled with tears.
"We're going to be parents. I said in a choked voice.
Xiao Fang smiled, her eyes flashing with happiness: "Yes, we have to work together for this little life." ”
Just as we were basking in the joy, a piece of paper broke the peace. The army informed me that due to special circumstances, I needed to end the transfer process ahead of schedule and return to the army to carry out urgent tasks.
I looked at the order in my hand, and my heart was full of contradictions. Xiao Fang saw my hesitation, she gently stroked her stomach and said firmly, "You go, we'll wait for you to come back." ”
I hugged Xiaofang tightly, my heart full of gratitude and guilt. I know that she once again chose to sacrifice for me and for our family.
Before leaving, Xiaofang sent me to the door, I looked back at her with a big belly, waved goodbye, and vowed to return safely and give her and the baby a happy home.
(ENDS)
The mission was urgent and dangerous, and my heart was full of apprehension, but as a soldier, I knew I had to be strong. Leaving Xiaofang and the soon-to-be-born child makes my heart cut like a knife, but I also understand that this is my responsibility and mission.
When I was in the army, I was always worried about my family. In the dead of night, I would take out a photo of Xiaofang and the baby and stare at it quietly, as if I could draw strength from it. I know that Xiaofang is also worried about me at home, and behind her strong smile, there is endless longing and waiting.
The mission was finally done, and I couldn't wait to pack my bags and get ready to go home. On the way back, I bought Xiaofang a small gift, which was an apology and love for her.
When I opened the door and saw Xiao Fang waiting in the living room with a big belly, my heart melted instantly. She greeted me with a smile and tears in her eyes: "You're finally back." ”
I hugged her tightly and felt her warmth: "I'm sorry for worrying you." ”
Xiao Fang shook her head gently: "As long as you come back safely, I will be satisfied." ”
That night, we fell asleep cuddling together, feeling each other's heartbeats and breathing. I know how precious a night like this is to us.
A few days later, Xiao Fang launched it ahead of schedule. I nervously stayed by her side, holding her hand and constantly comforting her. When she finally gave birth to our daughter with difficulty, I couldn't hold back my tears. The moment of the arrival of this little life made me deeply appreciate the miracle of life and the responsibility of being a father.
Xiao Fang smiled weakly and held her daughter in her arms: "Look, how much she looks like you." ”
I smiled and nodded, my heart full of pride and gratitude: "She is the crystallization of our love." ”
With the birth of our daughter, our lives have become more hectic and fulfilling. I applied for a job change and decided to leave the army altogether to focus on taking care of my family. Xiaofang supported my decision, she always understood my choice, and she was my strongest backing wherever I went.
Life after changing jobs was full of challenges, and I went from a soldier to an ordinary clerk. Although the income is no longer good, I feel that being able to be with my family is the greatest happiness. Xiaofang is also taking care of her daughter at home, and we share the housework and watch the children grow up day by day.
As the years passed, my daughter grew up and began to go to kindergarten. Whenever I go to pick her up from school and see her running towards me happily, I feel a sense of satisfaction and happiness that I have never felt before. Xiao Fang stood not far away, looking at us with a smile, and at that moment, I knew that everything I had done for this family and for them was worth it.
(ENDS)
As the days passed, Xiaofang and I deeply realized the joy and responsibility of being parents. We watched our daughter grow up day by day, learn to walk, talk, and begin to have her own little thoughts, and every progress made us feel extremely proud. Although there will be small frictions in life, our feelings are deepened because of the common goal.
Xiaofang is a virtuous wife who keeps the house in good order, so that I have no worries. I worked hard in the workplace to give them a better life. Although the income after changing jobs is not as good as before, it is a kind of happiness for the family to be together.
However, life is not always peaceful. After my daughter entered elementary school, I noticed that she seemed to be having some problems at school. When she came home, she was always reticent and sometimes secretly cried. I asked her what was going on, and she just shook her head and wouldn't say. I was anxious, but I didn't know how to help her.
One day, I found a note in my daughter's bag that read, "Dad, I was bullied by my classmates at school and they said I didn't have a dad. I looked at those words, and my heart was like a knife. I decided to talk to the teacher and find out the situation.
In the teacher's office, I explained the situation to her. The teacher took it seriously and said that he would investigate the matter and take measures. I looked at the teacher gratefully, but my heart was full of helplessness. I knew that I couldn't always be there for my daughter to protect her, and it made me feel incredibly remorseful.
When I got home, I decided to have a good talk with my daughter. I sat on the edge of her bed and whispered, "Baby, Daddy knows you're having some problems at school, but you know that Daddy will be there for you no matter what happens." ”
The daughter raised her head with tears in her eyes: "Dad, I'm really scared." ”
I hugged her tightly and comforted her softly: "Don't be afraid, Dad will protect you." We face these problems together and solve them together. ”
From that day on, I paid more attention to my daughter's growth and asked her about her school every day. I also started to keep in touch with my teacher to see how she was doing in school. Slowly, my daughter became more cheerful and had more smiles on her face.
I know that as a father, I need to keep an eye on her growth and give her enough love and support. Xiaofang also silently supported me on the side, and we worked together to create a warm and harmonious family environment for our daughter.
Although life is full of challenges, as long as we hold hands as a family, I believe that we will be able to overcome all difficulties and move towards a happy future.
(ENDS)