Speaking of the experience of my boyfriend chasing me, it can be written as a "art of war" level strategy. Really, I'm not exaggerating at all, when he chased me, it felt like he was treating me as a "copy" that needed to be tackled and all kinds of strategies, all kinds of careful thoughts, endlessly.
The story takes place on a sunny spring day, when I have just come out of an unpleasant relationship, and I am somewhat resistant to such a thing as love. As for him, let's call him Xiao Chen, he was a classmate of mine in college, but we didn't know each other before.
One day, I suddenly received a bouquet of flowers, unsigned, just a small card with the words "May you bloom like a flower every day". I wondered who would send me flowers so mysteriously.
A few days later, I found a bookmark in the library with some words of encouragement written on it. I'm starting to feel that something is wrong, that someone must be watching me secretly.
Then, there is a series of "coincidences". When I go to the cafeteria to eat, I always "bump into" him, and when I go for a walk in the playground, he "just happens" to be there. There were so many "coincidences" that I began to pay attention to him.
I have to say, he really cares. He knew that I liked to watch movies, so he always "coincidentally" bought a ticket to the movie I wanted to see, and then invited me to go with him "by the way". He knows that I like desserts, so he always brings me a cake that I like "just right" when I'm in a bad mood.
The one that touched me the most was on my birthday. I didn't plan to celebrate my birthday because I was in a low mood during that time. But he "accidentally" found out about my birthday, and then organized a group of friends to give me an unforgettable birthday party.
In this way, he walked into my life step by step, and also into my heart. I began to find that he was not only a person with a heart, but also a person to rely on.
Of course, in the process, I also had hesitations and struggles. After all, I had just ended a relationship and didn't want to start another one easily. But he was always able to resolve my concerns in the most delicate way.
I remember one time, we were walking around campus, and he suddenly stopped and said to me very seriously: "I know you may not be ready to start a new relationship right now, but I want you to know that I will always be there for you and whatever support you need, I will give it to you." ”
At that moment, I was really touched by his sincerity. I realized that he was not just "chasing" me, but also understanding and caring for me with his heart.
As time passed, our relationship became closer. Finally, one day, he invited me to the movies again. In the cinema, he held my hand tightly and asked me softly, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?"
I looked at his serious face, and a warm current welled up in my heart. I nodded, then smiled. At that moment, I knew that I had finally met someone worthy of my love.
In retrospect, the process of him chasing me was really a "psychological warfare". He skillfully used various strategies to get closer to me, understand me, and impress me step by step. But most importantly, he always maintained sincerity and patience, which made me feel his sincerity and determination.
So, if you were to ask me how he managed to catch me, I can only say that he used 800 eyes, but every eye was full of love and concern for me.
Since agreeing to be Xiao Chen's girlfriend, our relationship has taken a step further. He began to take care of me more attentively, and I became more dependent on his presence.
During that time, we were almost inseparable. We went to the library to study, we ate in the cafeteria, and even on the weekends, he would take me around every corner of the city on his bicycle. Every moment I spent with him made me feel extremely happy.
One day, he suddenly and mysteriously told me that he was going to take me to a place. We took a long car ride and came to a beautiful town. The scenery is picturesque and sunny, as if you are in a fairy tale.
He took me to a handicraft shop filled with all kinds of exquisite handicrafts. He picked out a ceramic cup, then picked up a paintbrush and started drawing on it. Curious, I leaned over and saw that he was drawing a cute little girl who looked a little like me.
"This is for you. When he finished drawing, he handed me the cup, "In the future, when you drink water, you will think of me every day." ”
I was moved to tears and hugged him tightly. At that moment, I deeply felt his love for me and strengthened my determination to be with him.
As time went on, our feelings grew deeper. We started planning for the future and talked about life later. He wanted to start a business, and I wanted to go on to further my education. Together, we made plans to encourage and support each other.
However, life is always full of unknowns. While we were looking forward to a bright future, a sudden news broke our peace - Xiao Chen's family wanted him to study abroad.
The news came as a bolt from the blue for us. None of us want to be separated, but that doesn't stop him from pursuing a better future. During that time, we were caught in deep contradictions.
Xiao Chen saw my worry and reluctance, he held my hand tightly and told me affectionately: "No matter where I go, my heart will be with you." I will study hard and come back as soon as possible to achieve our dreams with you. ”
Listening to his firm words, I felt his determination and deep affection for me. I knew I couldn't be a stumbling block for him to pursue his dreams. So, I plucked up my courage and told him I would wait for him to come back.
And just like that, we started a long long-distance relationship. Although we are thousands of miles apart, our hearts are always connected. Every day we share each other's lives and moods through video chat. He told me about what he had seen and learned abroad, and I told him about my efforts at home and how much I missed him.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye he has been studying abroad for more than a year. Although we have experienced many difficulties and challenges during this period, our relationship has become deeper and deeper. Whenever I think of him studying and struggling in a foreign country, I feel extremely proud and proud.
Finally, one day, he told me the good news that he was about to return home. At that moment, I was so excited that I burst into tears, looking forward to the moment when I could be reunited with him. When he appeared at the exit of the airport, I rushed over and hugged him tightly, as if to release all the thoughts of the year. We looked at each other and smiled, holding each other's hands as if we wanted to put each other's love into this clasp. At that moment, I understood that all the waiting and dedication was worth it, because we were finally together again.
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