Title: The Estrangement Between Father and Daughter: The Resolute Opposition of the Hidden Man and the Father
Introduction: In many families, the father-daughter relationship is the cornerstone of the emotional bond, but sometimes, the relationship can also be complicated by misunderstandings and doubts. One such dilemma was faced by a Bai lady from Gongyi City, whose father was adamantly opposed to her dating a secret man, leading to the breakdown of the father-daughter relationship. What's the story behind this?
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In many people's lives, my father is the guardian who guards silently, and he is the strong backing that shelters us from the wind and rain. However, for Ms. Bai, her father became an insurmountable obstacle.
Ms. Bai wanted to be filial to her father, but her father did not want to see her, and even resolutely refused to let his daughter go home. This made Ms. Bai feel very sad and confused. For three years, she could only secretly watch his father's condition from a distance at 12 noon every day when he went out to empty the urinal. Now that her father is nearly 90 years old, she is very worried about his father's old age.
Mr. Bai's rejection of his daughter seems to stem from his distrust of his daughter. He thinks his daughter might have poisoned or drugged him, and this suspicion makes their relationship extremely strained. Ms. Bai tried to explain her actions, but her father's resentment seemed to be unquenchable.
Psychologically, it is believed that a person who is always wary of others or obsessed with the bad things of others is actually hurt the most by his own psyche. This kind of person is full of complaints and depression, and at worst self-torture, closing himself off from communicating with anyone, even his relatives.
When Ms. Bai's son got married, her old father was worried about her financial difficulties, so he gave her 50,000 yuan to let her grandson get married. However, when Ms. Bai confessed to the old father that she had found a boyfriend and told him that the man had paid for the child's marriage, the old father was very angry. He felt that his daughter was coming for his money, not really wanting to be filial.
After Ms. Bai's ex-husband died, she was introduced to her current boyfriend, Mr. Zhang. Although the two did not get a license, Mr. Zhang has been taking care of this big family with all his heart. He contributed about 60,000 or 70,000 yuan to help Ms. Bai's children get married and provide for her youngest daughter to go to school. He hoped for Mr. Bai's approval, but Mr. Bai couldn't seem to accept his existence.
Four years ago, Mr. Zhang fell seriously ill, and Ms. Bai asked her father for 5,000 yuan for Mr. Zhang. This made Mr. Bai very disappointed, and he began to suspect that his daughter was now approaching him for his retirement salary.
This story teaches us that the relationship between father and daughter can be complicated by misunderstandings and doubts. In this case, the estrangement between Ms. Bai and Mr. Bai seems to be difficult to eliminate. Ms. Bai hopes for her father's approval and understanding, while Mr. Bai worries that his daughter's actions may pose a threat to his life.
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