On the stage of life, love is like a wonderful play, and choosing the right person is the most moving chapter. We often say that "men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", which reminds us to keep our eyes open when choosing a partner. Today, let's talk about those men and women who are "not suitable" to enter the marriage hall, so that everyone can avoid detours on the road to finding true love.
First, for men, there are eight types of women that may need to be considered with caution:
1. **Over-dependence**: "True love is about supporting each other, not taking it unilaterally. ― Elizabeth Gilbert. If a girl always seems helpless and overly dependent in front of you, it may be her lack of independence and a hidden danger in the future.
2. **Negative Energy Magnetic Field**: "With negative people, you become negative. ― Mark Twain. Girls who continue to exude negative emotions will bring you endless stress and exhaustion.
3. **Don't know respect**: "Respect is the cornerstone of love. - Oprah Winfrey. If she doesn't respect your family and friends, she probably won't respect you.
4. **Narrow vision**: "Vision determines the pattern, and the pattern affects life. - Jack Ma. Such a partner may limit the space for you to grow together.
5. **Lack of Integrity**: "Trust is the oxygen of a relationship. ― John Lennon. Once trust is lost, no relationship can be maintained.
6. **Too materialistic**: "Love is selfless giving, not calculating. - Unknown. A girl who is too materialistic can make you feel suffocated.
7. **No sense of responsibility**: "Men have to be responsible, to support the family. – Bill Gates. Responsibility is a necessity between partners.
8. **Frequent Change of Mind**: "Love needs stability, and commitment needs to be kept." ― Jack Canfield. It is difficult for people who change their hexagrams frequently to give people a sense of security.
For women, here are six types of men who may need to be careful:
1. **Evade responsibility**: "Men should be responsible, to support the family. —Ibid.
2. **Selfish**: "True love is giving, not taking." – Judy Dench. It is difficult for people who only care about themselves to spend their lives together.
3. **Disrespect for women**: "Respect is the basis of the relationship between the sexes. ― Amy Schumer. Men who don't respect women often have a hard time getting along with.
4. Overly sensitive: "Understanding and tolerance are the medicine for love. – Robert F. Kennedy. People who are overly sensitive can strain the relationship.
5. **Addicted to games or work**: "Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distance. —— Zhang Jiajia. Balance is key, and you can't focus entirely on the virtual world.
6. **No Growth**: "Growing together is a long-term companion." —Maria Montessori. If he stops, you also want to consider whether you want to follow him.
Remember, everyone is unique, and these are just suggestions, not absolutes. The most important thing is to find someone with whom you can share the joys and sorrows of life and support each other. On the road to choosing a mate, I wish everyone can find their own happiness. If you think it makes sense, don't forget to like and retweet it to benefit more people.