Truth and hypocrisy have always been a contradiction in the emotional world. They can exist in the same person or in the same scene, but they can never be accepted at the same time. This is an inevitable and often unsettling truth in our journey through life.
When someone is there for you and confides in you your feelings, you may be deeply attracted to what you feel is true love.
Eventually, you'll find out that it's all just a passive ending that you've channeled yourself. I have to tell you about this: that's not true love, my dear.
Although some people who have love in their hearts may not show it in their faces, nor will they show it in words, they will bring warmth to each other with their actions, even if they do not ask for anything in return.
You should know that both men and women will automatically come to you after you pursue success.
Because, the active party is more eager to take the emotion to a higher level, so they will give harder.
Some people's so-called love has always been self-comforting, obviously they have been blindly giving, and have never received any active response, but they still think that they have experienced happiness.
You must understand that cheating on your feelings will not end well, and you will not get the happiness you expect.
To find out if you've successfully tracked down the person you like, it's best not to contact too often, let alone call or message. Keep an elegant and calm posture and let the other person feel your confidence and independence, so that the person you are pursuing will like you more.
At this point, you can see if he is willing to reach out to you. If he does, your doubts will be dispelled. It's a loose and formal way of expressing it.
Adult society is very realistic, if the other person doesn't like you, they can't waste time with you, and they can't take the initiative to deepen their relationship. This is an objective reality, we should understand and accept, instead of dwelling on it, after all, there are many beautiful things in life that are worth pursuing.
If you have a firm grip on the other person's heart, he will find it unbearable once you start to disconnect, and will send you frequent messages in an attempt to prove his presence. This is a common psychological phenomenon because people need to stay in touch with the people they love and don't want to be separated from them.
He will take the initiative to be nice to you
I don't know if you've ever heard the saying that when someone really likes you, you don't need to do anything, let alone say more, and the other person will love you with passion.
Beautiful love makes people yearn for it, but the reality often does not match expectations.
In a relationship, many people will feel dazed and passive. Once you give your heart, you will crave better and more rewards. However, we often forget to think about what we are getting. This leaves us in a state of discontentment. You need to think calmly and love yourself as well as others.
Love doesn't need to be too flashy and enthusiastic, simple feelings are enough.
Over time, you will come to understand that a person will spontaneously make overtures to you after being influenced by you. Although this enthusiasm may be insignificant, you can feel the warmth he has given you. That's enough to make you feel satisfied.
Some people are unable to experience true love, not because no one loves them, but because they themselves overthink themselves and miss out on many warm actions around them.
If you can calm down and savor it, you will find that the person who has been conquered by you is not the person who has sweet words on his lips all the time, but the person who proves his emotions for you with his actions.
He is kind enough to solve problems for you, plan surprises for you, and even pay attention to details that you overlook. He has a warm heart and favors your every need to make you feel comfortable.
His dedication and hard work are unrequited. You must understand that such a person deserves to be cherished.
He will plan to have your future
The best way to understand the other person's attitude towards you is to look to the future rather than look to the past.
In love, some people will continue to turn over old accounts with past things. If the moment is not satisfactory, they will turn over the trivial things of the past, causing the two to be unhappy. In love, we should focus on the present moment and not dwell too much on the past.
In fact, this practice does not accurately understand the psychological state of the other person, but can lead to an instant collapse of your relationship. We need to find more appropriate ways to communicate.
Please don't make yourself stupid. Those with low emotional intelligence tend to reminisce about the past frequently, whereas truly intelligent people look forward and keep moving forward.
If your partner is always planning for the future, then there is a good chance that he is deeply in love with you. This is because he wants to spend the rest of his life with you and always has you in his heart as an important person.
If you find that no matter what you do, he always thinks from his own point of view and never thinks about your place in his future, then it is clear that he has not been completely conquered by you.
Emotional issues are often so realistic. We will always dwell on how good the other person used to be, and forget to think about the possibilities of the future. This is something we need to think about seriously.
We need to become wiser, and choose those who love us to have a long-term vision, not to be bound by the present, but to hold the belief that the future has you.
Conclusion:
Everyone's expectations for love are different, but each of us craves the feeling of happiness. It is a shared desire, regardless of culture and society.
If your partner is always enjoying your favor and is reluctant to take the initiative to show his love, then you need to think carefully about how you interact.
If you're still hesitating, consider this: growing up with someone is time-consuming, and such relationships often don't end well. In order to maintain mutual respect, why not get together and leave good memories for each other?
So, do you understand now? Those who are attracted to you do not express their emotions with great fanfare, but will naturally integrate into your life.
Whether it's emotionally sustaining or taking care of you, he's always proactive. Even if you don't say anything, he will love you with all his passion, and there is no falsehood.