Haha, I often hear some men say that women are enjoying taking care of their babies at home, and this is the life that many people dream of! You don't have to work from 9 to 5, you don't need to look at the boss's face, you are at home all day long, what do you want, how comfortable you are! Let's take a look at the mood of this full-time father with a baby......
This stay-at-home father in Heilongjiang is full of depression and exhaustion every day in the face of a large pile of housework left by his children after school. His once vibrant life gradually becomes heavy and uninteresting, as if the whole world revolves around housework, and he cannot find the meaning and direction of his existence.
Morning Time:
At the beginning of each day, it is shrouded in the trivialities of housework. Laundry, mopping the floor, cooking, these seemingly simple tasks are like an invisible mountain pressing on his shoulders. Time seemed to be filled with these repetitive tasks, and he could hardly find a moment of freedom of his own. At the same time, he is full of confusion and helplessness about the future, does not know how to reverse the current predicament, and loses friends due to long-term neglect of social life, and his loneliness is increasing.
This unbearable pressure and depression gradually plunged him into despair. He longed for someone who would understand his situation and give him a glimmer of hope and support. However, the reality is so cruel that he seems to be trapped in this seemingly ordinary but hard life, unable to find a way out.
Every morning, the man wakes up to the first rays of the morning sun, only to be greeted by the repetition and fatigue of the day. When he wakes up, the first thing he has to do is to dispose of the quilts and clothes at home, tidying them up and giving the home a new look. He then threw himself into the preparation of breakfast, carefully cooking a nutritious breakfast for the whole family, hoping to bring them energy and joy for the day.
Then it's time to wash the dishes, clean up the kitchen, and remove all the traces left from yesterday to give your home a new look. Organize the housework, take care of every corner of the house, and let the children return to a warm and comfortable home. However, even after completing these, his personal time is minimal. Sometimes, he also needs to deal with some extra tasks, such as picking up couriers, buying groceries, etc., resulting in a full schedule throughout the morning, without a moment of leisure and rest.
In this family, he is an unsung hero who bears the heavy responsibilities and responsibilities of the family. His dedication and efforts are not seen by the outside world, but he bears it silently, never complains, and just silently pays for his family. In this way, he is the mainstay of the family, the hero in the hearts of the children, and the pillar in the hearts of his wife.
However, this kind of life is not easy, and he also longs for a time and space of his own, and longs to be able to find a trace of freedom and happiness in life. But even in the face of various difficulties and challenges, he still silently persevered, put his family first, and shouldered the burden of the family on his own shoulders.
Lunch Break:
The lunch break became the most relaxing moment for the stay-at-home dad, who could relax and regain some strength and spirit. When he closed his eyes, he could feel a glimmer of peace and comfort, as if he had escaped from all the chores and responsibilities. However, time always flies, and around three o'clock in the afternoon, he has to start getting busy again.
Evening arrangement:
After waiting for his children to get out of school, he ushered in the second peak of the day. In order to prepare dinner, he began to work on his hands, from the kitchen to the table, taking care of every detail himself. Not only does he have to cook delicious meals, but he also has to make sure the ingredients are fresh and nutritious. In addition to handling the meals and kitchen, I also have to prepare the next day's lunch box for my wife to ensure that she can eat a healthy lunch.
Washing dishes, tutoring children with homework, and putting children to sleep, this series of things makes his day almost without a moment of leisure. Despite his physical and mental exhaustion, he still held on to his responsibilities and silently shouldered the burden of his family. In this seemingly ordinary day, he showed the demeanor of a true man, supporting the happiness of the whole family with his own shoulders.
Especially on weekends, when his wife works overtime, he has no chance to rest, not only to take care of his two children, but also to deal with household chores. And behind all this, he has lost many social circles and personal hobbies, because family life has taken up almost all of his time and energy.
I just want to see it, hehe, what's so depressed, isn't this how stay-at-home mothers come? Once depressed, they still say that people are hypocritical, and some mothers-in-law have to come out to be demons, and being a mother is the most tired!
In our society, it is not easy for anyone. Whether you are at work or full-time with a baby, you have your own hardships and difficulties. But ah, we have to learn to face and learn to bear, and don't say that women are enjoying taking a baby!
At the same time, we also need to be aware of the importance of family responsibilities, whether men or women, should share the burden of the family. Only when every family member can shoulder their own responsibilities and work together can we create a more harmonious and happy family environment.
Faced with the dilemmas and challenges in the family, both men and women need to understand and support each other. Men need to understand the responsibilities and pressures that women have in the family and give them more support and help. At the same time, women also need to understand men's efforts and dedication in the family, and give them more respect and understanding.
Only when family members can understand and support each other and face the difficulties and challenges in life together can we create a harmonious and happy family environment together. Therefore, let us work together to create a good atmosphere for mutual understanding and support between family members, so that every family member can feel love and warmth, grow and progress together.
Stay-at-home dads take on responsibilities in the family that go far beyond taking care of the children and household chores, but also taking responsibility for the family's finances, caring for the health and well-being of family members, and coping with emergencies in the family. However, often these labors and contributions are rarely recognized and valued by society, resulting in stay-at-home fathers feeling challenged in their status and value in the family.
At the same time, we should also recognize the importance of family responsibilities, and both men and women should share the burden of the family. Only when every family member can shoulder their own responsibilities and work together can we jointly create a better, harmonious and happier family and society.
Although the outside world thinks that his situation is a blessing, it is a huge burden for this stay-at-home dad. In addition to facing the repetitive work of household chores, he also bears the pressure of thinking about his future. This chronic stress and loneliness left him feeling helpless and confused, and he longed for someone who could understand his situation and give him support and encouragement.
This story profoundly tells us that whether it is a full-time baby or a job, it is a huge challenge. Everyone should cherish the fruits of their labor and not take the efforts of others for granted. At the same time, we should also pay more attention to those who are quietly contributing in the family, and give them more support and understanding. Give them appropriate rest time and moral support so that they feel that their efforts are seen and valued. In this way, our family and society can be more harmonious and beautiful.
What do you think about the division of roles in the family, and do you think the hard work of stay-at-home dads is socially recognized?