The warrior-like firm dream has created a glorious chapter in the road of acting
Zheng Xiaoning, who grew up in a drama family, has longed for the glory and responsibility of being a soldier since he was a child. There was a unique heroism in his eyes, as if he was born to exist for that mighty military uniform, vowing to defend every inch of the motherland.
However, his parents, both outstanding drama actors, were well aware of the hardships of military life and firmly opposed his joining the army.
As fate tricked, Zheng Xiaoning finally embarked on the same path as his parents and became an actor. Although when he first stepped into the stage, he was full of fear and shyness, and if he mispronounced the line, he would cause laughter.
He was small and thin, and his appearance was not handsome, so he did not receive enough attention in the troupe.
However, Zheng Xiaoning did not back down because of this. Although he failed to realize his dream of being a soldier, he decided to use the characters on the screen to create the image of those upright, brave, and iron-blooded men who are not afraid of power.
He worked hard day and night to train his lines, Mandarin and acting skills to make up for his shortcomings.
Finally, in a drama "Save Her" in 1980, Zheng Xiaoning appeared on the stage for the first time, playing the role of "Flying on the Grass", and became a local emerging star. Although the role is limited, he proved to his parents with practical actions that as long as they persevere, they can also achieve impressive results.
Since then, Zheng Xiaoning began to get involved in the field of film and television, first trying the shooting of TV series in "The Appointment of Director Qiao", and then moving to various crews, playing various tricks and small roles, accumulating valuable practical experience.
Until 1999, at the age of nearly 40, he finally played the main role in "Outstanding Encirclement", and his military-like and awe-inspiring image was widely acclaimed, and he successfully entered the entertainment industry.
With his resolute and resolute appearance and profound acting skills, Zheng Xiaoning has successfully portrayed the role of a soldier in many dramas, created countless images of honest and brave tough guys, and won the reputation of "professional military households".
However, just as his career was in full swing, a series of scandals involving personal privacy caused the image of this "tough guy idol" to suffer a heavy blow, and the dream of a soldier in his childhood actually achieved the bumpy course of his life's acting career.
The pain caused by the breakdown of the marriage unexpectedly propelled the prosperity of the career
Back in 2000, when Zheng Xiaoning was in full swing filming the TV series "Eagle Strikes the Sky", in this work, he met Lin Haihai, who also worked in the crew.
Lin Haihai not only has a captivating appearance, but also a powerful actor from a professional background, and there is naturally an indescribable tacit understanding and emotional resonance between the two.
After only a few months of acquaintance, Zheng Xiaoning mustered up the courage to propose to Lin Haihai, and Lin Haihai agreed without hesitation. After all, Zheng Xiaoning has entered the age of no confusion, and his family has been urging him to start a family as soon as possible.
Therefore, after knowing each other for less than a year, they quickly entered the palace of marriage.
However, this wonderful marriage did not last long. The sweetness of the newlywed Yan'er lasted only four short years. As an actor couple, most of their time is immersed in the busyness of the crew, and they have little leisure to pay attention to the trivial things in life.
The warm companionship of life gradually disappeared, and the relationship between husband and wife gradually faded Finally, in 2004, they chose to end this marriage.
Although the road to marriage suffered setbacks, Zheng Xiaoning's acting career ushered in its peak moment after the divorce. This year, he participated in the filming of the costume drama "Zhu Yuanzhang" and successfully created the tense character image of "Liu Bowen".
Liu Bowen, who has gone through vicissitudes, is a perfect match for Zheng Xiaoning's calm and calm personality.
After the divorce, Zheng Xiaoning seems to have devoted all his efforts to his acting career. In many excellent dramas such as "My Ugly Girl", "A Hundred Years Ago", "Zhan Beiping", he is sometimes heroic and majestic, sometimes humble and kind, and can bring endless surprises to the audience every time.
The advent of one classic after another has made the value of this "old drama bone" rise and become a veritable "military professional" Perhaps, the brilliance of his career is a good remedy for him to relieve the pain of divorce However, behind this, he temporarily forgot the importance of family.
Tried marriage again, but it broke down due to family conflicts
Although her first marriage ended in failure, Zheng Xiaoning was not discouraged. After a successful career, he decided to add a beautiful marriage to his life again.
In 2010, Zheng Xiaoning, who was 51 years old, tied the knot with Huang Yuli, who was 19 years younger than him. In view of his special status as a public figure, Zheng Xiaoning chose to get married in a low-key manner, trying to avoid his family being disturbed and hurt by the media.
After a year of ups and downs, he finally welcomed the first child in his life. For this belated son, Zheng Xiaoning poured out his father's love. He knew in his heart that his responsibility as a father was to guide his son to become a resilient seedling and know how to take on the responsibilities of the family.
At home, he often carried his son on his shoulders, and warm laughter filled the room.
Whenever his son showed his innocent innocence, he always smiled and let the little guy play to his heart's content.
However, for his wife, Zheng Xiaoning doesn't seem to care enough about it. He was often immersed in the creation of his study, and rarely took the initiative to understand what his wife was thinking, and never paid attention to her joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
Over time, conflicts between husband and wife gradually accumulate.
His wife accuses him of negligence in the family, but he is stubborn and believes that his work is all there is to the family. The quarrels between the two parties, combined with the busy schedule, have led to increasingly strained relations.
In the blink of an eye, the son has grown into a teenager, and the rift between them is difficult to repair.
In 2021, when their son was ten years old, Zheng Xiaoning and Huang Yuli finally chose to part ways. This is the second setback he has suffered on the road to marriage.
Seeing his wife leave angrily, he suddenly realized that his family is not an obstacle to his career, but a cherished concern in his life's journey.
Due to the lack of this awareness, he hurt the feelings of his family again and again, and also laid the groundwork for the failure of two marriages. The career was successful, the family was broken, and the image of the former "tough guy" suffered a heavy blow.
The dream of marriage is shattered, and only children accompany him
Sixty-year-old Zheng Xiaoning has been pursuing the glory of his career for most of his life, but the problem of marriage has always plagued him. Whenever asked why his two marriages ended in divorce, he always replied frankly: "Lack of companionship".
When he was young, he devoted most of his time and energy to endless crew filming in order to realize his dreams, and in middle age, he devoted himself to his work in order to protect his family.
In this way, he took a wrong step, a wrong step, and missed the moment when his wife and son needed him the most.
The first wife, Lin Haihai, was the trigger for the divorce because the two had been separated for a long time and lived a lonely life, while the second wife Huang Yuli gradually drifted apart because of Zheng Xiaoning's indifference to the family.
Looking back, these two unhappy marriages are destined to leave deep regrets.
Thankfully, Zheng Xiaoning, who is now in his twilight years, finally realized the importance of cherishing the present! After experiencing the death of two beloved people due to his own defects, the only remaining relative is his beloved son.
No matter how busy his career is, Zheng Xiaoning can temporarily put it down and devote himself to his son's growth.
Every morning, he always squeezes out a lot of time to spend with his son. Sometimes he patiently taught his son how to be a resilient man, and sometimes he lifted him high in the air and let him play to his heart's content.
Although he has missed the age when the child needs father's love the most, Zheng Xiaoning decided to use every minute of the rest of his life to make up for this regret, after all, in the course of his life, this son is his only support.
However, in 2016, a group of intimate photos of Zheng Xiaoning and a young woman went viral on the Internet, and the two embraced each other affectionately and sweetly.
There is also a group of children appearing with them in the picture, which has sparked heated discussions among the majority of netizens, who have speculated whether the young woman is Zheng Xiaoning's "junior" and whether the child is his "illegitimate child".
As a long-praised "military idol" level actor, Zheng Xiaoning was mercilessly ridiculed by netizens this time: "The filter is broken!
The frenzy of public opinion hit like a flood, and he violently questioned and attacked his personality and family ethics.
In the face of such cruel questioning and condemnation, Zheng Xiaoning chose to stand up bravely and openly explain the truth to the public. It turned out that the young woman in the photo was none other than his second wife, Huang Yuli, and the child was their biological flesh and blood.
However, out of consideration for protecting the privacy of his family and his special status as a public figure, Zheng Xiaoning chose to get married in a low-key manner to avoid too much media interference and harm to his family.
However, who would have expected that the original low-key hidden marriage would cause such an uproar many years later. As a result, the privacy rights of his wife and son were seriously violated, and Zheng Xiaoning himself was also involved in many controversies such as extramarital affairs and illegitimate children, which put the whole family under great pressure and pain.
If he had publicly announced that he had an only child, he might have been able to avoid this storm of controversy that originated from gossip. From an outsider's point of view, this turmoil is undoubtedly a living "life script" passionately staged.
When the public thoroughly understood the truth, although their slander against Zheng Xiaoning had decreased, they were also full of doubts and confusion about his choice to conceal his marriage.
This made the actor, known as the "drama bone", more deeply understand the various pretentiousness and dramatic complex turns in the plot after experiencing this turmoil firsthand.
It can be seen that the drama of life is just a drama in the final analysis. Sixth, people are in the rivers and lakes, and the prodigal son is precious
Looking back on Zheng Xiaoning's long and outstanding acting career, his achievements are undoubtedly remarkable. With his profound acting skills and heroic and tough image, he successfully created an image of a righteous and fearless steel tough guy on the screen, and won the reputation of "military professional".
Whether it is the commander played in "Outstanding Encirclement", or Liu Bowen played in "Zhu Yuanzhang", or the resolute general interpreted in "Battle of Beiping...... Whenever Zheng Xiaoning appears on the screen, he can always leave a deep impression on people with righteousness and leadership.
He vividly showed the fortitude and bravery of the military through his superb performance skills, making the audience unforgettable the image of this "tough guy".
However, it is a pity that just as his career was in full swing, scandals about his private life took a heavy toll on the image of this "military idol". The failure of two marriages, the questioning of public opinion, and the tension of family relationships have all made this once praised "tough guy" reveal the fragility of human nature.
In fact, marriage has always been an unsolvable problem for Zheng Xiaoning. When he was young, he spent his precious time between the crew and props in order to pursue the success of his career, and after entering middle age, he devoted all his efforts to maintaining the stability of his family.
In this way, one wrong step, one wrong step, he missed the opportunity to spend quality time with his wife and children.
The death of his first wife, Lin Haihai, stemmed from the separation of the two for many years and the emptiness and boredom of life, and the departure of his second wife Huang Yuli was also due to Zheng Xiaoning's indifference and neglect of the family and gradually distancing.
Every time she was asked about the reason for the divorce, Zheng Xiaoning would always answer the words "lack of life companionship" frankly.
It is gratifying that Mr. Zheng Xiaoning, whose youth has faded but has not lost his ambition, has deeply understood the true meaning of life - to rein in the precipice and return to the lost. The two marriages broke down due to their own shortcomings, and the only remaining son who was connected by blood became his only relative and bond at the moment.
Zheng Xiaoning resolutely gave up the persistent pursuit of his career and devoted all his efforts to the thriving growth of his son.
Every morning, he devotes a lot of precious time to spend with his son. Or teach him how to be a resilient man, or lift his son high and let him play to his heart's content.
Although he missed the age when his child needed father's love the most, Zheng Xiaoning was determined to spend the rest of his life to fill this regret.
After all, in the course of his life, this son is his only spiritual sustenance.