Under the willow tree in the evening, Hao Chuanqing sat alone on a bench, holding a crumpled newspaper in his hand, on which were printed a few big words: "Seven steps to raise a rebel." His eyes were full of confusion and unease, and he couldn't help but reflect on his relationship with his son.
Hao Chuanqing has always considered himself a responsible father and has invested a lot of time and energy in his son's education. However, as their son grew older, their relationship became more and more strained, and even quarreled from time to time. Hao Chuanqing didn't understand why he didn't get the due reward for his efforts, but instead raised a rebellious child.
As he fell into deep thought, an old man walked up to him and patted him lightly on the shoulder. The old man smiled and said, "Young man, are you bothered about educating your children?"
Hao Chuanqing nodded and handed the newspaper to the old man. The old man took the newspaper, read it carefully, and then said slowly: "Actually, raising children is not something that can be achieved overnight, it requires patience and wisdom. The seven steps you mentioned may be the source of conflict between you and your child. ”
Hao Chuanqing asked curiously: "Then how should we avoid these steps and educate our children correctly?"
The old man smiled and said, "First of all, learn to listen to the children's voices and respect their individuality and wishes. Second, lead by example and be a role model for your children. Thirdly, we should give enough love and support to our children, so that they can feel the warmth of the family. In addition, it is important to focus on cultivating children's independent thinking and problem-solving skills, so that they can cope with difficulties independently. ”
Hao Chuanqing nodded thoughtfully, and his heart suddenly brightened. He realized that he had indeed overlooked these important aspects in his past education. He decided to change from now on and try to be a better father.
As night fell, Hao Chuanqing said goodbye to the old man and set foot on the way home. His heart was full of hope and confidence, believing that as long as he did what the old man said, he would be able to improve the relationship with his son and make the family full of harmony and happiness again.
This story teaches us that raising children is a difficult and important task that requires patience, wisdom, and love. Only by avoiding those steps that can lead to rebellion and guiding children in the right way can we raise healthy, happy, and responsible children.