Ms. Li led someone to beat the mistress and was called to the police station to make a record. Not only that, but the man felt even more sorry for the mistress afterwards.
Because of this incident, Ms. Li cried tears when she came to me. I especially understand Ms. Li's feelings, she was frequently frustrated in front of her husband, and finally wanted to find Xiao San to vent her anger, but she was beaten by Xiao San, and Ms. Li was of course uncomfortable.
Originally, Ms. Lin wanted her husband and Xiao San to break up quickly, but she didn't expect that after her own operations, the alliance between the man and Xiao San became more stable. What causes this?
In fact, the alliance between the man and the junior is more stable, just for two reasons:
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Ms. Li went to make trouble with Xiao San, but she didn't dare to do anything to her husband. This sent a message to Xiao San, that is, Ms. Li did not dare to trouble her man. It shows that in this marriage, the man is the one in the high position, and the original partner is the one in the low position.
Therefore, Xiao San will make a judgment, she feels that as long as she holds the man tightly, Ms. Li will have nothing to do with herself. So Xiao San is more interested in men, of course, part of the reason for this is that Xiao San wants to take revenge on Ms. Li.
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The man also saw that Ms. Li was weak in the future.
At first, Ms. Li knew that the man was cheating, and Ms. Li's reaction was to discuss with the man to let the man go home, and then although Ms. Li made a big fuss, she also used the influence of the people around her to force the man to go home, which made the man feel that he was threatened by his wife.
It also made the man feel that Ms. Li herself was not terrible, because Ms. Li almost wrote the 4 words "dare not divorce" on her face.
Ms. Li's bottom line was all exposed to the man, and the man knew that Ms. Li didn't dare to divorce, didn't want to divorce, or couldn't divorce for the sake of her children. This will definitely make the man more confident.
First of all, Ms. Li has to be a person who makes men afraid, and even more importantly, she has to be a person who can't be handled by Xiao San.
When facing a man, Ms. Li must show the courage not to be afraid of divorce, so that the man can't figure out what Ms. Li's bottom line is, only in this way will the man not dare to act rashly.
When facing the junior, Ms. Li must do the following:
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Don't panic and stay calm
Ms. Li came to the door to find trouble with the junior, which was not a good move. I have already analyzed the reasons just now, and I want to tell you that Xiao San is most afraid of meeting calm and calm, ignoring Xiao San's original match.
Unless the status difference between the original partner and the junior is particularly large, the status of the original partner in front of men is also very high. Even if a man knows that his wife is looking for a mistress, he doesn't dare to come out, and he will even break up with the mistress in a panic.
If this is not the case, then most women will expose their hole cards first when they go to the junior. Or set off the mistress more helplessly and pitiful, so that the balance in the man's heart is biased in favor of the mistress.
So when the original partner didn't take the mistress seriously but knew how to handle the man, the mistress was the most helpless.
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When the original partner held the economic power, the man and the junior were afraid of you
In the final analysis, when you get married, love is important, and when you are divorced, money is important. This has been the unspoken rule of marriage since ancient times
If an original partner controls the financial power of the family, the man and the junior will not be able to set off the storm at all. At the same time, the original allocation should also prevent the outflow of family assets.
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The original partner should expose the conspiracy of the mistress, so that the man can see what kind of person the mistress is.
The smart original partner will not go head-to-head with the junior. She will use good strategies and think of good routines, so that men and mistresses will unconsciously nest in the nest, and when the man sees that the mistress's purpose is impure, the mistress finds that he can't get anything from the man, and they will naturally regard each other as enemies.