Forced to laugh when you are offended?
"Sexy" is her "label", and she has always been coerced and even devoured.
Should outstanding figure be reduced to a "joke" and a "talking point"?
43-year-old unmarried and childless is living a "joke"?
This time, Liu Yan, who is 43 years old and no one dares to marry, has impressed the world!
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During this time, the broadcast of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" was "in full swing".
The performance of the sisters, as well as various hot topics, frequently appear on the hot search.
The "first stage" of the "eighteen kinds of martial arts" has come to an end.
Yigong's performance is even more "indiscriminate flowers gradually into the charming eye".
The first public is divided into a total of 8 stages, led by 8 captains.
Make the audience "breathtaking" and enjoy the audio-visual feast at the same time.
It is none other than the "Hair Like Snow" group led by "Yue Opera Xiaosheng" Chen Lijun.
I have to say that this Chinese-style song is extremely successful and plays to their respective strengths.
The improved version of the national style style not only makes netizens shine, but also highlights themselves.
Liu Yan, Sa Dingding, and Chen Haoyu led by Chen Lijun are either sassy, charming, or cold, or royal sister.
The combination of the four "complements each other" and complements each other to present a perfect stage.
In addition to the stage sets and choreography, the addition of props is also very eye-catching.
Chen Lijun's sword dance, Sa Dingding's paper umbrella, Chen Haoyu's group fan, Liu Yan's fan dance.
They used their "best skills" to bring a visual feast to the audience.
In addition, Qi Wei's "Love Plot" focuses on a "hot mature woman style".
Qi Wei shuttled among each team member, like "ten thousand flowers have passed through, and the leaves do not stick to the body".
No wonder everyone calls her "Seventh Brother", not only beheading men, but also beheading women.
finally understood the feelings of netizens who "broke their hearts" for Lee Seung-hyun.
Yigong can also leave the audience with memory points, as well as Shang Wenjie and He Jie's performance of "Shouldn't".
There is no dance blessing, no gorgeous choreography, and some are just simple singing and dancing performances.
However, the simpler and purer it is, the more it can move people's hearts and make the listener cry.
The similar voices and emotional singing of the two instantly brought out the atmosphere of the song to the fullest.
As soon as "Riding the Wind and Waves" was launched, it became the "center of the storm" of the topic.
Sure enough, while the hot searches were "continuous", the popularity naturally "rode the wind".
Among them, "Liu Yan almost named his surname" rushed to the hot search overnight.
was offended and openly provoked by a famous artist in person, Liu Yan fought back angrily.
But is the "bad taste" joke really just a joke?
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As we all know, Liu Yan's figure is obvious to all in the entertainment industry.
Because of her figure, she has been subjected to countless "malicious ridicules" by domestic entertainment male artists.
Despite this, she still has to choose "forced smile" when she is offended.
Because at that time, she didn't dare to "confront each other" for the sake of "jobs".
In 2013, Liu Yan and Wu Zongxian co-hosted a variety show.
I don't know if it's to "liven up the atmosphere" or just "just kidding".
Wu Zongxian looked Liu Yan up and down, and said something that made Liu Yan "speechless".
"If I'm a cow, then you should be milk!"
Faced with such a greasy and playful sentence, Liu Yan could only choose to ignore it.
Coincidentally, Ma Dong also "self-righteously" made "yellow jokes" to Liu Yan in the show.
He laughed and laughed loudly with others, but Liu Yan felt deeply uncomfortable.
Fortunately, Cai Kangyong, who couldn't stand it, directly stopped his behavior.
The vigorous "bridesmaid" incident, Liu Yan "suffered deeply".
Obviously, she only came to "support the stage" for Bao Bell's wedding because of "friendship".
But in the end, she became the object of trouble, and even almost "lost her reputation".
This is a strongly uncomfortable behavior, but it makes the groomsmen have a lot of fun.
"Up and down", they just want to push Liu Yan, who has a good figure, into the water.
I want her to "get wet" so that they can "see it at a glance" more conveniently.
If it weren't for Jia Ling pounced on Liu Yan to protect her, she would have made others "satisfied".
However, even if it is Liu Yan who is hurt, what will be the final outcome?
Offended, she not only had to "force a smile", but even stood up and apologized publicly.
Because in some people's mouths, she has become the one who "can't afford to play" and "pretentious".
Under the pressure of public opinion, Liu Yan had to choose to apologize to "calm things down".
What's worse is that this incident brought "subversive" destruction to her career.
If there was no Dapeng to "lend a hand", Liu Yan might have "disappeared" in the entertainment industry.
Some people questioned: You don't take this route yourself, why do you have to "stand and stand"?
But in private, she not only "cleaned herself", but also did not even have any scandals.
Just like Jia Ling can only "eat fat and pretend to be ugly" in order to become famous, "sexy" is just a "label" given to her by the company.
03
When he was 19 years old, a sudden change changed the trajectory of Liu Yan's fate.
My mother's serious illness left the family with huge debts and couldn't breathe.
In order to pay off that "astronomical amount", and also to give my mother a better treatment and life.
Liu Yan stepped into the entertainment industry with one foot and became a "desperate Sanniang".
With no background, she became a small host because of her eloquence.
But the "fledgling" she suffered a "catastrophe" due to a problem.
"What if the movie that just came out doesn't turn out as expected?"
Liu Yan, who cautiously asked this question according to the script, ushered in the "anger" of the other party.
The director not only blackened his face on the spot, but even left the scene without giving interviews.
His approach directly caused Liu Yan to fall into the "land of no return".
The entertainment industry is a place where the words "worship high and step low" are vividly displayed.
When a big director is dissatisfied with a small reporter, without his help, it is enough for Liu Yan to "drink a pot".
In order to find another way, she had to accept the idea that the company would put the idea on her "figure".
Even if he had some concerns, the reality did not give Liu Yan time to think at all.
In this way, she chose to compromise and learn to accept it, just to make more money.
Using "figure" to become famous is like a "double-edged sword".
Along the way, she has gained fame and fortune, but also suffered a lot of criticism.
And now, she finally has the right to say "no" bravely.
It's like Yang Tianzhen asked her: "If someone offends you to your face, will you?"
"I'll just slap him back. ”
The words that blurted out were wrapped in infinite power, allowing her to find a better version of herself.
This kind of experience is the same as Jia Ling's.
Jia Ling, who is famous for being "funny and ugly", has an inferiority complex in her heart and has to cater to the audience all the time.
But she "lost 100 pounds", but she was reborn and burst out of a new "vitality".
In the past, she lived for the audience, and she lived as the audience liked.
But now she has broken this balance, and she has become a better version of herself by redeeming herself.
Now, Liu Yan is also repeating Jia Ling's "mistakes" and embarking on a "road of no return".
She never uses "figure" as a selling point, let alone "maintains heat".
Instead, he worked hard to make movies and fight for his "right to speak".
Some people say: Now she is 43 years old, but she still "no one dares to marry" and has become a "joke".
But is she really a "joke"?
Although she has always longed for love and marriage, she has never "settled".
When she laughs at herself or is ridiculed by the outside world for "no one wants", she will not "go astray" in order to get love.
She knows where she wants to go and knows to keep moving towards it.
Nothing could defeat her, and she came all the way.
Just like her participation in "Sister Lang"'s slogan "There is light in the dark, I want to ride the wind".
No matter how many ups and downs and darkness there are, she can always ride the wind and waves.
She is the real "sober in the world".
Summary:
When she encountered the "bridesmaids", she was obviously a victim but was isolated and excluded by the collective.
When others were silent, she stood up and apologized, but she was "soft blocked".
The outside world gave her too much malice and prejudice, but fortunately she broke through.
And the "bad taste" of straight men is also the situation that many women are facing today.
Whether in the workplace or in life, it is "everywhere" and everywhere.
I only hope that the girls can be like Liu Yan today, bravely say "no".