In the complexity of interpersonal relationships, the interaction between men and women is particularly delicate.
We often say that there is an insurmountable boundary between friends, but on both sides of that line, there is sometimes an indescribable emotion.
When a man and a woman transcend certain "boundaries", it often means that they have a deeper emotional connection.
So, what exactly are these two "sense of boundaries"?
1. The "Sense of Boundaries" of Emotional Communication
1. From daily greetings to deep conversations
In the early days of a man's and a woman's relationship, it often begins with a simple daily greeting.
But over time, if two people start talking frequently and deeply, sharing each other's life trivialities and mood ups and downs, then it may mean that the emotional communication between them has gone beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends.
This kind of in-depth conversation not only allows you to get to know each other better, but also invisibly strengthens your relationship.
"A true friend is someone who can cry, laugh and get through with you when you need it. ”
This quote tells us that there is a deep emotional exchange between true friends, and this communication is the foundation on which a deep relationship is built.
When the conversation between a man and a woman reaches this level, the emotional relationship between them may already be more than just ordinary friends.
2. Frequent alternation between confiding and listening
Talking and listening is an important way of interaction between men and women. When one partner is in a difficult situation or in a bad mood, the other party listens patiently and gives comfort and advice.
And over time, if the two people talk and listen more frequently and deeply, then it may mean that the emotional connection between them has become stronger.
This kind of frequent confiding and listening not only allows each other to understand each other better, but also invisibly deepens the relationship.
"True love is when the other person needs you, and you are willing to give everything for him/her. —Shakespeare
This quote from Shakespeare tells us that love is based on mutual giving and care.
When the confiding and listening between a man and a woman reaches this level, the emotion between them may have sublimated into love.
2. The "sense of boundaries" of behavior and behavior
1. From ordinary contact to intimate acts
Physical contact is an unavoidable phenomenon in the relationship between men and women.
But as time goes on, if the physical contact between two people becomes more frequent and intimate, such as holding hands, hugging, kissing, etc., then it may mean that they have behaved beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends.
This intimate gesture not only allows each other to feel the warmth and love of each other, but also invisibly deepens the relationship.
"The body is the best expression of love. —Anonymous
This quote tells us that physical contact is one of the important ways to express love.
When physical contact between a man and a woman reaches this level, the emotion between them may have sublimated into love.
2. Integration into each other's lives
In addition to physical contact, the behavior between men and women can also be manifested by integrating into each other's lives.
For example, they will begin to care about each other's daily life, hobbies, family background, etc., and try to fit into each other's life circle.
This kind of integration not only allows each other to understand each other better, but also invisibly deepens the relationship.
By the time two people start to appear frequently in each other's lives, the emotional connection between them may have grown stronger.
"Love is when two people integrate into each other's lives. —Anonymous
This quote tells us that love is built on mutual integration and care.
When men and women begin to integrate into each other's lives, the affection between them may have transcended the boundaries of ordinary friends.
summary
Interactions between men and women are often fraught with a variety of "sense of boundaries".
But when they start to cross these "sense of boundaries," it often means that they have a deeper emotional connection with each other. The depth of emotional communication and the intimacy of behavior are all important ways to express like.
But let's also be clear: these "sense of boundaries" are not absolute boundaries and everyone's situation is different.
Therefore, when judging the emotional relationship between men and women, we need to analyze and judge it in combination with the specific situation.
The most important thing is to maintain a sincere and frank attitude to face relationship problems, and respect each other's feelings and choices. Only in this way can we build healthy and beautiful relationships.