When people express their grief, crying is a stage.
What is the meaning of this stage depends on what the reason for crying is.
For example, some crying is because of loss, because of remembrance, because of regret, because I didn't do well enough, because my mistakes are too deep.
This kind of crying expresses the emotional pain, the so-called crying and laughing, such as the spring and autumn season.
I also cried a little, because I didn't take advantage of what I wanted to take, because my meanness was exposed, and because the dirty eyes hidden in my heart were clearly seen by people.
Their crying is neither regret nor acceptance of mistakes,
It's a hatred.
I saw a video of a high-speed rail occupying a seat before, because a customer forcibly occupied another person's seat and used insulting words to show his ignorance and low quality, and was later taken away by the high-speed rail management to deal with it, and the video ended with the tourist's "true confession" of crying and repentance.
Of course, the matter did not end soon, not long after the incident, the customer said on his online account that he was just acting at the time, acting for others to see, and he was "treated unfairly", and emphasized that "everyone is targeting me".
Between the words, there is no previous repentance, and he even deliberately laughs arrogantly in the "self-proof video", as if no one in this world understands him, and he is going to become a different fireworks.
Later, the video was deleted and the content of the account was emptied.
If you look at the development of the Internet environment today, I don't have any emotional touch to this kind of behavior, after all, there is everything on the Internet, and you can't even be sure if the other party is expressing his needs as a normal person in a normal way.
However, if I had jumped out of those extreme behaviors and only been a "silent ordinary person", if I had encountered such a thing, I would definitely not have shown myself in the way of "crying first and then laughing".
It's not because I'm thin-skinned, it's because I feel from the bottom of my heart that this kind of behavior is too stupid.
First of all, if I do something wrong, I don't cry to vent my fear of right and wrong.
Since you have done something wrong, accepting the fact of the mistake, apologizing seriously, admitting your mistake sincerely, and not making the same mistake again, is the best feedback for admitting your mistake.
I'm not going to laugh to prove me wrong.
Prove that it is right, pay attention to evidence, evidence based on facts, if it is expressed in the way of laughter, it seems to be a relaxed expression, I have my own reason, but in fact, this kind of laughter reflects the panic in my heart, and I cover up my heart with laughter.
Truth is not the act of understanding people.
Secondly, crying is not the same as accepting mistakes, laughing is not the same as being right, picking apart the "strange unspoken rules" in some network environments, and not understanding this point of view on the premise of attracting attention, in fact, it is not difficult for us to see that crying and laughing are based on the performance of right and wrong cognition.
Crying is a way to admit mistakes, but not "I cry to let people know how wronged I am." ”
Laughter is a statement to solve a problem, not "I laugh because none of you can understand me." ”
Reasoning first, appealing to emotions, not by appealing to emotions,
Through the emotional output, and then ask for "the truth that you must accept".
I can't cry because I don't dare to laugh.
I wanted to laugh, but because of my stupidity, I fell into the predicament of crying.
Nowadays, the Internet is like a mirror that reflects the various states of the world, and also magnifies many strange phenomena.
After laughing off, the audience gradually learned to discern, and in this large-scale "fault finding game" with the participation of the whole people, we may be able to learn to look at the online world more rationally.
Laughing and scolding, I understood the real routines behind those "startled".
Yes, those routines are dirty and vile, but they work,
So, we also understand a fact.
If it is difficult to reason, then cheating will become a "shortcut".