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When life comes to old age, many couples are separated for various reasons, how will they choose to live when they are single at this time?
Is it to live a free life alone, or to find someone to live with, or to hold a group and care for the elderly at home?
Every old man will have his own different choices, does a single man need to find someone to partner with in his old age? For this question, three old people have expressed their own answers.
Let's take a look, do their choices make life happy, and do you have the answer in your heart?
66-year-old Uncle Feng
I am Uncle Feng, 66 years old this year, single for 5 years. Personally, I think that when a man is single in his later years, he still needs to find a partner to live with.
I've always thought so, men and women are matched, work is not tiring, and when my wife was still there, my wife was responsible for the housework at home and took care of everything in the house.
I don't have to worry about anything, I just need to pay my wife every month, and my wife can take care of me very well.
However, after my wife left a few years ago, my life was completely chaotic, and I was no longer in order, but became worse and worse, which made me very uncomfortable.
For this reason, I found myself a partner, although not as beautiful as my wife, but my life has not become so bad anymore, and I am quite happy in my heart.
Sure enough, men still need to have a partner in their old age, who can take care of themselves and let themselves worry less, so that life will be more fun.
62-year-old Uncle Li,
I am Uncle Li, 62 years old this year, my life is coming to my old age, and I am ready to find a wife for myself when I am single. If nothing else, just for the following two points:
First, people need to be accompanied, two people can talk and chat together, and when they are sick, they will feel more secure to have someone by their side.
Second, the partner is very important for the elderly, and the color appetite is also, even in old age, men still have physiological needs, and it will be more appropriate to have a woman by their side at this time.
The older I get, the more afraid I am of being alone, and I also want to go to my children's house to care for the elderly, but after they live in their own homes for a while, I give up.
That's why I moved the idea of finding someone to partner with, not that I don't want to live alone, but the fear in my heart overcomes everything, and finding someone to partner with is what I want most, and I'm executing it.
70-year-old Uncle Lu
I am Uncle Lu, at the age of 70, I have been living with people for 6 years, and I have lived alone and with people in my later years.
I can tell you with certainty that it is best for a single man to find someone to live with in his old age. Only in this way can life be tasteful.
When I was just single, I didn't think about looking for it again, and I learned to do laundry, cook, do housework, and deal with family relationships.
During that time, my life was full of chickens and dogs, either the rice was not cooked, or the vegetables were burned, and the house was also messy, but in the past half a month, the family has basically not settled.
Later, I finally learned to do housework and cook, but I couldn't get rid of the emptiness in my heart, and I felt very cold and lonely.
During the day, you can still feel the hustle and bustle of the community, or the downtown area, but at night, you can only face loneliness by yourself, alone at home, and even talk has an echo.
Alas, life is boring, so I found myself a partner, two people together, not for money or anything, just to have someone to talk to, to be able to accompany each other.
My partner and wife are also very reasonable, I have not made excessive requests, and I am also very good to her, taking the initiative to give her pocket money, buy her gifts, and thank her for her dedication.
The two of us, you agree with my efforts, I understand your hard work, mutual respect, and life is relatively happy.
Compared with the state of living alone and partnering with two people, I think it is more appropriate for a single man to find someone to live with in his old age.
Write at the end
When people reach old age, do single men need to find someone to live with? The answer is certain, people still have to be happier in pairs, and at the same time, they can be less lonely, make life more exciting, and let them get a little warmth when they are sick and vulnerable.
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