392. After living for 40 years, the prescription for connoisseurship.
The human heart is unpredictable.
I used to think that I was a very close friend,
When I'm down,
She doesn't take me seriously anymore.
Later, I seriously thought about a question:
How do I appoint someone?
If I cultivate the truth, I don't need to know people.
After all, if I want to have a career, I need to hire people, so I have to do this kind of homework.
I reflect on the experience of living for 40 years, and I have come up with the following prescription:
- (1) See how he treats those who are lower than himself.
The gentleman treats everyone equally, while the villain pleases the top and despises the low.
- (2) See how he treats feelings.
When it comes to falling in love, the attitude in marriage reflects the inner self of a person.
- (3) Finally, look at his professional ability.
The above three points are examined respectively: conduct, internal force, and ability.
If all three are excellent, you can be boldly appointed and make friends with confidence.
These three points, one point is unqualified, they are not appointed, and they are not befriended.
393. The best actual combat of yin and yang transformation.
I used to be the point where I was PUA the most by others,
That is to say, I am sensitive, to say that I think too much.
It made me very depressed for a while, thinking it was my own problem.
After I became enlightened, I realized,
That's someone else's PUA my point.
The other party split his legs, I was aware of it, but there was no evidence,
He said I was sensitive and thought too much.
The other party has bad intentions towards me,
I noticed it, and the other party bit back,
Say I'm thinking too much.
Later, I jumped out of the entanglement of human nature and focused on my career.
I have found that the sensitivity of other people's mouths is my keen, unparalleled insight.
This point allows me to gain insight into opportunities, seize opportunities, and move towards glory step by step.
Thinking too much in other people's mouths is exactly my careful layout and planning.
It is precisely because of being careful and good at controlling risks that we can do the greatest business with the least amount of energy.
Cultivation can make the shortcomings in other people's mouths become my own sharp weapon, invincible, this is probably the best actual combat for the transformation of yin and yang.
394. Let your heart sink deeply.
When a person is nervous,
He'll feel like his heart is going to jump out.
Conversely, when a person feels,
His own heart sank deep into his belly,
This is deep stillness.
When I enter deep stillness,
Whatever I do, it's all right;
Whatever you want, come along;
Whatever the plan is, it is all in between;
Inner power, endless.
395. The best way to solve the problem is to ignore it.
When someone pours a basin of dirty water on your calm heart,
If you can't get angry, immediately reason with others,
The other party is unreasonable,
He just can't see you calm and wants you to be as impetuous as he is.
The best way to solve the problem is to ignore it.
Continuous precipitation,
Clarify your state of mind.
Your heart is like a pool of water,
Anyone can fluctuate you.
Your heart is like a lake of water,
A few people can interfere with you.
Your heart, like the sea,
No one can shock you,
In turn, you can shock anyone.
Inaction is not to tolerate and be afraid,
Rather, let yourself expand infinitely,
Finally, the power of the ten directions.
396. When I see others embarrassed, I don't gloat.
I'll take a clear stand,
The side that supports justice.
At the same time, I think: if this is the case for me, what should I do?
People are floating in the rivers and lakes, how can they not be stabbed?
Be mentally prepared and don't panic.
397, the king's lonely widow.
When you live more and more lonely,
There is no one around you who really understands you,
There is no one who can communicate deeply,
Two scenarios can arise:
One is that you are autistic, and the spiritual world is getting darker and darker.
The second is that you have transformed, and the spiritual world is getting brighter and brighter.
Are you self-autistic downward, or metamorphosis upward,
You don't need to be told by anyone,
Light knows the answer:
The dimmer the light, the more you sink.
The brighter the light, the lighter you are.