Ambiguity is a very top-notch relationship between men and women, if there is no love, love seems to be love is not love, and you want to get it and haven't pierced the layer of window paper, don't want to, and people can't stop.
The kind of mutual attraction and dare not truly express their affection for each other, just like a secret love, makes their hearts flutter, and it has a little more explicit than a secret love, which makes people feel more excited.
Therefore, it is often said that the best time between men and women is in the ambiguous period.
If a man and a woman cross the following four boundaries, it is confirmed that they are having an affair.
01
Say good morning and good night to each other
Saying good morning and good night to each other seems to be commonplace, but there is a deep meaning hidden in it.
When I woke up from sleep in the morning, as soon as I opened my eyes, the word "good morning" sent by the other party on my mobile phone, and my mood was instantly beautiful.
The party who sent the message first also just got up and opened their eyes, and the first thing they thought of was to send a "good morning" message to the other party, wanting to tell the other party that they were awake, and also wanting the first greeting the other party received to come from themselves.
And good night not only expresses concern for each other, but at the end of the day, when people's mood is the most relaxed, the person who can let themselves say good night must also be the person who thinks about it all the time.
Of course, ordinary friends will also say good morning and good night to each other, but that is only occasional, if two people say good morning and good night to each other for many days in a row, it means that the other party has occupied a very important position in their hearts.
02
Indirect physical contact
Compared with the direct physical contact between lovers, the "physical contact" of the ambiguous object is basically indirect.
For example, when walking together, take the opportunity to talk or joke, touch each other's bags and clothes with your hands, or secretly pick up each other's water glasses to drink when no one is around......
The clothes are worn by the other party for a long time, with the breath of the body, when touching, it seems to be able to feel the body temperature of the other party, there is the illusion of touching the other party's body, the warm and intimate feeling will make people's hearts beat faster, and drink water with the other party's water cup, as if you can feel the breath of the other party, it is equivalent to indirect kissing, and the feeling of being close will make people inexplicably excited.
Although these indirect physical contact does not have a substantial meaning, but at some point, it is even more heart-pounding than direct physical contact, because if it is a couple, all kinds of physical contact is very direct, without thinking too much, it lacks a sense of freshness, and between ambiguous objects, it is impossible to take physical contact as it should be, that sense of mystery and haze will make people want to be wrong, and finally an occasional indirect contact will make people feel like an electric shock, which makes people excited.
So if there is frequent indirect physical contact between a man and a woman, it is a very ambiguous sign that you already want to have everything in the other person.
03
Have a desire to share and share their daily life with each other
In modern society, everyone is busy, and no one wants to spend time chatting with an unrelated person, let alone showing their daily life to the other person.
What happened today, what happened to me, and what I heard again...... Although these things are small, they are also a person's more private things, and they will not be easily told to others, and because of the small things, when sharing with others, they will wonder if the other party will not care or laugh at themselves, just like the popular saying "Forget it, you must feel very boring".
Therefore, only when facing a special person, there will be no desire to share, and there will be no such and such psychological burden, I want the other party to understand myself, and I also want to convey the emotion of "you are different from others" through such sharing.
Therefore, when someone always sends you her daily routine, there is no need to guess, she must like you.
04
Take each other's names as only two people
When you like someone, you always want to call them one or more exclusive titles to express intimacy and show your unusual relationship.
In the ambiguous stage of two people, there will also be this kind of desire to give each other a special name that only belongs to the two people.
Compared with real couples who call each other "dear, baby, sweetheart......", etc., the special names in the ambiguous period are relatively less conspicuous and direct, but they also have a tacit understanding of the two of them.
For example, they will call each other "Little X, Mr. X......".
A girl called me "Mr. X", and it was really a moment of blood and excitement, and it was extremely beautiful.
If one day, the other party no longer calls your name, but adds a special word, then congratulations, you are already a special existence in the other person's heart.
The above are the 4 manifestations of ambiguity between men and women, to what extent have you and them reached?